goodmagic saidAre you shame free of your hard-on and where?
I used to get unwanted wood in gang showers and elsewhere in the locker room. In my era it meant you might be sexually aroused (even though it could be spontaneous), which men weren't supposed to get around other men, made guys think you were queer.
Strangely enough, the thing that "cured" me of going hard in locker rooms was gay bathhouses. It's the norm there to have a boner openly in the shower, and even use it, as well as in the steam room, sauna, hot tub, pool, etc.
And being able to freely do that in front of other guys, even being admired for it, after a lifetime of suppressing stiffies in straight showers, was a big rush for me. With the odd result that when back in regular gang showers I'll no longer pop an awkward unwanted boner.
I'm told by my friends that guys get hard in the locker room all the time these days, it's acceptable now, but I've not yet seen that myself. Being publicly hard in the shower would surprise me, given how so many guys are shyer today than I've ever known, avoiding the showers altogether or doing the towel dance and whatnot.