Have you ever been attracted sexually to someone you despise?

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    Aug 14, 2013 11:51 PM GMT
    I am still into my ex physically even though he's the devil incarnate. I am ashamed that I still find him physically beautiful even though his beauty is only shallow and skindeep.

    That's what bothers me about human sexuality, it barely equates to actual character and soul, its basically an animal act and whether and person is vile or not in mind and heart dosnt really matter.

    I can't help but be excited by a hot guy, even if he is a creep, anyone else disillusioned and confused by this paradox of natural selection?

    (again I know the irony, but I am just talking about the lack of good personality not being a factor in sexual attraction)
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    Aug 14, 2013 11:58 PM GMT
    I have a bad habit of saying "he's an asshole, but I'd totally do him for a night." icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 12:01 AM GMT
    I find it very hard to despise someone. But then again, I've never gotten to know anyone that well.
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    Aug 15, 2013 12:07 AM GMT
    You hit it right on the head when you said, "...beauty is only shallow and skin deep".

    "Ugly" and "Evil" go clear down through the bone and cross over into the soul.

    I once saw a posting (not here) for a guy who was remarkably hot, handsome and dangerous. The guy's posting pictured him with tattoos, guns, knives, a rottweiler, whiskey, and cigarettes. The text was beyond "gangsta" and was simultaneously seductively hot and seriously disturbing. He talked about choke fucking, rape, drugs, money, robbery, assault, and other pleasantries he lusted to share with a willing victim.

    I thought, "Just once."

    I'm sure some of Jeffrey Dahmer's victims thought "Just once." as well.

    I closed the browser.
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    Aug 15, 2013 12:19 AM GMT
    hookerliningandsinking saidhell yeah, i would love to fuck somebody that i despise. more like someone who talks shit about me, said a homophobic slur to me, or did me wrong in a major way to get back at and embarrass them. i would rub it in their face if they were to diss me like "shut up. you wasn't saying that when my dick was up your ass now, were you?" i would never let them live it down. EVER. i'd tell their friends, their mother and everybody that loves them. if they have a boyfriend too, that's even better. i'll be the one to break the news to his boyfriend just so that b-i-t-c-h gets what's coming to them.


    We are totally on the wrong page here dude, just because someone has had sex with you, especially in the gay community, is NUTHIN to use as a defense or to get back at someone, everyone has fucked everyone in our sad community, a fuck denotes no respect whatsoever, and displays no personal benefits either way to a persons character, other than being "acceptable" looking and being promisuous.

    Jim jones fucked many of his followers, as do most assholes.
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    Aug 15, 2013 5:05 AM GMT
    Yeah.. there was this one guy who LOVED to talk ish about me in HS.... but he was obviously one of those closeted gay bashers.. he did it in a more flirty way which made me take more of it than I should have.. He REALLY pissed me off though when he said things in front of people Whose opinion of me I care about though

    His flirting wasn't just in my head either.... My teacher saw it happen a lot and said something like "Why don't you get married" then we both just looked at eachother and said something like... HIM! Nooo! which made us both look gay because the way we said no was more like trying to say we weren't into each other not that it would be a nasty gay relationship and I told a friend of mine who was a girl a joke he made about me and I said that was just gay.. cause it was and she was like Yeah I noticed he does stuff like that often... With the typical Put off by gay guys girl look haha

    But Damn! He was Fine.... lol I mean we could have taken some of dat Talk to the bedroom lol.... Gosh! Why am I So Disgusting! icon_lol.gif

    But Yeah He Was HAWT.. I saw him at a school basketball game senior year after like 2 years of not seeing him and he kept looking, almost like that awkward "We used to be friends but you cant say nothing to me now" look, but We Were NEVER friends because of his Big Childish Mouth

    One of his jokes was "I heard you don't have any gag reflex..." I was like What... then he repeated it so serious and I was truly lost .. I looked to my teacher (the same one from earlier) He was just staring at me as if waiting for an answer also.. then it just dawned on me and I was Like OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH haha.. It was genuinely funny though So I just laughed and let it slide..

    Also I was sick for like a week and a "rumor" got around class I was the Guy teachers boyfriend... and I left a lipstick kiss print on the desk.. he likely started it lol

    I was the class clown so all of this was never taken too serious and my teacher was Super chill about it.. kind of odd how ok he was with people saying such a thing even as a joke... suspect lol icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 5:14 AM GMT
    hookerliningandsinking saidhell yeah, i would love to fuck somebody that i despise. more like someone who talks shit about me, said a homophobic slur to me, or did me wrong in a major way to get back at and embarrass them. i would rub it in their face if they were to diss me like "shut up. you wasn't saying that when my dick was up your ass now, were you?" i would never let them live it down. EVER. i'd tell their friends, their mother and everybody that loves them. if they have a boyfriend too, that's even better. i'll be the one to break the news to his boyfriend just so that b-i-t-c-h gets what's coming to them.


    Damn.. I strangely have the hankering too look up "Pay Back" porn now... icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 5:19 AM GMT
    It's amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness. -Tolstoy.

    and many fall for that.
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    Aug 15, 2013 10:58 PM GMT
    Harry7785 saidIt's amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness. -Tolstoy.

    and many fall for that.


    My favourite philosopher.

    I just wish i could be sexually aroused by a persons kindness and compassion, and not whether they have washboard abs or not.