Is anyone else tired of dating? Where are the right guys?

  • Jr_boy

    Posts: 35

    Aug 11, 2013 1:09 PM GMT
    Wondering if any of you are tired of dating, omg, I so tired of meeting these guys who are hot, but are only totally interested talking about themselves the whole time. I always try to be the one that asks the questions, and takes an interest in the things that shape them, and build on the conversation from there (I'm in sales so it's a skill), but they barely ask any questions about me, and tend to go on talking about how great their exes are, and not bothering to ask questions about you, and your life, and things that matter to you. Can't quite put my finger on it, it's almost like the world needs to conform to their judgement and values.

    I've even met a few who've acted like the above, and say how hard it is to find a connection with guys in this town. I mean really?!?!?

    ARRRRGHHH. Does anyone else experience this? Where are the non-self absorbed/centred hot gays?!?!
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    Aug 11, 2013 1:15 PM GMT
    There are none? As long as they are hot and they know it that is how they will be

    It's just the way the world works. I never used to be attractive at all and I was the guy that was more interested in personality and bla bla bla.

    Once you started getting hotter and begin to get alot of attention its unaviodable. Your ego begins to change and you slowly start becoming a different person. Whether its for better or worse thats for the people around you to decide.

    I have noticed myself changing slowly the more i grew older, im not super self obsessed but i have developed that *Ego* as they call it as much as i try my best to retain my old self its all subconscious.
  • Apparition

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    Aug 11, 2013 2:42 PM GMT
    Try not being so shallow, date a nice guy and get what you need.
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    Aug 11, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    Judo saidThere are none? As long as they are hot and they know it that is how they will be

    It's just the way the world works. I never used to be attractive at all and I was the guy that was more interested in personality and bla bla bla.

    Once you started getting hotter and begin to get alot of attention its unaviodable. Your ego begins to change and you slowly start becoming a different person. Whether its for better or worse thats for the people around you to decide.

    I have noticed myself changing slowly the more i grew older, im not super self obsessed but i have developed that *Ego* as they call it as much as i try my best to retain my old self its all subconscious.


    "Your ego begins to change and you slowly start becoming a different person."

    Uh, no.
    The only person that allows that to happen is you, and when/if it does happen, that is your moment of truth and measure of character (in other words whether or not you choose to address that change should a change in attitude such as that starts to occur).
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    warmly,

    -Doug