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    Aug 09, 2013 3:58 AM GMT
    I was just reading a forum post titled "You Know Good-Looking Guys Are Hard to Get" and it made me think... Do you guys think I'm one of the good-looking guys, or am I just one of the "4's" that they were talking about?

    On top of that, what would the scale even be? What would merit a 1 up to whatever the highest part of the scale is?

    I mean... I'm intellectual, I'm fit, I'm punctual, I give 100% of myself when I'm in a relationship (I got out of a really bad relationship a few months ago), I'm honest and trustworthy... I know I look young, but I'm 24 years old and I'm pretty mature for my age. -___-

    ?????
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    Aug 09, 2013 4:14 AM GMT
    Personally I think you look fantastic!
    Some people that post may not think the same.. And you should not feel offended..

    ..A more important question is..
    How do you feel about your looks?
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    Aug 09, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    I think people would know how attractive they are.
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    Aug 09, 2013 4:20 AM GMT
    Such a bad idea!
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    Aug 11, 2013 3:48 AM GMT
    Thanks. I've gotten to the point where I think I look better now than I have looked. I feel like the look I have now is my best one and that it's what I should have gone with all along.

    I mean... my confidence has been somewhat boosted because I'm growing a goatee now and I've got a different haircut... on top of wearing colors that compliment my skin.

    I think I'd probably be an 8 o.O
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 11, 2013 3:51 AM GMT
    Self-confidence starts with looking in the mirror and saying "you look marvelous" icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 11, 2013 3:54 AM GMT
    You are the only one who can put a number on yourself. If you believe you are above average you will have the confidence you need to succeed at getting the guy you want. If you believe you are bellow average, you will struggle with self esteem issues which is not a very desirable quality to have. Now if you think that you are a 10, you are probably too obnoxious to be datable by anyone with a brain. Point is, dont let anyone put a number on you but dont get ahead of yourself either.
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    Aug 11, 2013 4:12 AM GMT
    Honestly I have struggled with self-esteem issues since I even knew what the meaning of the word is. Recently, I've adopted an "I don't care what people think... I'm gonna do what I want to do" attitude, and I believe that has aided me in my ultimate goal of feeling comfortable my looks.

    I don't care if people don't like that I'm gay because no one that I don't want around me has to live with me, but I do demand respect because I give as much as I receive. (even when it's not warranted)

    I've noticed myself waking up and after taking a shower in the morning looking in the mirror and saying "Wow I look great today!!!" So I believe my confidence has been boosted. I just don't think I'll ever be one of those "I'm so beautiful it's disgusting" people.
  • mybud

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    Aug 16, 2013 1:58 AM GMT
    Asking others to rate ya is always a recipe for disaster.
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    Aug 16, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    I can understand if you are having a few bad moments in your life. I wouldn't fish for reassurance here though. Some people are immature.

    I struggled with something similar before and just got to the point of being tired of looking at myself as or just being one of the "ugly" people. You just have to get tired of being unappreciated based on what the media portrays us all as "beautiful" or "sexy." Don't count yourself out or limit yourself to being second place to someone else without a fair shot.
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    Aug 16, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    You look fine - please don't ask people to be more shallow than they already are on here

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    Aug 16, 2013 2:16 AM GMT
    charlitos saidYou are the only one who can put a number on yourself. If you believe you are above average you will have the confidence you need to succeed at getting the guy you want. If you believe you are bellow average, you will struggle with self esteem issues which is not a very desirable quality to have. Now if you think that you are a 10, you are probably too obnoxious to be datable by anyone with a brain. Point is, dont let anyone put a number on you but dont get ahead of yourself either.


    Charlitos is right, why should you limit yourself on what one guy thinks of you? One guy might think you are a 4 but out there someone will think of you as their 10.

    Also, being under the spotlight of men is very toxic, as glamorous as it looks you're always expected of something, i'm not saying i'm one of those guys by any means, but I see it all the time, attractive men complaining day in and day out on how they are lavished with attention, only to get into their pants, is that something you want?

    My advice is very close to charlitos, don't let anyone place a number over your head, because you never know, you might be that ugly duckling that will turn into a swan. Be confident, but never lose yourself in the glamour, and dazzling lights.

    Oh, and be humble too. Because the good ones will always see past your physique.
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    Aug 16, 2013 2:38 AM GMT
    charlitos saidYou are the only one who can put a number on yourself. If you believe you are above average you will have the confidence you need to succeed at getting the guy you want. If you believe you are bellow average, you will struggle with self esteem issues which is not a very desirable quality to have. Now if you think that you are a 10, you are probably too obnoxious to be datable by anyone with a brain. Point is, dont let anyone put a number on you but dont get ahead of yourself either.


    I was reading your advice but I was too distracted by your nipples that I wanted to pinched them.
  • deep388

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    Aug 16, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    You look like an awesome guy and incredibly cute. But, my two cents won't matter, like others have said already on here, don't look at your self worth from the point of view of a rating scale...