Can Minor Flaws Ruin your attraction to someone?

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    Aug 10, 2013 10:54 AM GMT
    No one is perfect and I know this including me.. or Epescially me lol

    But I figure this meant I could Never be shallow and I achieve this 99% of the time but there are Always exceptions right? or Not? Discuss

    What could make it or break it for you?

    I once sniffed.. Yes Sniffed... this one guys back I had a crush on while he bent over to pick up something and and I was hoping to have something nice to remember him with throughout the day, a nice pleasant scent..... BUT NO!!!
    He Smelled like Rancid Baked Potatoes! Such an Odd smell I was like wwaaaAAAAAAAHHH! icon_eek.gif XD I can actually be a fan of the just worked out smell but this was bizarre And I straight up told him.... "You smell like Baked Potatoes" lol which wouldn't be a bad thing because that scent isn't Terrible its just I left the Rotten part out

    Anyways My crush on him left me for the rest of that day and the rest of the week but was soon back lol I assumed it was just an off Day for him... Things went nowhere anyways But that's another story...

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    Aug 10, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    I went on a date with a guy who was on call 24/7 to pick up dead bodies from crime scenes and auto accidents and deliver them to the morgue. I never called him back..
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    Aug 10, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
    were they Hot dead bodies????????????????? icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 10, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    A lot of men I've found are really shallow and picky. It's unfortunate they aren't tagged somehow so people can avoid them while dating.
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    Aug 10, 2013 3:05 PM GMT
    JDR62 saidI went on a date with a guy who was on call 24/7 to pick up dead bodies from crime scenes and auto accidents and deliver them to the morgue. I never called him back..


    I used to work in a sub shop as a teenager and come home smelling like onions and salami...but not dead people...icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 10, 2013 3:07 PM GMT
    I'm personally attracted to what others may view as flaws...Makes them original and unique.
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    Aug 10, 2013 4:44 PM GMT
    Then there are those guys that completely freak out when they get cum on them.. Really ?
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    Aug 10, 2013 5:11 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidA lot of men I've found are really shallow and picky. It's unfortunate they aren't tagged somehow so people can avoid them while dating.


    Amen.
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    Aug 10, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    JDR62 saidThen there are those guys that completely freak out when they get cum on them.. Really ?



    LOL that did happen once! WTF are you here for? Afternoon tea?
    I love a good sweaty/cum body on body rub!
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    Aug 10, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    mybud saidI'm personally attracted to what others may view as flaws...Makes them original and unique.


    This
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    Aug 10, 2013 5:29 PM GMT
    I'd like to think that i focus on the things that really matter.
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    Aug 10, 2013 9:31 PM GMT
    I guess if it is something kind of undeniably wacked out it could put me off, but my current date has a gazillion 'flaws' that are easy to accept because I'm crazy about him. They tend to endear me to him just that much more. That said, scent is a big one - so if the guy doesn't have a natural aroma that causes schwingage, that would be a deal breaker.
  • BloodFlame

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    Aug 10, 2013 9:34 PM GMT
    If you mean by anything, really, the only thing that can really ruin my attraction to someone is a bad attitude and rudeness. I feel that I agree with Mybud. Sometimes, I can look at flaws and find them unique and nice.

    But I guess I will admit, physically, bad body odor could probably do it. But other than that, nothing really.
  • Fargo

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    Aug 10, 2013 9:52 PM GMT
    My BF find my stretch mark, especially on the buttocks due to rapid weight gain in the past, a complete turn off. Too bad I can't do anything about it.
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    Aug 11, 2013 1:44 AM GMT
    mybud saidI'm personally attracted to what others may view as flaws...Makes them original and unique.


    I agree with you, I like flaws they ad character and make me seem not so bad myself.
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    Aug 11, 2013 3:32 AM GMT
    JDR62 said
    mybud saidI'm personally attracted to what others may view as flaws...Makes them original and unique.


    I agree with you, I like flaws they ad character and make me seem not so bad myself.


    Better to be with a man of character than a bland, boring one
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    Aug 11, 2013 3:50 AM GMT
    principal0 said
    uoft23 saidA lot of men I've found are really shallow and picky. It's unfortunate they aren't tagged somehow so people can avoid them while dating.


    Amen.


    Something I learned a few years ago... The stronger and more confident you are, the less perfect you need others around you to be to make up for your flaws.
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    Aug 12, 2013 12:33 PM GMT
    more shallow nonsense. Nobody is perfect, get over it.