I just caught my bf in a HUGE lie.

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    Jul 31, 2013 8:38 PM GMT
    How can I trust him again? My heart is broken and I'm so hurt that I can hardly speak to him. I was totally invested in this relationship. I just traveled across the country to meet his entire family and to make matters worse, we bought engagement rings yesterday. Please don't ask what the lie was because I don't want to put that on the internet. I just need some advise and comments from other guys to help me sort this out.

    He admitted that he lied to me. He said he was sorry but I am humiliated. I am hurt and now I'm not sure where my head is at.

    I would like to hear anyone's comments that might help me make a smart decision as to how to proceed. I really appreciate it. icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 31, 2013 9:49 PM GMT
    failscarf saidYou done this in a completely terrible way:

    1. You made a sock.
    2. You used a fake pic.
    3. You wouldn't tell us what they lie was.
    4. You assumed we would give good advice.
    5. You assumed anyone would reply. I mean take a look at my rainbow buttholes and chiapet threads. Tumblrweeds.....

    A tough assessment, perhaps accurate on all counts.

    For my part, the unspoken nature of the lie is crucial to this. Until we know that, "advise [sic] and comments" are impossible.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 31, 2013 9:56 PM GMT
    So, you're both liars?icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 31, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    guess it depends on what he lied about. Dump him, I promise I will never lie to you... hehe icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 31, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    51 really??? If you are real, you've aged very nicely. What was your question again?
  • Fargo

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    Jul 31, 2013 11:36 PM GMT
    Forget about it today. Sleep, then when you wake up you will feel better and you'll be able to better judge what to do next.
  • WApilot

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    Aug 02, 2013 8:13 AM GMT
    it's hard for anyone to give 'good advice' when you don't really give any information. That lie that he told is rather important. If he lied about hanging out with an ex... that's important but something you should talk to him about. But, we all can come up with examples of what may've happened but, until you talk about it, nobody can help you.