"Bothering" the good looking guys on RJ

  • DJW525

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    Aug 11, 2013 11:05 PM GMT
    Ok...there are a lot of guys on this site that I find really attractive. I find myself looking at their profiles now and then in admiration of body, looks, or both.

    Most times I want to compliment with no expectation of "required conversation;" however, to me, it seems like they most likely hear it all the time and another comment/compliment would be more of an annoyance than anything.

    Is this just me or do others feel the same way toward the good looking guys here?
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    Aug 11, 2013 11:16 PM GMT
    Just don't be creepy about it. icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 11, 2013 11:22 PM GMT
    The whole concept of attractiveness or good looking is very subjective. But, I tend not to give guys compliments if they look like the conceited/full of himself type. And from what I've seen, there are a few of those on here....icon_rolleyes.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 11, 2013 11:24 PM GMT
    I get what you mean .. you look at the list of comments on a picture and there are like 100 comments on it already ... comment on a different pic or hot list them
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    Aug 11, 2013 11:38 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI would be very careful. If you pay someone a huge compliment and refer to him as a "GOD" or something similar you just might be the target for one of these clowns to create yet another one of RJ's many useless threads.


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    Aug 11, 2013 11:41 PM GMT
    NO worries Mate
    As in you're hot...so always welcomed.
    However, yes. do not expect anything in return.

  • DJW525

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    Aug 11, 2013 11:43 PM GMT
    Much appreciated information guys. I guess it may be my shyness playing in and the fact that I find many of the guys on here out of my league. At any rate, I understand and agree with what you are saying.
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    Aug 11, 2013 11:43 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI would be very careful. If you pay someone a huge compliment and refer to him as a "GOD" or something similar you just might be the target for one of these clowns to create yet another one of RJ's many useless threads.


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  • ChicagoSteve

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    Aug 11, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    hellass saidThe whole concept of attractiveness or good looking is very subjective. But, I tend not to give guys compliments if they look like the conceited/full of himself type. And from what I've seen, there are a few of those on here....icon_rolleyes.gif


    Before I give a good looking guy a compliment I read through his profile. What is he all about? What is he thinking? Is he someone who just thinks of himself or demonstrates in his commentary that he thinks of others.
    I would not give a compliment to a guy just because he's good looking, he has to have some substance, be at least a little humble and self deprecating, not completely self obsessed, that is a turn off for me. .
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    Aug 11, 2013 11:55 PM GMT
    It all depends on the person, however, I think everyone enjoys a good compliment every now and again.
  • Montague

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    Aug 12, 2013 12:04 AM GMT
    Just put them down..people love to be berated on the internet.
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    Aug 12, 2013 12:15 AM GMT
    And I thought I got no RJ love because I was ugly.... Now maybe I'm thinking I'm too beautiful.... Thanks for giving me hope!! icon_smile.gif
  • DJW525

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    Aug 12, 2013 12:28 AM GMT
    somersault saidIf he has "stud, hot, sexy or hung" in his screen name just tell him he's an asshole lol


    Ouch! icon_biggrin.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 12, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    Most here are great.. I always take the time to chat with others or at least say hello and I've found others to be the same way. What is everyone doing here if it isn't to socialize, come on!

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    Aug 12, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    I don't think leaving someone a nice compliment is considered "bothering", at least to me. If anything, leaving a nice compliment for somebody makes that person feel better about themselves, especially if that person turns out to be having a bad day.
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    Aug 12, 2013 12:35 AM GMT
    Well I think you're very good looking, so I can't imagine anyone not being thrilled to get a compliment from you.
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    Aug 12, 2013 12:36 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI would be very careful. If you pay someone a huge compliment and refer to him as a "GOD" or something similar you just might be the target for one of these clowns to create yet another one of RJ's many useless threads.


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    Aug 12, 2013 12:44 AM GMT
    I believe the world can use more positivity! It's seems that it is a rare thing to find these days. I've complimented tons of guys and have never heard a response back, but no worries as I didn't expect anything anyway. Share your compliments as it doesn't hurt anyone and can only brighten someone's day. icon_biggrin.gif
  • bischero

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    Aug 12, 2013 12:53 AM GMT
    LET THE COMMENTS ROLE IN AND MAY THEY NEVER STAHP.
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    Aug 12, 2013 12:54 AM GMT
    i like to compliment men, especially men who I know in 'life' I would never stand a chance with. I have always been thanked by RJer's. On other sites I have been ignored. So its speaks volumes for the RJ members. Thanks... icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:04 AM GMT
    DJW525 saidMuch appreciated information guys. I guess it may be my shyness playing in and the fact that I find many of the guys on here out of my league. At any rate, I understand and agree with what you are saying.

    Don't even think about anyone being out of your league. You are being much too critical of yourself. You have a nice profile and that massive arm in your main pic is a huge turn-on.
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:33 AM GMT
    It's always nice to share a compliment. I, on rare occasion, just drop a line saying a guy looks good. When I'm feeling like sharing a bit of happy.

    Who knows? I'm sure some are like, "Ewwwwwwwww! This awful guy messaged me! He's over 30!" But I take inspiration from one of my favorite movie scenes ever (mostly because I'm pretty much Charlie Kaufman in that movie):

  • Spiritreaver

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    Aug 12, 2013 1:42 AM GMT
    DJW525 saidMuch appreciated information guys. I guess it may be my shyness playing in and the fact that I find many of the guys on here out of my league. At any rate, I understand and agree with what you are saying.
    Don't ever think of anyone as out of your league, you just may be incompatible or not their "type".

    We both seem to have the same problem though. I have a nasty habit of feeling the same way you do it when it comes to guys I think are really attractive, inside and out.

    Surprisingly, I think this and have had some amazing conversations with guys I consider "out of my league". So in the end, regardless of how you feel, you should take the chance and hit them up.

    For the record, you're gorgeous, and you seem like a sweet guy. Don't sell yourself short!
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    Aug 12, 2013 2:11 AM GMT
    Don't let anyone make you think your out of their league. Eventually, you'll regret it when you realize that you could have had him if you just took the chance when you had it whilst they were single.
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 12, 2013 2:14 AM GMT
    I can't be bothered to respond to this thread...icon_neutral.gif

    Wait, I just did! I feel so hideous now!!!