Jul 31, 2013 10:20 PM GMT
hey all,
I am just curious if there is a lot of gay people like me, as the sexual side of a relationship"especially if it is long term" is not the thing that I care the most in the relation.
I am very romantic & emotional,& I have a strong desire & need for the other guy to hug me & look at me & smile for me & keep hugging me and sleep with each other hugging and holding our hands etc... without having sex ...etc(I feel embarrassed to express my feelings and I don,t like to express them but for the purpose of clarifying the issue)
and I noticed that this is a turn off for a lot of guys (maybe just in the Middle East where I live) who just care for sex and they find this weird or they misunderstand these things as if the person has a sort of sexual dysfunction or something(although they may find me very hot,but they don,t like it)>>which upset me a lot because I think the most important thing about gay relations is emotional connection between the two guys in the relation.
I will be happy to know your opinions
thank u all
I am just curious if there is a lot of gay people like me, as the sexual side of a relationship"especially if it is long term" is not the thing that I care the most in the relation.
I am very romantic & emotional,& I have a strong desire & need for the other guy to hug me & look at me & smile for me & keep hugging me and sleep with each other hugging and holding our hands etc... without having sex ...etc(I feel embarrassed to express my feelings and I don,t like to express them but for the purpose of clarifying the issue)
and I noticed that this is a turn off for a lot of guys (maybe just in the Middle East where I live) who just care for sex and they find this weird or they misunderstand these things as if the person has a sort of sexual dysfunction or something(although they may find me very hot,but they don,t like it)>>which upset me a lot because I think the most important thing about gay relations is emotional connection between the two guys in the relation.
I will be happy to know your opinions
thank u all