shame free hardon

  • goodmagic

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    Aug 13, 2013 7:06 AM GMT
    being a guy I get alot of hard ons during the day. Most are easily disguised if i feel the woody happens in a public place. Like the gym, Walking around in sweat pants, or just chillin. Why should having a hard on be shameful? Where do you feel it's ok to have a hard on and not care what people think around you? If I am at a nude beach, or with my close friends I really don't give a fuck. Are you shame free of your hard-on and where?
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    Aug 13, 2013 8:34 AM GMT
    The best place to get a shame free hardon is at a sex addict anonymous meeting.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Aug 13, 2013 8:49 AM GMT
    I wake up w them, but not since 5th to 8th grade did they pop up all day. You must have a pretty easy job. If it did pop up all day I would have a hard time hiding it.

    Be happy if it's normal for you, why worry unless they stop.icon_idea.gif
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    Aug 18, 2013 1:36 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThe best place to get a shame free hardon is at a sex addict anonymous meeting.

    And also the best place to meet guys who will help you with that shame free hard on.
  • run26

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    Aug 18, 2013 1:51 AM GMT
    smartmoney said
    paulflexes saidThe best place to get a shame free hardon is at a sex addict anonymous meeting.

    And also the best place to meet guys who will help you with that shame free hard on.


    well, you learn something new everyday...

    i thought the point of the meetings was to NOT hook up 24/7

    who knew!!
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    Aug 18, 2013 3:16 AM GMT
    run26 said
    smartmoney said
    paulflexes saidThe best place to get a shame free hardon is at a sex addict anonymous meeting.

    And also the best place to meet guys who will help you with that shame free hard on.


    well, you learn something new everyday...

    i thought the point of the meetings was to NOT hook up 24/7

    who knew!!


    You make the assumption that you would WANT to mess around with any of the folks at an SLAA meeting.
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    Aug 18, 2013 9:35 AM GMT
    goodmagic saidAre you shame free of your hard-on and where?

    I used to get unwanted wood in gang showers and elsewhere in the locker room. In my era it meant you might be sexually aroused (even though it could be spontaneous), which men weren't supposed to get around other men, made guys think you were queer.

    Strangely enough, the thing that "cured" me of going hard in locker rooms was gay bathhouses. It's the norm there to have a boner openly in the shower, and even use it, as well as in the steam room, sauna, hot tub, pool, etc.

    And being able to freely do that in front of other guys, even being admired for it, after a lifetime of suppressing stiffies in straight showers, was a big rush for me. With the odd result that when back in regular gang showers I'll no longer pop an awkward unwanted boner.

    I'm told by my friends that guys get hard in the locker room all the time these days, it's acceptable now, but I've not yet seen that myself. Being publicly hard in the shower would surprise me, given how so many guys are shyer today than I've ever known, avoiding the showers altogether or doing the towel dance and whatnot.
  • jayatl56

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    Aug 18, 2013 9:49 PM GMT
    I've never gotten a boner spontaneously - never in a public shower, for example, unless I saw another one or something was happening that would cause it.
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    Aug 21, 2013 1:48 AM GMT
    This is very apropos and a funny read:

    http://www.steadyhealth.com/gym_shower_erections_t132211.html
  • Christoforos

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    Aug 21, 2013 2:48 PM GMT
    I'd stopped giving a fuck by the 10th grade. I'm not going to apologize for being a man.
  • goodmagic

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    Oct 08, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    Christoforos saidI'd stopped giving a fuck by the 10th grade. I'm not going to apologize for being a man.


    your totally awesome!