Dating tips/insight needed!!!!!

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    Aug 09, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    So I'm going on my third date in a row with the same guy tonight. And I need some of your help and tips.

    Background info: our first 2 dates were awesome. Chemistry was/is definitely there. He's sweet and he's verbally said that I'm sweet as well and would like to see me more often. I'm definitely interested in this guy. Everything that I'm looking for in a guy he's got it.

    I'm inexperienced when it comes to dating just for the fact that
    1. I've never dated
    2. I can get anxious
    3. I'm the type of person that needs to feel secure and know that what is working IS working.

    So with that said:
    1. Should I talk about the "dating" status? Or
    2. Should I not be so anxious and just play it out.

    I don't wanna lose this guy but at the same time I don't wanna come out as too pushy.

    Thoughts, suggestions appreciated.
    Trolling, bashing not so much
    Thanks boys!!
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    Aug 10, 2013 4:10 AM GMT
    *Three* dates? Shouldn't you be giving *us* tips?
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    Aug 10, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    JohnSpotter said*Three* dates? Shouldn't you be giving *us* lessons?


    The wise Mr. Spotter has a point here.

    You're seriously doing something right if this is your third date! Go out, have some fun, and maybe unwind the day/night with a nice walk and one on one talk.

    Just straight up say that you're digging him, and ask him if he's digging you too! You won't be too pushy just dropping it in there and being honest :-)
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 10, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    I don't think you should talk about your status yet... Wait until you live together.
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    Aug 10, 2013 4:18 AM GMT
    You just go with your feelings but know that you two may not be together forever, or even for very long.

    Try to be a good influence on his life and let him inspire you too.

    No one knows anything about Love that they didn't learn the hard way.

    You'll be fine.
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    Aug 10, 2013 4:30 AM GMT
    Can I just say...don't forget to confess you're undying love for him. Kinda like Ariel. Just be honest. You know what I mean? Really.



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    Aug 10, 2013 6:20 AM GMT
    3 Dates! icon_eek.gif



    It's Time To Put Out. . .Dont'cha Think!? icon_wink.gif

    lol Jk Jk..........................JAY KAY!!!!!!
  • Jerebear

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    Aug 10, 2013 7:08 AM GMT
    Play it out, things happen organically or they don't. Talking about your status on the third date shows insecurity. If there's chemistry, just trust it, don't push it.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Aug 10, 2013 7:19 AM GMT
    Young-
    Just relax be yourself. All comes out eventually. Try and have fun. If sex is gonna happen it's ok in my opinion to have a the talk about STD's HIV etc. Call me old fashion. I don't care what others think about it. It's my health my life.

    You are obviously both into each other or the third date wouldn't have happened. It's ok to be nervous about new things it is also exciting.icon_smile.gif
    USA today said by a third date something sexual happens. They mean everything from heavy petting, grinding kissing to sex. No pressure Hahaha.
    Seriously, that is all for you to decide. From my experience fast flames burn out. Like I stated have fun take your time.

    Remember a GOOD kiss has a beginning middle and an end!!!icon_idea.gif
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    Aug 10, 2013 3:05 PM GMT
    hellass saidCan I just say...don't forget to confess you're undying love for him. Kinda like Ariel. Just be honest. You know what I mean? Really.






    Surprisingly; with all the MAdTv episodes I have seen in my life, I had not ever seen this segment, it was actually quite funny.
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    Aug 10, 2013 6:04 PM GMT
    Thanks guys, for the replies.

    -Loved the Ariel video!!! ;) Truly inspiring.

    Update from last night:

    It was another awesome date.
    We had dinner at one restaurant then made our way to a little local bar.
    We spent a long time there at least 3-4 hours talking and he opened up some about his current situation etc.

    During our time at the bar, we would always give me these innocent little nudges with his knees, footsy I guess would be the correct term. Anyhow, it was just great!

    He ended up coming back to my place.
    We skinnied dipped (it was around midnight). oh damn you guys, it was the most fun/romantic thing I've ever done. (dark under a clear sky with stars kind scene, get the picture?...)

    One thing that makes him so sweet in bed (sleeping not sex) was anytime I would move or barely wake up he would say "Hmm?" as if I needed something. Really attentive.. icon_smile.gif

    Damn I'm blushing.... gaw.
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    Aug 10, 2013 6:16 PM GMT
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