Big age difference? What do you think?

  • LoveAndPeace

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    Aug 11, 2013 1:50 AM GMT
    I met a cute guy on okcupid.He is 23 and I'm 19..if him and I became a couple do you think that would be a weird age difference?
  • AdventureTime

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    Aug 11, 2013 1:53 AM GMT
    That's not that big of a difference...

    But what you should ask yourself is what your life priorities are. Like, if you are in college what happens between you to when your graduate? How about partying? going out? Is he the bar type? Do your friend circles like each other?
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    That's not a big difference at all.
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:13 AM GMT
    if you don't want him, give him to me. icon_wink.gif
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Aug 11, 2013 2:21 AM GMT
    airforcelungs saidwhat????? i clicked on this thread expecting you to say 45 or 50 instead, you said 23. icon_neutral.gif are you saying that 23 is old?
    No I'm just wondering if I'm too young for him
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    As long he is noble faithful and not your 2 cents, It's good!

    for me anything beyond 10 - 15 years of age difference its a bit funny, well that all goes with the word chemistry again.

    What I'm more concern most is how old is his MIND! icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    that's not really a big age difference

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    Aug 11, 2013 2:45 AM GMT
    A number is just that, a number. The thing to look at where each other is in life (what they have experienced and things of that nature). Tends to be the big difference when thinking about a relationship.
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:51 AM GMT
    I'm currently seeing someone who's 10+ years older than me... so 4 years is not a huge deal.
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:53 AM GMT
    Genre saidA number is just that, a number. The thing to look at where each other is in life (what they have experienced and things of that nature). Tends to be the big difference when thinking about a relationship.


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    Aug 11, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    That's a big age difference lol
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    Aug 11, 2013 3:01 AM GMT
    Trust me, it is NOT a big age difference, even if it was, if you like him and he likes you, go for it
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    Aug 11, 2013 3:43 AM GMT
    I know, when you're a teenager anyone over 20 seems old. But to give you some credit, there is a much bigger maturity difference when 19/23 than when you are 29/33. Not to worry, if you get along you'll be fine, especially if you are mature for your age.
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    Aug 11, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    I'm 32 my partner is 64. It works
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    Aug 11, 2013 4:28 AM GMT
    The only problem I see with your relationship is that you and he won't be able to go to certain places (bars, clubs and such) together because you're not 21.
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    Aug 11, 2013 4:34 AM GMT
    If u gotta ask then yes he is
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    Aug 11, 2013 10:26 AM GMT
    It depends on the guy, I dated youngest at 19 and oldest around 42. I am, however, seem to be liking dudes around my age lately early 30s but yeah I guess give or take within 10 yrs is okay with me. But yeah, if you like the person, age shouldn't matter unless you feel like a creepo or something hahaha.
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    Aug 11, 2013 10:48 AM GMT
    That's a huge age difference. Stop dating right now and only date other teenagers.
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    Aug 11, 2013 12:11 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidThat's a huge age difference. Stop dating right now and only date other teenagers.


    OP, take this advice to heart. Don't know why you're snooping around with geezers when you're not even 20. Have you no shame? That's like..four years. 48 MONTHS!
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    Aug 11, 2013 12:13 PM GMT
    It is within the half your age plus seven rule
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    Aug 11, 2013 12:53 PM GMT
    what if theres a 12 year age gap?
  • Fargo

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    Aug 11, 2013 1:02 PM GMT
    OMG 23!! That old pedo creep is going to ruin your innocence! Run NOW!
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    Aug 11, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    My only concern would be if you are at different places in your lives. It might feel a bit weird if he's starting his career and you're still deciding what you want to do in university. Because of this I might also be a bit wary that one of you would move away.
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:18 PM GMT
    As long as it is NOT an illegal age difference meaning someone who isn't 18-21 years old yet then I don't think age should stand in the way of two people who genuinely want to be with each other and who are happy together.
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:32 PM GMT
    I think you're to young to jump into a relationship. Wait a few years, grow more hair on your balls, experience meaningless sex, learn about age difference then commite into a man. If your still asking yourself questions like this one then you're still not ready and need few more years.