Is this a date in gay world?

  • Onemoresummer

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    Aug 04, 2013 4:18 PM GMT

    I met this guy at a club last night.
    We'd talked before on Grindr.
    Anyway, we met at the club with the obvious intention of hooking up.
    We did about an hour into it, went back to mine and did it (alas rather briefly as we were both drunk)
    We did it again in the morning and then he suggested we go out for brunch.
    We spent about an hour talking etc and then I dropped him home.
    It was a bit awkward I'm not sure if he wanted a kiss but I said " have a nice day" twice.

    Anyway, what's next...not sure if i wanna just have a FWB or maybe something more.
    What should I do now?
  • Fable

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    Aug 04, 2013 4:31 PM GMT
    You dot even know what you want so this thread is pointless.
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    Aug 04, 2013 6:33 PM GMT
    figure out what you want first.

    Don't question things too much. let it flow. If you feel like seeing him call him, if not don't.
  • Bunjamon

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    Aug 04, 2013 7:38 PM GMT
    You're in a position to ask him out again if you want, and it sounds like he'll say yes. If all you want is to hook up, make sure it's clear from the onset so he doesn't get a different impression. Then it's up to him.
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    Aug 04, 2013 9:37 PM GMT
    Dnt get why u confused, u already gave him the chocolate box or u exploired his i dnt know. but what was the agreement anyway?????
  • LJay

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    Aug 04, 2013 9:51 PM GMT
    The first thing you should do is to try and remember his name.
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    Aug 04, 2013 10:25 PM GMT
    Msg him and ask for an official date?

    This time .. a bit more formal?
    Wine him dine him, and then.. 69 him!icon_biggrin.gif

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    Aug 04, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    Onemoresummer said
    .....It was a bit awkward I'm not sure if he wanted a kiss but I said " have a nice day" twice.
    What should I do now?


    He probably thinks you never want to see him again. "Have a nice day" is the most dismissive thing you could possibly say after you've just slept with someone.
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    Aug 04, 2013 10:59 PM GMT
    Everyone else has the advice covered so I will just say that I clicked on the topic hoping that "Gay World" was a theme park.
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    Aug 04, 2013 11:06 PM GMT
    No it was not a "date," but far better. You got sex at the first encounter. Now you two get to decide if you want to get to know each other better (or not).
  • Onemoresummer

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    Aug 05, 2013 1:39 PM GMT
    I messaged him today and just how rest of day went etc.
    Ge responded saying "good etc" but the on conversation only lasted 4 texts in total.
    Not interested?
  • IAmTheOneWhoK...

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    Aug 05, 2013 1:43 PM GMT
    It probably only lasted 4 texts because he didn't understand what you were typing.