Lets get together but, I dont kiss...?

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    Nov 13, 2008 9:22 PM GMT
    I am in a relationship now but I remember meeting guys before and they would want to mess around, even have anal sex but didn't want to kiss.

    To me kissing is such an integral part of sex wether it be with a one night thing or whatever. Ive even met guys & got into the middle of if and if they were a bad kisser or wouldn't kiss I got up and left.

    I dont understand how someone can suck a dick or let someone stick your dick up their ass but they dont wanna kiss?

    Someone please explain this theory to me.
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    Nov 13, 2008 9:51 PM GMT
    For some guys, kissing is a mark of true intimacy and a physical way of expressing their feelings. They may need/want the sexual release, but don't want to cheapen the act of kissing by doing it with someone they don't particularly care that deeply for.

    I consider myself one of those guys...however, I also agree with you that kissing is one of the most important parts of sexual contact...therefore, I don't have sex unless I really care about the guy.
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    Nov 13, 2008 10:33 PM GMT
    I'm with Jeepguy on this. If I don't like someone enough to kiss them, then anything else is out of the question. Meanwhile, Redbull, you made me remember something too. In the time we were together, my BF and I kissed incessantly, but he wouldn't eat off the same utensil as me. So if anyone out there can explain that, I'd appreciate it!
  • Hagan_F

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    Nov 13, 2008 10:42 PM GMT
    Kissing is SO GAY! icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 13, 2008 11:48 PM GMT
    Jewassic, I know what you mean!!!!! My bf is such a freak about some things, wash this wash that, gotta do this b4 that....but you eat ass? what the hell...I think some people go overboard with that stuff, haha.
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    Nov 13, 2008 11:50 PM GMT
    I hear what you guys are saying about the kissing being more intimate and really liking the guy, no matter if I just me the guy or not, I gotta kiss and it has to be good or I just cant do it. To me its all one big package, but I definitely understand what you guys are saying.
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    Nov 14, 2008 2:17 AM GMT
    Yeah, I'm same way. Love to kiss. If they aren't a good kisser - it's not gonna last. Can't say I'd just stop and get up and leave. But much less likely that I'd come back for seconds.

  • Nicobx15

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    Nov 14, 2008 3:04 AM GMT
    It's almost always IN HIS KISS!!!!! If there's no chemistry or connection in the kiss, it's going nowhere!! Now, of course, sometimes it SEEMS like it's in his kiss, and then the rest of the person doesn't add up or back up the great kiss (not just talking sexually).

    Nothing more exciting than a great kisser...or a kiss that complements yours!!! And nothing more disappointing then connecting with great kissing, but no substance anywhere else!

    Ahhhh life!!!!! I'll still take a great kisser any day! I could kiss for hours!! And well I might add ;)
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    Nov 14, 2008 4:31 AM GMT
    I eat my bf ass but I won't never use his dirty chopsticks. Please have some class!

    I don't kiss tricks. Usually if I don't find them attractive or my biggest pet peeves, BAD BREATH.

  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Nov 14, 2008 5:06 AM GMT
    No Kiss, No Bliss
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    Nov 14, 2008 5:09 AM GMT
    If he can't kiss well,

    it's not going any further icon_wink.gif

    I'm willing to teach, but he's got to show some potential
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    Nov 14, 2008 5:13 AM GMT

    Don't the marines have a saying: "You can f*ck me, you can s*ck me... just don't kiss me, that's gay."
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    Nov 14, 2008 7:08 AM GMT
    NHJeepGuy23 saidFor some guys, kissing is a mark of true intimacy and a physical way of expressing their feelings. They may need/want the sexual release, but don't want to cheapen the act of kissing by doing it with someone they don't particularly care that deeply for.

    I consider myself one of those guys...however, I also agree with you that kissing is one of the most important parts of sexual contact...therefore, I don't have sex unless I really care about the guy.


    I agree that this is a large reason. Also, it's nice to see a guy that thinks with his head instead of his dick!
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    Nov 14, 2008 8:02 AM GMT
    Some people think kissing is special, and some people don't. And for others the idea of kissing a guy might be something they're a little uncomfortable with, and they don't want to go out of their comfort zone with someone they know doesn't really care about them.
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    Nov 14, 2008 7:18 PM GMT
    Kind of like Caesarea's quote...Some guys dont want to go in that direction.
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    Nov 14, 2008 8:49 PM GMT
    Maybe they're just not a good kisser? And from some of the replies here, if they're a bad kisser, maybe the only way they'd get laid is if they said they don't kiss.

    And on that note, what if they decided that you were a bad kisser? If I were to kiss someone, and within a few seconds they pulled back and said "I don't really kiss...", I'd take it as a hint that I've been out of practice, lmao.
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    Nov 14, 2008 8:56 PM GMT
    No kissing, no sex that was my philosophy. It seems too cold and mechanical without it.
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    Nov 14, 2008 9:02 PM GMT
    Sometimes too the "no kissing" request come from those who are in an relationship where

    1. it's an open relationship and they have an understanding that kissing means something more than just a kiss

    or

    2. it's not an open relationship and the individual is cheating

    Kissing and making out is one of those things that turns me on immensely. Deep kissing is the best!
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    Nov 14, 2008 9:06 PM GMT
    Dump him
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    Nov 14, 2008 9:08 PM GMT
    i have to say with some tricks I won't kiss them even though I love to kiss.

    They come at you like their mouth is the holland tunnel and it's not attractive nor welcome. It's all in the approach. I don't need the tongue leading the way.
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    Nov 14, 2008 9:16 PM GMT
    Some of my most hottest moments in foreplay has been kissing, and it's something I'm very good at.

    BUT............... if your dental hygiene is not up to scratch, and your mouth smell worse than your ass. NO KISSING please. But then it's years now since I've has casual sex, so not an issue for me now days.
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    Nov 14, 2008 9:17 PM GMT
    'No kissing' has the same effect as throwing a bucket of ice water on me.
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    Nov 14, 2008 9:32 PM GMT
    It's a masculinity issue.

    If he kisses another man, he's GAY. If he just sticks his cock in his ass or gets head, he's not gay.

    Yes, it's fucked up. That's why we normal, out, sane gays should never facilitate their cake having + cake eating.
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    Nov 14, 2008 9:51 PM GMT
    bgcat57 said'No kissing' has the same effect as throwing a bucket of ice water on me.


    Can I throw the Ice Water on you Please loloicon_lol.gif
  • GQjock

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    Nov 14, 2008 10:07 PM GMT
    Yeah ... it's the last refuge of a teetering heterosexual

    If a guy tells me that
    I'd say well then I hope you hand's all ready to everything else but then.... icon_wink.gif