WHAT'S WRONG WITH SOME PEOPLE? Jmusmc85's brush with a cray cray!!!

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    Aug 07, 2013 7:16 AM GMT
    Hey guys!icon_biggrin.gif

    I get quite a few emails from people on here, and unless I know you, I will ignore 99% of them. Well today I got an unusual email from a RJ'er and decided to try and be polite for a change....and this is what I get.

    And yeah, I'm calling him out and don't really care. The world needs to see how off his rocker this guy is...




    No bitch. YOU reached out to me with your stupid questions. Remember you contacted me first with this bullshit. I never had any interest in hearing from you.

    And stop comparing yourself to me. We are nothing alike. Judging from what you wrote, I am not "hateful, possessed, or demonic". The worst I get is being sarcastic and a wiseass. You are just plain manipulative and dramatic.

    Get a grip dude, seriously...

    ---- FROM DarkLight Aug 07, 2013 at 2:55 AM
    Wow, when you have "time" young one really, read what I typed. You asked me a loaded question at the end, I gave you an elaborate intelligent answer. You've got some serious growing up to do. What a waste, "whether you see that or not."

    ---- FROM jmusmc85 Aug 06, 2013 at 11:50 PM
    Jesus fuckin Christ dude I don't even wanna read all that shit. I skimmed it over, but come on!!!Seriously, do you reach out to each and every person who strikes your interest with a Dr. Phil style assiment of their life?

    Either way, if you WERE anything like me, which I doubt you are, you would know that your opinion of me means shit unless I actually value your opinion which I don't.

    I only responded in hopes that you would eventually turn out to be a somewhat sane person. It turns out you are just another creepy dude on the Internet. I think I'll just go back to ignoring all the weirdos like you.

    SMH... Why do I even bother... Ugh...

    ---- FROM DarkLight Aug 07, 2013 at 2:41 AM
    Lol, my God. Your a therapist's dream come true. Well, it's not that your life "concerns" me. It's just that on some level I can relate to a lot of what I saw written in your profile "however vague and in-discriptive" that may have been to others that stop at just your pictures and all other comprehension leaves as they're off to the next page. It however came AFTER I saw your initial comment on the forum.

    Obviously there was something you initially felt in relation to the topic of "tired of being lonely" given you stated "God knows you want to be in one" relationship wise and as you again stated, "for the right reasons." Which makes sense and I would completely agree with you as well as understand where you're coming from. BUT I don't see that happening ANYTIME soon and here's why. "If it matters to you."

    This is what I get and sense:

    1. You're high maintenance for starters and what's worse is you get off on being a "bitch" to others, because not only can you and have the freedom to do so, you can then "weed" out the unworthy that don't cut it or measure up in your standards of what you expect, thus in retrospect when you do find the "one" that's perfect for you or what you deem as "perfect" enough then you've gotten the best there is and thus consider yourself and want to be seen as "special, unique, and different" than your friends and others who you look at with distain because they're jumping from guy to guy with no direction or sense of what they want and are most likely "giving it up" in the process to whom ever is the "new" one for the next few months.

    2. Trust issues and letting others in. Cautious or not, that's a good politically correct way of putting it. You simply don't wanna be exposed or hurt again like however you were before. That's where a lot of the queeny "bitchiness" comes in and trust you don't have to be strutting down the block in glitter, make-up, and heals to be advertising all of that in another form which is emotional and introverted - which would explain the passiveness "in the relationship." You remind me of the 80's song "the warrior" with that madness. Yeah, at some point one may make an honest effort to get through to you whether your "in it or not" but given it was mutual you're still gonna have to work with the person your with in some kind of compromise or else you will NEVER get anywhere. And being with someone in the long run as you say is more than just tolerating them and being catered to, "since you've presented nothing that you'd bring to the table except what YOU want and your ideals." So I'm gonna guess all in all if someone is with you, you're the center of attention until there's a burnout from one or both.

    3. The "perfect guy fantasy" is something you only see on tv dearest. He's not coming and won't be. Regardless of what you think is a "perfect guy" guess what? The only thing that's constant besides death is change. You bet a lot of the things you think matter or are important now, wait until you live and explore a little more in dealing with people and life, verses what's real from the bullshit.

    Just a few things I wanted to break down. Now it's cute that you think I'm so endorsed into you as a person. I'm not, really. I don't know you, we've never met in person, it's only a single website that has connected us to the here and now. But, I see a lot of myself now and who I use to be in the shit you wrote. Just wanted to know in writing you (personally) if YOU had something more than what so many others may think and are otherwise dismissive "in knowing you" or if this is in fact your full capacity as a person on and offline. If so, then I guess, I'd be wasting my time.


    You decide that. Deuces. ;-)

    ---- FROM jmusmc85 Aug 06, 2013 at 6:26 PM
    Oh hi there.

    I usually get tons of messages from wackos on here and ignore 99% of them but it seems like you took a lot of time to actually read into this so the least I can do is respond....

    First off, I wouldn't exactly say I'm scared as shit to let anybody in, I'm just cautious as to who I let in. I never really understood the concept of dating. If I'm going to take a chance with a guy, I want to be in it for the long run. I've seen friends fall into the trap of being so into a guy thinking they are "the one" only to break up 2 months later. Rinse and repeat with the next guy. I can do nothing but roll my eyes at them. I've only had 2 boyfriends my life and with both of them I was in it for the long run. Yes, I want to get married and settle down and have a white picket fence. If you don't want that either then you are wasting my time.

    Also, TBH, I want the total package. God knows I ain't perfect and have flaws, but I can still find a man who is at least perfect for me...

    Since I've been broke up with my last bf (of 6 years) I have only met 2 men who I thought I had an instant connection with. The first one ended up dying unexpectedly and the other who I met recently ended up moving to LA for work. I have wrote about them both on here on various occasions. For them even though they had their own issues, were everything I wanted in a potential partner. But in life, somethings are just out of your control. So I would rather wait, than just settle down for the sake of being in a relationship. God knows I want to be in one, but I want to be in one for the right reasons.

    Also, I would not consider myself ultra fem. Most people who meet me do not get the stereotypical gay "vibes". I have said many times that I do like dominant men and have no problem admiting that. I usually find myself being the passive one in a relationship. It's not some deep, dark daddy issues I have. I just like being surrounded by strong, powerful men. So sue me. That doesn't mean I want to be a woman or want to be in some dom/sub relationship. It is what it is....


    That is all..."for now"....


    P.S. Why does my life concern you so much?

    ---- FROM DarkLight Aug 06, 2013 at 2:57 PM
    You wrote: "I'm alone because when it comes to re
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:19 AM GMT
    This was darklight's first email to me....

    ---- FROM DarkLight Aug 06, 2013 at 2:57 PM
    You wrote: "I'm alone because when it comes to relationships I'm completely superficial and have incredibly high standards. And I'm also kind of an asshole." From an op's poster "Tired of Being Alone."

    Now at first like many I'm sure, when I saw that response I thought "typical douche." But then I decided to see past what you wrote and have on your profile and got another message. I'm gonna be straight forward and boldly direct in saying you're scared as FUCK to let anyone in and really get to know you verses you actually liking and even loving them in return. Anyone that says or writes what you do screams, "Back The FucK Off" with high defenses in place. The reason you maybe more superficial or have high standards as you say in relationships is because the person you're with is a threat, because if they weren't why would you have liked them enough to be with them in the first place?

    Draw you in, push you back mentality. I think you set a high standard for yourself and are never happy with the results. You may think you are, but there's always something missing and you're always wanting more. You strike me as someone whose hyper fem, but not obnoxiously flaming. I think you feel you need to be conquered and controlled, because a lot of the time you do most of it with other people. You may find your match one day, that is all I have "for now."


    ;-)
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:28 AM GMT
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    I really dislike when people (that dont know you) think that it's their job to evaluate your life and tell you what you're doing wrong.
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:31 AM GMT
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    I really dislike when people (that dont know you) think that it's their job to evaluate your life and tell you what you're doing wrong.



    YASSS!!!


    And look at his profile!!!

    http://www.realjock.com/profile?id=740308

    This is taken directly from his profile of what he describes himself as. He makes Hitler look like Mr. Rogers....icon_eek.gif

    "Angelic, demonic, possessed, invoked, summoned, dark, mysterious, humorous, intelligent, seductive, sexy, sensual, lustful, domineering, classy, shaken, light-hearted, sensitive, serious, broken, battered, bitter, vengeful, secretive, submissive, revealing, healing, creative, courageous, willful, spiteful, dirty, evil, wicked, unmerciful, collected, connected, protective, assertive, gracious, giving, genuine, willing, hopeful, hurtful, destroyer, ravaging, devouring, selfish, conceited, deceitful, depressed, unhappy, unloving, regretful, remorseful, soul searching, illuminant, brilliant, aspiring, wondrous, efficient, responsible, calculated, coordinated, lost, insane, a mess, dangerous, hateful, degrading, perverted, ruined, twisted, agressive, challenging, competitive, compelled, constructive, critical, compassionate, caring, perfectionist, glorified, humble, defeated, destructive, devalued, unholy, unrighteous, predestined, watchful, embracing, accepting, unknowing, scared, exposed, peaceful, restless, READY."

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    Aug 07, 2013 7:31 AM GMT
    Awwww! You have an admirer, JM. Read between the lines! He's really infatuated with you and is on the verge of suicide if he can't have you. And, because he knows he can't have you out of his misplaced sociopathic love, he must destroy you. Because, if he can't have you then NOBODY should have you.











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    Aug 07, 2013 7:33 AM GMT
    And he's friends with PAZZY!!!!!icon_eek.gificon_eek.gif


    THAT EXPLAINS IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:45 AM GMT
    DarkLight... wasn't that a Reaper thing?
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:47 AM GMT
    Incendiary saidDarkLight... wasn't that a Reaper thing?


    I don't think so.

    It's just some ugly loser who thought he could get in my pants by giving some "helpful" advice about shit he knew nothing about...


    Which brings me to another point, why do guys get all butthurt when you reject them?

    Just last week I shot down another dude here on RJ and as soon as I did that I became a "stupid, illegal" icon_neutral.gif


  • MikemikeMike

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    Aug 07, 2013 7:49 AM GMT
    Drama begets drama.icon_idea.gif
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    Aug 07, 2013 7:51 AM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidDrama begets drama.icon_idea.gif


    You think I'm dramatic?

    If so, why? icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 07, 2013 8:12 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidAwwww! You have an admirer, JM. Read between the lines! He's really infatuated with you and is on the verge of suicide if he can't have you. And, because he knows he can't have you out of his misplaced sociopathic love, he must destroy you. Because, if he can't have you then NOBODY should have you.











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    I'm with allan on this one, sounds psycho lucky its you this time. icon_smile.gif

    BTW that cock is scary
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    Aug 07, 2013 8:25 AM GMT
    Ignore him.
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    Aug 07, 2013 10:54 AM GMT
    Lol, he's having quite the time here.

    On another thread he posted that most gay men secretly want to be raped by ex-cons, and that he'd thought of it. I objected. He left me an all caps photo comment that I looked like every trashy over 40 trolling Craiglist for sex in Seattle. The he went back and changed his post, but not until calling everyone who challenged him a freak.

    At least it's entertaining. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 07, 2013 11:04 AM GMT
    He wants your penis.
  • Fable

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    Aug 07, 2013 12:59 PM GMT
    The luls
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    Aug 07, 2013 4:00 PM GMT
    failscarf saidI'll re-read it when the OP arranges the conversation in chronological order.... I can't understand whats going on.



    What's so hard? It goes from most recent to the first. Just like it is when you send or receive emails?
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    Aug 07, 2013 4:12 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Slim2010 said
    I really dislike when people (that dont know you) think that it's their job to evaluate your life and tell you what you're doing wrong.

    YASSS!!!

    Uber-YASSS!!!
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    Aug 07, 2013 4:15 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidAwwww! You have an admirer, JM. Read between the lines! He's really infatuated with you and is on the verge of suicide if he can't have you. And, because he knows he can't have you out of his misplaced sociopathic love, he must destroy you. Because, if he can't have you then NOBODY should have you.

    I think you read Darklight perfectly !











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  • PR_GMR

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    Aug 07, 2013 4:16 PM GMT
    asspermativeaction saidicon_lol.gif so anyone that actually tells you the truth or offers you some constructive criticism to improve your life is a wacko? get off your high horse. you clearly are delusional.

    and the sad thing about this is you pretty much talk a lot of shit about whoever whenever you get the chance and you're acting like the victim? icon_neutral.gif i think it's time you read back your posts towards other people but it seems like you simply can't put two and two together.

    the only person that is a nutjob is yourself.


    I was counting the minutes how long it would take you to come on the thread to bitch and moan. You don't dissapoint.
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    Aug 07, 2013 4:18 PM GMT
    This is what happens when you pay $79 a month for your gym membership. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 07, 2013 4:19 PM GMT
    I don't know ... I think maybe you are falling love icon_biggrin.gif
  • PR_GMR

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    Aug 07, 2013 4:23 PM GMT
    asspermativeaction said
    PR_GMR said
    asspermativeaction saidicon_lol.gif so anyone that actually tells you the truth or offers you some constructive criticism to improve your life is a wacko? get off your high horse. you clearly are delusional.

    and the sad thing about this is you pretty much talk a lot of shit about whoever whenever you get the chance and you're acting like the victim? icon_neutral.gif i think it's time you read back your posts towards other people but it seems like you simply can't put two and two together.

    the only person that is a nutjob is yourself.


    I was counting the minutes how long it would take you to come on the thread to bitch and moan. You don't dissapoint.


    the people that actually condone his behavior on here are just as bad as him. as i said before, get his dick out your mouth. you're only making yourself look bad standing by the bully that cries about being bullied.


    Dedicated to you, Pazzy:

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  • PR_GMR

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    Aug 07, 2013 4:28 PM GMT
    I give up. You're a lost cause, Pazzy. You're a broken record of anger and resentment.
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    Aug 07, 2013 5:28 PM GMT
    OP: Have you forgotten the ignore posts and block features?
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    Aug 07, 2013 5:36 PM GMT
    I'm starting to believe that homosexual men, are hardwired to have drama in their lives...More so than heterosexual men.

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