where's the penis?

  • imbrad

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    Aug 14, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    So I had a GREAT convo with a guy at the bar last night. We hit it off really well and did a kissing and, I didn't think it would feel that strange just making out but, he doesn't have a penis and I can tell.

    I don't think it's too much to ask for a man with a penis but everyone is in a different place. If this was just a random it would be one thing but we've known each other for a couple years. I know that he used to be a woman and that doesn't phase me. It's just the penis...

    Maybe we'll just get to be good friends but I'm not sure this is something I can handle in a more committed way. Thoughts?
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    Aug 14, 2013 5:42 PM GMT
    I wouldn't mind a man with a vagina. We could do some face to face bonking.
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    Aug 14, 2013 5:49 PM GMT
    I learned a few things today and I'm definitely not happy about all of them.

    http://www.m.webmd.com/men/guide/8-things-you-did-not-know-about-your-penis
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    Aug 15, 2013 1:56 AM GMT
    If I heard right there was knowledge of a woman there before.There is limits what science and lack of funds can do to make a dick just appear from nothing.Might be time to let nature take it's course and locate a natural born ole'big dick for satisfaction.
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    Aug 15, 2013 2:01 AM GMT
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    Aug 15, 2013 2:13 AM GMT
    Maybe he had cancer... or a very vindictive ex... icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 4:43 AM GMT
    Wait wait wait wait.... What The Fuck ( 0_0)

    So you are Bisexual.. Yes?

    Why do you need Penis then?
  • imbrad

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    Aug 15, 2013 6:30 AM GMT
    I want to find a natural born dick. But I find myself attracted to the man until I am reminded that he was a woman. It is strange. I am NOT bisexual or questioning my gayness, however, when gender lines are blurred it get's challenging.

    It's not even that i'm a bottom. But I found myself wanting to fuck him until there was no cock to grab or rub up against or... anything else that you forget you do to another man until you realize you can't with one.

    Still not sure if I can pursue this... good friends at least. It would be my luck that I found a man that intrigues me on so many levels who happens to not really?/technically?/physically? be a man...
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    Aug 15, 2013 6:38 AM GMT
    imbrad saidI want to find a natural born dick. But I find myself attracted to the man until I am reminded that he was a woman. It is strange. I am NOT bisexual or questioning my gayness, however, when gender lines are blurred it get's challenging.

    It's not even that i'm a bottom. But I found myself wanting to fuck him until there was no cock to grab or rub up against or... anything else that you forget you do to another man until you realize you can't with one.

    Still not sure if I can pursue this... good friends at least. It would be my luck that I found a man that intrigues me on so many levels who happens to not really?/technically?/physically? be a man...


    Ohh what a nasty predicament.. lol

    I mean if your ok with it just do it.... Your bi if you do.. but that's no big deal
  • The_Guruburu

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    Aug 15, 2013 6:39 AM GMT
    imbrad saidSo I had a GREAT convo with a guy at the bar last night. We hit it off really well and did a kissing and, I didn't think it would feel that strange just making out but, he doesn't have a penis and I can tell.

    I don't think it's too much to ask for a man with a penis but everyone is in a different place. If this was just a random it would be one thing but we've known each other for a couple years. I know that he used to be a woman and that doesn't phase me. It's just the penis...

    Maybe we'll just get to be good friends but I'm not sure this is something I can handle in a more committed way. Thoughts?

    So, let me get this straight. You met a guy at a bar that you actually have known for years and you could tell he didn't have a penis but at the same time you already knew did he didn't have one because you knew him before he transitioned.




    What were you asking again?
  • The_Guruburu

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    Aug 15, 2013 6:40 AM GMT
    TheRece25 said
    imbrad saidI want to find a natural born dick. But I find myself attracted to the man until I am reminded that he was a woman. It is strange. I am NOT bisexual or questioning my gayness, however, when gender lines are blurred it get's challenging.

    It's not even that i'm a bottom. But I found myself wanting to fuck him until there was no cock to grab or rub up against or... anything else that you forget you do to another man until you realize you can't with one.

    Still not sure if I can pursue this... good friends at least. It would be my luck that I found a man that intrigues me on so many levels who happens to not really?/technically?/physically? be a man...


    Ohh what a nasty predicament.. lol

    I mean if your ok with it just do it.... Your bi if you do.. but that's no big deal

    I don't think you're the best person to dictate another's sexuality...but that's no big deal. Just sayin.
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:35 AM GMT
    The_Guruburu said
    TheRece25 said
    imbrad saidI want to find a natural born dick. But I find myself attracted to the man until I am reminded that he was a woman. It is strange. I am NOT bisexual or questioning my gayness, however, when gender lines are blurred it get's challenging.

    It's not even that i'm a bottom. But I found myself wanting to fuck him until there was no cock to grab or rub up against or... anything else that you forget you do to another man until you realize you can't with one.

    Still not sure if I can pursue this... good friends at least. It would be my luck that I found a man that intrigues me on so many levels who happens to not really?/technically?/physically? be a man...


    Ohh what a nasty predicament.. lol

    I mean if your ok with it just do it.... Your bi if you do.. but that's no big deal

    I don't think you're the best person to dictate another's sexuality...but that's no big deal. Just sayin.


    Shut up..
  • The_Guruburu

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    Aug 15, 2013 7:39 AM GMT
    TheRece25 said
    The_Guruburu said
    TheRece25 said
    imbrad saidI want to find a natural born dick. But I find myself attracted to the man until I am reminded that he was a woman. It is strange. I am NOT bisexual or questioning my gayness, however, when gender lines are blurred it get's challenging.

    It's not even that i'm a bottom. But I found myself wanting to fuck him until there was no cock to grab or rub up against or... anything else that you forget you do to another man until you realize you can't with one.

    Still not sure if I can pursue this... good friends at least. It would be my luck that I found a man that intrigues me on so many levels who happens to not really?/technically?/physically? be a man...


    Ohh what a nasty predicament.. lol

    I mean if your ok with it just do it.... Your bi if you do.. but that's no big deal

    I don't think you're the best person to dictate another's sexuality...but that's no big deal. Just sayin.


    Shut up..


    Oh, okay.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 5:57 PM GMT
    dc0776 saidMaybe he had cancer... or a very vindictive ex... icon_eek.gif

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:06 PM GMT
    imbrad said I'm not sure this is something I can handle in a more committed way. Thoughts?

    At this point the object of your fascination is not a complete man - who knows - may never be. I would wait until the transformation is completed before even thinking about anything sexual or committed. I wouldn't do it with John Bobbitt, either.
  • Import

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    Aug 15, 2013 7:14 PM GMT
    lol this whole thread.
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    Aug 16, 2013 1:27 AM GMT
    The truth is .. as gay men we should be the first to understand how complex sexuality really is..
  • Timbales

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    Aug 16, 2013 1:34 AM GMT
    maybe he wasn't aroused by you
  • deep388

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    Aug 16, 2013 3:21 AM GMT
    dc0776 saidMaybe he had cancer... or a very vindictive ex... icon_eek.gif



    LOL your post reminded me of that lady who cut her ex-husband's penis off: Lorena Bobbit?
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  • imbrad

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    Aug 16, 2013 9:41 PM GMT
    how will I ever know if he is aroused without a penis to tell me? This is a whole new world of complicated that I didn't sign up for. It's just interesting the number of questions that come up because of this one thing...
  • The_Guruburu

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    Aug 17, 2013 12:00 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidThe truth is .. as gay men we should be the first to understand how complex sexuality really is..

    You would think so, huh?
  • PR_GMR

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    Aug 17, 2013 12:04 AM GMT
    Interesting.. I would definitely need a cock. I would have been very dissapointed.