Trophy Husbands

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    Jul 31, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    With marriage equality on the rise, whose looking to be a Trophy Husbandicon_question.gif
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    Jul 31, 2013 3:17 AM GMT
    Not for me
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    Jul 31, 2013 3:26 AM GMT
    If I were Mae West reincarnated, I want my Paul Novak, Mickey Hargitay & Ed Fury trophy husbands of the day & harem of hot bodybuilders to fellatio & keep me young everyday icon_smile.gif .....
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    Jul 31, 2013 3:54 AM GMT
    What's the $alary (and $igning bonu$)?
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    Jul 31, 2013 3:56 AM GMT
    I wouldn't mind one...I would ONLY be willing to be one granted that it was the right cabinet ..
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    Jul 31, 2013 5:35 AM GMT
    Be a trophy husband? I'm more of a consolation prize. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 31, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    Everyone should strive to be a trophy husband, provided you recognize what a true trophy quality is (independent, motivated, employed, strong personal interests) as opposed to cliched "trophy" qualities such as gorgeous outside/hollow dumbshit stupid interior.
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    Jul 31, 2013 5:48 AM GMT
    Matiz saidEveryone should strive to be a trophy husband, provided you recognize what a true trophy quality is (independent, motivated, employed, strong personal interests) as opposed to cliched "trophy" qualities such as gorgeous outside/hollow dumbshit stupid interior.

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    Jul 31, 2013 5:51 AM GMT
    I'm in no position to have/be either ...

    But I'd rather has substance than a trophy husband.
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    Jul 31, 2013 11:25 AM GMT
    I'm too old to be a trophy husband (not "old" just "too old") but I wouldn't mind having one as soon as I become rich and famous.
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    Jul 31, 2013 11:38 AM GMT
    If I was looking I wouldn't want a trophy husband too much work just looking after myself
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    Jul 31, 2013 12:35 PM GMT
    xrichx saidBe a trophy husband? I'm more of a consolation prize. icon_lol.gif

    LOL! I was about to say "booby prize" about myself. icon_sad.gif

    But I did have 2 LTRs with younger guys who might have been considered trophies. One was a hunky actor in TV, movies & theatre (one time I got to share the stage with him in a play), 11 years younger than my 50, whom I later learned was also rather wealthy. But most guys didn't know that last part, just that he was good-looking. And that I was dog meat compared to him and wasn't in his league by either looks or age, so they figured they could make a play for him and easily push me out of the picture.

    The second LTR wasn't as hunky though still appealing, but much more wealthy. A fact I again didn't learn until I'd been dating him for a few weeks. And once more the gay vultures began circling, when word of his money & prominence got out (he was new to our community, with his background unknown at first, and I was the first to "land" him before the others realized what a rich prize he really was).

    He loved the flattery these guys would heap on him, and he started cheating on me. But then he'd admit it to me, tell me he realized I was the better catch after all, and I'd stay with him. Then he'd do it again. Until I tired of not having a monogamous relationship, just being his "comfort BF" and insurance so he could play fast & loose with the fawning guys who thought they could have him for their own trophy case, the "pick of the litter" in our small gay community, the top dog.

    I learned trophy husbands are not for me, even when I've managed to snag one. Because I don't wanna hafta compete all the time to hang onto one, and because my limited experience tells me they don't make good husband material. Just a trophy and nothing more, like a champion's cup you only get to keep until the next guy wins it.
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    Jul 31, 2013 1:36 PM GMT
    Of course, a "trophy husband" doesn't necessarily mean he's someone handsome and shallow. It means an older person getting someone younger and great-looking more because of his power or wealth than his personality.
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    Jul 31, 2013 1:44 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidOf course, a "trophy husband" doesn't necessarily mean he's someone handsome and shallow. It means an older person getting someone younger and great-looking more because of his power or wealth than his personality.
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    True, a trophy wife in the straight world usually means being an attractive and younger accessory for an Alpha male.

    But in the gay world I see "trophy" as being a bit broader, basically a guy that others envy you having, whether for his looks, age, fame, money, or any combination of those.

    BTW, in that pic you supplied, both of those guys would be trophies to me. It just seems unfair to the rest of us when 2 trophies hook up, makes the market more scarce.
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    Jul 31, 2013 1:48 PM GMT
    "BTW, in that pic you supplied, both of those guys would be trophies to me. It just seems unfair to the rest of us when 2 trophies hook up, makes the market more scarce."

    I know! I was searching for a pic of a young handsome doctor but when that one came up, it was so hot I had to post it. I was waiting for someone to comment. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 31, 2013 2:17 PM GMT
    spgem saidIf I were Mae West reincarnated, I want my Paul Novak, Mickey Hargitay & Ed Fury trophy husbands of the day & harem of hot bodybuilders to fellatio & keep me young everyday icon_smile.gif .....

    An apocryphal story about Mae West is that another service her muscle boys provided her, besides on-stage backup for her live shows late in her career, was providing the key ingredient for a homemade concoction. (Forgive the slight homophonous pun)

    She allegedly mixed their semen into her facial cream, believing it was rejuvenating. It's also implied that she personally "milked" them for it, and may have taken some facial applications directly. An interesting story, if true.

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    Jul 31, 2013 6:24 PM GMT
    Who wouldn't want a trophy husband?

    Most of ya'll are full of shit. Why can't I have a decent, kind, loving, funny, smart man who is ALSO hot????


    Damn, I question if some of ya'll have ever been in a relationship or just that you are so ugly that you have accepted the fact that you won't be able to land an attractive guy.


    SMH at most of you....icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 31, 2013 7:06 PM GMT
    ...the hell?
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    Jul 31, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidWho wouldn't want a trophy husband?

    Most of ya'll are full of shit. Why can't I have a decent, kind, loving, funny, smart man who is ALSO hot????


    Damn, I question if some of ya'll have ever been in a relationship or just that you are so ugly that you have accepted the fact that you won't be able to land an attractive guy.


    SMH at most of you....icon_confused.gif


    Someone is super crabby today. icon_sad.gif

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    Jul 31, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    showme said
    jmusmc85 saidWho wouldn't want a trophy husband?

    Most of ya'll are full of shit. Why can't I have a decent, kind, loving, funny, smart man who is ALSO hot????


    Damn, I question if some of ya'll have ever been in a relationship or just that you are so ugly that you have accepted the fact that you won't be able to land an attractive guy.


    SMH at most of you....icon_confused.gif


    Someone is super crabby today. icon_sad.gif



    Que?

    I'm fine today actually.

    Just annoys me when people assume the worst just because a guy is fit and attractive.
  • outbackdude

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    Jul 31, 2013 7:59 PM GMT
    LOL @ this thread
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    Aug 01, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    *This* thread?
    Not the "speedos or trunk" thread or the
    "great article - very true" thread?
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    Aug 01, 2013 12:14 AM GMT
    outbackdude saidperpetual LOL @ this every thread


    fix'd
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    Aug 01, 2013 12:23 AM GMT
    Well, he kind of snickered when I asked him if I was a trophy husband.

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    Now he's saying I'm a prize. icon_rolleyes.gif