What's better

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    Aug 07, 2013 9:32 AM GMT
    Hey,


    I was seeing a guy for a while that I really liked and saw a potential future for us but I left for France during the summer for two months and then I'm going to South Korea for four months while he will be staying in Canada. All this eventually led him to break up with me since the long distance relationship sucks balls.

    Thing is, we agreed on staying in contact because I really want to but at the same time it's very painful to keep on seeing him pop up on my Facebook news feed, seeing how he is moving on and stuff...

    When I re-read myself, I feel like I'm a 15 year old talking. And I also know this sounds very immature to even ask but from experience, is it better to remove everything connected to him and try to move on even though that isn't what I wish or is it better to keep him and being reminded what you lost and hope time will help ease the pain.
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    Aug 07, 2013 10:48 AM GMT
    Don't break up for silly reasons!
    It's tough to live at distance, but that shouldn't be the reason for you to break up when you're in love!
    Talk to him, tell him how you feel...communicate with him daily if possible.
    sounds like he's not that serious, whatever it is, talk to him!!! and then you can decide what to do later, depending on his response.
    No, you doesn't sound amateurish.
    I wish you All the best!
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    Aug 07, 2013 9:38 PM GMT
    Main question!

    well, what your intuition says?

    *ignore the facebook part what if there were no facebook...and who was the more needy one?

    you know best how it all went between the two of you.
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    Aug 07, 2013 9:41 PM GMT
    I wouldn't disconnect from him just because of distance or even if he has moved on to someone else unless you truly do not get along anymore. You never know what the future may hold so why close a door? Maybe you will be close friends or end up together years down the road or just simply drift apart. Who knows, but I wouldn't just give up. Pain is part of life. Could you just hide his news feed for awhile though perhaps?