missed connections

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    Jul 30, 2013 7:11 AM GMT
    I feel like I been having a lot of these lately! it sucks, it haunt you, you'll always regret them! what are some of yours?

    here are some of mine

    1 hot guy on the train smiled at me I smiled at him the srcond we saw each other. he came over talked to me introduced himself asked if I wanted to go to a part with him..... I said no cuz I was with a frd but I felt like an idiot. I should have gotten his number! he was so hot and nice!

    2 the other night at a party he let us in the building so we invited him to the party we were going to. I lost him but found him at the end of the night hung for a bit but I was really drunk do I dont remember how I lost him. but I remember his name lucca... I rembember cux I kept rhyming it lucca lucca like a balucca so I could remember. he was gorgeous and he was a actor in nyc too!

    3 the guy around my block. so I got my food from this place ard my house im in bum mode sunglasses cut up shirt gymshorts that were falling off. a I notice this cute guy staring at me. he crosses the street light a cig in front of me, then I start walking to my house which is less than 10 feet away, but my pants were falling off and I felt gross especially since I knew I was gonna binge out on the food im carrying. he follows me and I close my gate on him he looks at the gate and had such sad eyes I wanted to makeout with him so hed feel better. but I felt gross at the time so I didnt say anything.

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    Jul 30, 2013 7:35 AM GMT
    I flirted with an insecure gay teenager and that didn't go too well
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    Jul 30, 2013 7:07 PM GMT
    This weekend my rear derailleur on my bike exploded, threw the chain into my wheel then ripped it off the frame. So as I was looking at the mess and holding all the parts in my hands ready to cry, some really hot biker comes up to me and asks if I need help. So I said, no, I really don't think this can be fixed curbside haha. Then he started looking at it and even walked me a bit of the way home explaining the detailed mechanics behind what happened.

    I've always wanted to make a friend with a bike mechanic but I was too shy to say much and then we parted ways.
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    Jul 30, 2013 9:04 PM GMT
    I saw this really cute guy at one of my frat parties a few years ago. He was arguing politics with one of my friends, and I wanted to put in my two cents and introduced myself. Then I got his Facebook and started hanging out with him and now we're about to be on 5 years of being together.

    Oh wait...
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    Jul 30, 2013 9:08 PM GMT
    The_Tango saidI flirted with an insecure gay teenager and that didn't go too well


    How can you tell he was insecure? If he was awkward and unresponsive, he was most likely just not attracted to you but unsure of how to make you go away without hurting your feelings.

    My missed connection was...this one time I stayed in my house and didnt go anywhere except work my whole life.
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    Jul 30, 2013 9:17 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidThis weekend my rear derailleur on my bike exploded, threw the chain into my wheel then ripped it off the frame. So as I was looking at the mess and holding all the parts in my hands ready to cry, some really hot biker comes up to me and asks if I need help. So I said, no, I really don't think this can be fixed curbside haha. Then he started looking at it and even walked me a bit of the way home explaining the detailed mechanics behind what happened.

    I've always wanted to make a friend with a bike mechanic but I was too shy to say much and then we parted ways.


    you suck

    asked a guy to use his air pump, looking to make a biking buddy and I get: "You don't have one" and "some of us are here to ride".
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    Jul 30, 2013 9:20 PM GMT
    A few weeks ago, a cute cashier in the drug store smiled at me and I smiled back, as there was a clear vibe there. I wanted to say hello, but the customer ahead of me decided to pay in pennies and I had to go to another line that opened up. I'm pretty sure that was a missed opportunity.
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    Jul 30, 2013 10:02 PM GMT
    Comment: The solution: Remember Paper - that soft white stuff that people used to write on when kids still learned how to write in school? Get some cards printed up with your name/handle, email or phone, and have them to hand out in these situations. Most guys will still never contact you. But then you can obsess about why he doesn't call, instead of why you didn't have the nerve to pursue him at the time.
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    Jul 30, 2013 10:09 PM GMT
    AeroNalex said
    The_Tango saidI flirted with an insecure gay teenager and that didn't go too well


    How can you tell he was insecure? If he was awkward and unresponsive, he was most likely just not attracted to you but unsure of how to make you go away without hurting your feelings.

    My missed connection was...this one time I stayed in my house and didnt go anywhere except work my whole life.


    How can you make assumptions for a story you don't know?
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    Jul 30, 2013 10:25 PM GMT
    AeroNalex said

    My missed connection was...this one time I stayed in my house and didnt go anywhere except work my whole life.

    Perfect
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    Jul 30, 2013 10:34 PM GMT
    Dear Italian security guard at gated community that I go to every other day for work,

    Where did you go? You're hot. Date me.

    Thanx.
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    Jul 30, 2013 10:49 PM GMT
    I don't believe in "Missed Connections"

    If two people really feel the need to connect..they will!
    otherwise..it's just a series of contemplation..
    "What if".. 'What could have been'.
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    Jul 30, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    One time there was this one guy who I had a crush on, and he found out, but he started making fun of me because I was ugly and had the audacity to like him. Four years later we saw each other again! He asked me out for coffee and maybe a movie! and I was like!!

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    Jul 31, 2013 12:13 AM GMT
    Mesmer saidOne time there was this one guy who I had a crush on, and he found out, but he started making fun of me because I was ugly and had the audacity to like him. Four years later we saw each other again! He asked me out for coffee and maybe a movie! and I was like!!

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    Haha! Yes!