Have you tried hitting someone up on here that's NOT your typical type???

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    Sep 12, 2007 8:53 PM GMT
    Has anyone not necessarily lowered your standards as much as just tried someone different? You know the whole "diamond in the rough" thing? I hope I'm making sense here..
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    Sep 12, 2007 10:21 PM GMT
    no
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    Sep 12, 2007 10:56 PM GMT
    Ahhh...you are DEFINITELY not a "diamond in the rough"

    whew*

    Also, many of the people I think look great turn out to be about average by other people so I don't think my opinion counts, sorry ;D
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    Sep 12, 2007 10:57 PM GMT
    All the time! How low can you go?
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    Sep 13, 2007 1:56 AM GMT
    my taste varies the way my fantasies do.
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    Sep 13, 2007 8:02 AM GMT
    You know i rarely find myself looking at guys outside of my norm but lately its been happening alot. Just last night I went to grab a drink from the store and I saw this really hot guy in a mariachi outfit (i guess the gruop stopped in for some muchies or something) and I was like DAMN! Note: I normally like only white or light complicted guys and I normally don't find hispanics attractive but lately thats been changing. Granted the guy Im in to right now is light complected he's also Spaniard so I dont know.. I guess I just like 'em cultured or something. but then I do I explain that ghetto guy from the mall the other day? queerness. I need out of this shit town.
  • GQjock

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    Sep 13, 2007 10:22 AM GMT
    On careful review of my past BF's and most of my hook-up's they almost look the same
    ..the waspy presbyterian type
    I think I'm in a man rut...
    any leather daddies out there? lol
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    Sep 13, 2007 4:16 PM GMT
    what's the point?
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    Sep 16, 2007 2:51 PM GMT
    yes, and it was awesome,,;)
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    Sep 16, 2007 3:07 PM GMT
    I don't mean for this to come across as snarky, but ...

    Why would you try hitting up someone who isn't your type? I think that most men on here have a good idea as to what turns them on mentally, physically, emotionally, yada yada. Personally, I don't see much of a point in contacting someone who doesn't have something ... stimulating about their profile whether that be a witty profile, a cute dog, or a wickedly hot sexy sweaty torso that makes you want to ... well, you get the idea.
  • zakariahzol

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    Sep 16, 2007 3:33 PM GMT
    Never but I know other guy who did it.

    This guy do it to feed their ego. It a sick psycological problem. Especially if they are hot and desirable. So they hit on some unattracive fellow and enjoy all the attention while paying hard to get.

    As and older and mature person I have come across this sicko game played by younger guys to me. I usually can tell if a guy really are into me or playing game with me. Years of playing this flirting game make me experience enough in this department.
  • cdnclub

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    Sep 18, 2007 4:55 PM GMT
    One of the hottest guys I ever dated was someone that initially I didn’t think was attractive. He had the wrong colour hair, the wrong kind of skin tone, was the wrong age range, etc… (I do have a broad range of guys I like) ..Stupid as it may sound, the way he carried himself was very sexy, he ad an amazing smile, was great to talk to, and inside of 5 min of meeting him I realised he was HOT!!..This was kind of recently so I didn’t even know that could happen..now I keep my options wide open just in case it might happen again.
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    Sep 19, 2007 4:17 AM GMT
    Funnily enough, I don't really have a "type". Something just has to click for me. And I haven't hit anyone up on here because I live on the other side of the world.
  • zakariahzol

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    Sep 20, 2007 11:54 AM GMT
    Cronker,

    You and me alike. Why is all those good looking blokes live on the other side of the Pacific Ocean.
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    Sep 20, 2007 12:04 PM GMT
    I don't really have a type either...but then, I'm not looking for anything more than friendship on here (or anywhere else for that matter), though I can be kind of flirty :)

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    Sep 20, 2007 1:14 PM GMT
    I dont really have a "type"...I like em tall..I like em short...I like em muscular..I like me thin...I like em bald...I like long hair...I like brown eyes, blue eyes, green eyes...I like em white, or yellow or black...

    If I have a type....its someone who is HONEST, LOYAL, and DRUG FREE!!! Have a big heart...thats what matters most...

    Party boys and Circuit Queens are definitely NOT MY TYPE and I would NEVER go for one!!!
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    Sep 20, 2007 2:12 PM GMT
    How often has that diamond turned out to be only a piece of glass. I always start giving any new acquaintance the benefit of the doubt. It's a trust issue to me. Do the actions match the talk?

    I guess an example would be if I met someone who said they were looking to achieve some goal but iI later realized that the total effort they were putting into it was 'wishing really hard', then that would be a bit of a givaway.

    I do understand that everyone has their own rate of achieving their goals.

    I guess it's up to the individual.

    As for what I like in an individual it's less about what I want in someone than what I don't want or won't accept (Addiction, lack of compassion, stagnant development, etc.)