Mom's marital status is affecting me and my feelings about the kind of relationship I want.

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    Aug 10, 2013 1:19 AM GMT
    The guy shes with now won't be around for much longer. She told me that she sets her age requirements at at least my age. I told her many celebrity women are cougars and rock the cradle. Before that though I imagined my guy would be within eight years of my age, however, if my step dad is my age I just don't think I would accept anyone older than me as a match. Sorta makes sense to me though if theres another way to practically put this in perspective, I would probably only choose a guy under 35 once I reach 35 myself.
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    Aug 10, 2013 1:58 AM GMT
    So many requirements for the guy you haven't met yet..
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    Aug 10, 2013 3:14 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidSo many requirements for the guy you haven't met yet..




    #searchengine
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    Aug 10, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    I haven't included my uncle in my visualization but even though he says I'm like a son to him, he's like my big gay sister. I have already made the efforts to dispel doubt from my younger siblings and I by telling them and myself a promising word of cooperative forthcoming from my uncle in their decision of the first church they go to with him, seeing as how all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God in accordance with the scripture.
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    Aug 10, 2013 8:20 PM GMT
    Learn the difference between affect/effect, accept/except.icon_rolleyes.gif
  • madsexy

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    Aug 10, 2013 8:31 PM GMT
    Bharatiya saidLearn the difference between affect/effect, accept/except.icon_rolleyes.gif

    Don't forget:
    it's vs. its
    they're vs. their
    Seeing these a LOT lately! icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 10, 2013 9:01 PM GMT
    So technical, feel priviledged I don't pull out that backwards jumbled up paragraph that decipherable and arrange it the way it should be. Lord knows you don't even think before you speak sometimes in your signals either.
  • BillandChuck

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    Aug 10, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    failscarf saidAll I understood was that your mom is a cougar, everything went over my head.


    Are you certain it went over? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 10, 2013 11:06 PM GMT
    failscarf saidAll I understood was that your mom is a cougar, everything went over my head.

    THIS. icon_confused.gif

    and... Find a good therapist. Preferably Not associated with the church. Good luck and Peace be with you.
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    Aug 10, 2013 11:31 PM GMT
    Your mom is an adult and mature enough to make her own decisions. If she wants to date really young guys, so be it as long as he's a consenting adult. You dictating who your mom can or cannot date is unproductive and irrelevant.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Aug 10, 2013 11:56 PM GMT
    The age of men your Mom dates should have nothing to do with you or the age of the men you date. You're creating issues that should be non existent.
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    Aug 11, 2013 12:14 AM GMT
    Keep your options open. You don't want to have so many requirements, especially once you get older.
  • TroyAthlete

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    Aug 11, 2013 12:54 AM GMT
    LitAwake saidThe guy shes with now won't be around for much longer. She told me that she sets her age requirements at at least my age. I told her many celebrity women are cougars and rock the cradle. Before that though I imagined my guy would be within eight years of my age, however, if my step dad is my age I just don't think I would accept anyone older than me as a match. Sorta makes sense to me though if theres another way to practically put this in perspective, I would probably only choose a guy under 35 once I reach 35 myself.


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  • mybud

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    Aug 11, 2013 1:25 AM GMT
    will_smith_uh_gif.gif Looks like duh fresh prince got somebody dat bites....
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    Aug 11, 2013 4:42 AM GMT
    SirAndy saidYour mom is an adult and mature enough to make her own decisions. If she wants to date really young guys, so be it as long as he's a consenting adult. You dictating who your mom can or cannot date is unproductive and irrelevant.


    You sir are talented with word and symbol pushing, and with so little quantity of spot specifications.
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    Aug 11, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidThe age of men your Mom dates should have nothing to do with you or the age of the men you date. You're creating issues that should be non existent.
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    No this actually true and not rehearsed, from what she told me anyway i didn't read into it that much or request any adjustment, not yet anyway. Dudes not affectionate though on a vid she showed me she was playin with and needs to go.
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    Aug 11, 2013 4:54 AM GMT
    failscarf saidAll I understood was that your mom is a cougar, everything went over my head.


    Not sure why your heart chakras so obvious if thats the case. Maybe ask a less formal psychic for the phrases.