Why do most white guys use me for sex?

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    Aug 02, 2013 12:18 PM GMT
    Hey Guys

    I have been really in love with a white guy. He told me that he loves me and he promised me the world. But everytime someone asks him who I am then he blocks me from every social application, and then he avoids me, am I ugly? is he ashamed of me?

    We broke up because he found another guy, whom he introduced to his friends and family, when they had a little break, he asked me for sex like I'm some hoe,
    I said no,

    another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him, and it turned out he used me for sex..... then a week later I was told that he is engaged

    another white guy invited me, saying that he is "curious " , I mean. do I look like some goat that makes him think that he can experiment on me?, I am really really attracted to white guys and I just wish that there are really decent guys out there who doesn't date because of the skin colour,

    is there any tips or something to help me change the way they see me? or is it just by nature?
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    Aug 02, 2013 12:42 PM GMT
    heeeyy
    I'm nooo slut lol, that was a phase
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    Aug 02, 2013 12:43 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidWell, for starters, you could cover up that tattoo on your back. You know, the one that says "Welcome".



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    Aug 02, 2013 12:47 PM GMT
    Out of topic but- You look like slim's twin brother, that or younger brother!

    Alright back on topic: I think you're just making yourself a little bit too available.

    p.s. I totally saw that tattoo.

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    Aug 02, 2013 12:50 PM GMT
    Pretty sure it's definitely because they're white. Must be in the genes.

    Sorry bout us.
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    Aug 02, 2013 12:50 PM GMT
    Oh Nope I have no idea who that is, I don't know whether that's a compliment or not?.

    Oh yeh I removed those "welcoming" pictures
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    Aug 02, 2013 1:05 PM GMT
    RowRow saidHey Guys

    I have been really in love with a white guy. He told me that he loves me and he promised me the world. But everytime someone asks him who I am then he blocks me from every social application, and then he avoids me, am I ugly? is he ashamed of me?

    We broke up because he found another guy, whom he introduced to his friends and family, when they had a little break, he asked me for sex like I'm some hoe,
    I said no,

    another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him, and it turned out he used me for sex..... then a week later I was told that he is engaged

    another white guy invited me, saying that he is "curious " , I mean. do I look like some goat that makes him think that he can experiment on me?, I am really really attracted to white guys and I just wish that there are really decent guys out there who doesn't date because of the skin colour,

    is there any tips or something to help me change the way they see me? or is it just by nature?


    What are your experiences with men of other races?
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    Aug 02, 2013 1:14 PM GMT
    I have dated like two men of other races and they are super romantic, great lovers, The one actually gave me whatever I wanted, but as a young gay boy I'm really attracted by physical features. and at this point white skin is What I really want, the way it feels, looks, their hair, eyes,

    Maybe Im comparing guys to my first? he is white

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    Aug 02, 2013 1:24 PM GMT
    RowRow saidI have dated like two men of other races and they are super romantic, great lovers, The one actually gave me whatever I wanted, but as a young gay boy I'm really attracted by physical features. and at this point white skin is What I really want, the way it feels, looks, their hair, eyes,

    Maybe Im comparing guys to my first? he is white



    Perhaps you should reflect on yourself for a while before entering in any more relationships.
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    Aug 02, 2013 1:26 PM GMT
    gayinterest saidPretty sure it's definitely because they're white. Must be in the genes.

    Sorry bout us.


    Hi five
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    Aug 02, 2013 1:40 PM GMT
    This is gonna be a bumpy ride. Here we go!

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    Aug 02, 2013 1:45 PM GMT
    You can only be used if you allow yourself to be used. The answer lies with you.
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    Aug 02, 2013 2:50 PM GMT
    Because you let them .........
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    Aug 02, 2013 2:57 PM GMT


    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?
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    Aug 02, 2013 3:00 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    He was compelled to date him because he was white, didnt you know ? If a white man comes into the proximity of a person of african descent ( or any ethnic minority for that matter ) they are obligated to want them ! thats why so many guys of color want white guys !! thats the secret !!!
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    Aug 02, 2013 3:01 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    (Twinky, skinny White guy walks into all-black gay bar)

    I am White!! Worship me!!

    (A whole crowd of black gay men all get on their knees and worship him all at once.)
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    Aug 02, 2013 3:05 PM GMT
    PR_GMR said
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    (Twinky, skinny White guy walks into all-black gay bar)

    I am White!! Worship me!!

    (A whole crowd of black gay men all get on their knees and worship him all at once.)


    yeh?..... well the other guy who typed in red told you.....

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    Aug 02, 2013 3:06 PM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    He was compelled to date him because he was white, didnt you know ? If a white man comes into the proximity of a person of african descent ( or any ethnic minority for that matter ) they are obligated to want them ! thats why so many guys of color want white guys !! thats the secret !!!


    LOL!

    Perhaps then if the OP wore dark brown tinted glasses whenever he went out all white people would look brown and the the evil emanations of white skin would be thwarted. icon_biggrin.gif


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    Aug 02, 2013 3:09 PM GMT
    RowRow said
    PR_GMR said
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    (Twinky, skinny White guy walks into all-black gay bar)

    I am White!! Worship me!!

    (A whole crowd of black gay men all get on their knees and worship him all at once.)


    yeh?..... well the other guy who typed in red told you.....



    Erm, RowRow, I think the type in red was mocking you. That you would fall for a guy solely because of skin colour is rather superficial and if I may dare say, only skin deep.
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    Aug 02, 2013 3:13 PM GMT
    The OP says :
    "He was compelled to date him because he was white, didnt you know ? If a white man comes into the proximity of a person of african descent ( or any ethnic minority for that matter ) they are obligated to want them ! thats why so many guys of color want white guys !! thats the secret !!!"

    Bloody oath !! What ideology is that ! icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 02, 2013 3:17 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    He was compelled to date him because he was white, didnt you know ? If a white man comes into the proximity of a person of african descent ( or any ethnic minority for that matter ) they are obligated to want them ! thats why so many guys of color want white guys !! thats the secret !!!


    LOL!

    Perhaps then if the OP wore dark brown tinted glasses whenever he went out all white people would look brown and the the evil emanations of white skin would be thwarted. icon_biggrin.gif




    Thats an excellent idea ! I constantly break the rules though, my hot list is mostly guys of my race lol... uh oh i'm in trouble icon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 02, 2013 3:28 PM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    He was compelled to date him because he was white, didnt you know ? If a white man comes into the proximity of a person of african descent ( or any ethnic minority for that matter ) they are obligated to want them ! thats why so many guys of color want white guys !! thats the secret !!!


    LOL!

    Perhaps then if the OP wore dark brown tinted glasses whenever he went out all white people would look brown and the the evil emanations of white skin would be thwarted. icon_biggrin.gif




    Thats an excellent idea ! I constantly break the rules though, my hot list is mostly guys of my race lol... uh oh i'm in trouble icon_twisted.gif


    Well I guess that depends on what kind of racing you like to do. Running, cycling, auto, skiing, skating? Sounds competitive. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 02, 2013 3:31 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    He was compelled to date him because he was white, didnt you know ? If a white man comes into the proximity of a person of african descent ( or any ethnic minority for that matter ) they are obligated to want them ! thats why so many guys of color want white guys !! thats the secret !!!


    LOL!

    Perhaps then if the OP wore dark brown tinted glasses whenever he went out all white people would look brown and the the evil emanations of white skin would be thwarted. icon_biggrin.gif




    Thats an excellent idea ! I constantly break the rules though, my hot list is mostly guys of my race lol... uh oh i'm in trouble icon_twisted.gif


    Well I guess that depends on what kind of racing you like to do. Running, cycling, auto, skiing, skating? Sounds competitive. icon_biggrin.gif



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    Aug 02, 2013 3:47 PM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said
    CopperDevil said
    meninlove said

    "another situation is when a white guy practically forced me to date him."

    How does one go about doing that?


    He was compelled to date him because he was white, didnt you know ? If a white man comes into the proximity of a person of african descent ( or any ethnic minority for that matter ) they are obligated to want them ! thats why so many guys of color want white guys !! thats the secret !!!


    LOL!

    Perhaps then if the OP wore dark brown tinted glasses whenever he went out all white people would look brown and the the evil emanations of white skin would be thwarted. icon_biggrin.gif




    Thats an excellent idea ! I constantly break the rules though, my hot list is mostly guys of my race lol... uh oh i'm in trouble icon_twisted.gif


    Well I guess that depends on what kind of racing you like to do. Running, cycling, auto, skiing, skating? Sounds competitive. icon_biggrin.gif



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    Aug 02, 2013 9:28 PM GMT
    Huh!
    ..OP..
    I think you need a bit of guidance. icon_neutral.gif

    ..This is not an issue of "White Men" using you.
    This is about your lack of responsibility in protecting yourself AND making overall poor decisions.

    .. There is something about your psychological profile that encourages you to perceive yourself as.. "Prey" or "Helpless" or "A Victim" and this should be your focus.

    Choose better boyfriends!
    If the men you choose..use and abuse you!
    ..Admit to yourself ..

    "I have no clue how to choose a a guy that's right for me"
    ^ ^ ^ ^
    Start here!