I love one guy, but he already got his man. Can I proceed?

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    Aug 12, 2013 1:20 AM GMT
    I am crushed on one of my friend in RJ. We discuss about it. He already got one partner.. But I am still interested.. Is that a problem? What I do?
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:27 AM GMT
    Sudeep saidI am crushed on one of my friend in RJ. We discuss about it. He already got one partner.. But I am still interested.. Is that a problem? What I do?

    You don't do anything. He's taken. It hurts. Your heart feels like it's been turned into a giant piece of the heaviest metal on Earth and just hangs in the darkest depths of your soul.

    Buuuut...like I said, he's taken. All you can do is be supportive and maybe by some off chance that they break up you get your chance. Don't count on that last point at all.

    Best thing is to move on.
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:32 AM GMT
    There is no question here, there isn't anything you can do and trying to do something will only lead to a lot of drama.
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:33 AM GMT
    If you ever get with him, and he eventually does break up? Don't count on having that relationship!

    You'll be a part of his negative past, his abetting cheater. He'll find someone NEW that doesn't remind him of his defects.

    Doubly crushed...not good!
  • reptile18

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    Aug 12, 2013 1:34 AM GMT
    I say go for it... for the LOLs.
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:36 AM GMT
    Forget him. Plenty more where he came from, hint hint. Seriously, you have so much going for you. I don't think you will have any problem finding someone who will want you for long time. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    Eliminate the competition. icon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    If he leaves his man for you, he will leave you for another man, and you will deserve it. Or you could do what reptile18 says, and destroy his relationship just for the lulz.
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    Sudeep saidI am crushed on one of my friend in RJ. We discuss about it. He already got one partner.. But I am still interested.. Is that a problem? What I do?



    Ummmm you are 25 and live in India, right? So this is just a school girl crush from afar?
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
    Wail in agony like gargoyles do when they're frozen in their statues. That your could be love has meet with somebody else, It must hurts and pains you to be like this. Your heart bleeds with tears and you feel air being cut-off from your throat as if Cupid's evil cousin is trying to choke you.

    No matter! We must move on no matter how much it hurts...
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    Aug 12, 2013 1:42 AM GMT
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    TheGuyNextDoor saidJust learn to be his friend.
    When someone has a partner and they love them with all their heart, there's no room for another. Hearts are meant to be shared with only one at a time. So, again, learn to be his friend and be happy for him.
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    Aug 12, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    It only works if you're Angelina Jolie.
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    Aug 12, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidIt only works if you're Angelina Jolie.

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    Poor Jennifer...
  • mybud

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    Aug 12, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    Speaking for myself...If I hear the term "partner", I'm out.
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    Aug 12, 2013 7:12 AM GMT
    You can love a million guys but should probably go for the one who loves you back.
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    Aug 12, 2013 7:19 AM GMT
    ***ahem, Homewrecker alert!! icon_razz.gif he he jk

    Lol Isn't that the gay-man code? You don't sleep or break up a happy gay couple unless they're in an open-relationship or just want to experiment the 3some? Lol, hahahha, it's up to you man. I'd say if you going to try to steal the guy, be prepare for lots of drama!!! icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 12, 2013 5:13 PM GMT
    Ok... Ok!
    Majority wins!
    And I agree with THEGUYNEXTDOOR. Atleast i can be his friend...
  • BloodFlame

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    Aug 13, 2013 9:44 PM GMT
    You have to move on. Well... You don't have to but I personally think it's the best thing to do.

    This guy is taken and do you really want to meddle in a relationship? I just don't think it's worth it. Give it time and you'll meet a guy who you'll like who is single. icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 13, 2013 9:46 PM GMT
    Is there a ring? If not, don't cheat, but be honest about how you feel.
  • madsexy

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    Aug 13, 2013 10:03 PM GMT
    Dude, if the guy is into you and pursuing you, then it's a matter of your own morals (and I absolutely won't preach on that!). If he's not, and if you're thinking of pursuing him when he's in a relationship, then MOVE ON because nothing good will come of it.
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    Aug 14, 2013 4:31 AM GMT
    Sudeep saidI am crushed on one of my friend in RJ. We discuss about it. He already got one partner.. But I am still interested.. Is that a problem? What I do?


    He's not interested and you are, from what your post says.

    Yes it's a problem. Do nothing and walk away from that idea.
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    Aug 14, 2013 4:06 PM GMT
    Well, you might have him kidnapped, keep him locked up, tell him that his partner has died, and demand that he promise to love you back in exchange for letting him go free.
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    Aug 14, 2013 4:13 PM GMT
    #Troll
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    Aug 14, 2013 4:48 PM GMT
    You don't want to mess up a relationship that's already initiated between two people. That doesn't say much for your self-worth, or dignity, or your respect for other people. If someone did the same thing to you, you really wouldn't appreciate it.

    My motto is to do onto others as I'd want done onto me.
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    Aug 15, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    No, I believe it's a waste of time and energy. I'm in a kind of similar situation but there's nothing we can do but try to move on. It really hurts extremely bad when you cannot be with the one you love because they don't want to be with you back...very painful.