Going on a date on Saturday So excited!! what should we do for fun?

  • Jake__Wright

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    Aug 15, 2013 5:42 AM GMT
    So I was thinking Bowling, Movies, Mini Golf, I still like being silly what about the park haha Bitch go down the slide or the fun factory where they have those pools filled with coloured balls and the jumping castle thing yay icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 5:44 AM GMT
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  • Jake__Wright

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    Aug 15, 2013 5:55 AM GMT
    you have gotta have fun otherwise its boring!!
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    Aug 15, 2013 6:22 AM GMT
    Jake__Wright saidSo I was thinking Bowling, Movies, Mini Golf, I still like being silly what about the park haha Bitch go down the slide or the fun factory where they have those pools filled with coloured balls and the jumping castle thing yay icon_biggrin.gif
    Have fun joining the rest of the toddlers in the ball pit. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:16 AM GMT
    If it is your first date.... then I would start more casual.. stick to something where you can talk.. like not a movie unless you plan on spending quality time together before or after...

    I wouldn't do dinner cause its so serious but lunch is fine or just coffee or dessert or something small and simple and easily eaten with no mess

    I would go somewhere to walk and talk be it outside or in a mall (Though I Hate the mall) so park is best if not too hot, just sit on a bench and talk.. or a chill downtown area would ROCK.. way better than a mall with plenty of shops to walk into and talk about or buy a little something, but if you do this have a specific area in mind... you don't want to get all winded or sweating making it to your next destination. let your personality shine through and make the 2 of you the focus... once again leaning away from a movie unless its a rental but still doesn't sound like a First Date unless you guys have known each other for a while.. which would be nice and Popcorn is easily eaten without making a fool of yourself haha

    HAVE FUN! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:24 AM GMT
    Jake__Wright saidSo I was thinking Bowling, Movies, Mini Golf, I still like being silly what about the park haha Bitch go down the slide or the fun factory where they have those pools filled with coloured balls and the jumping castle thing yay icon_biggrin.gif


    These ideas are GREAT for a second or third and on date BUT keeping it simple at first is the best way to go especially if the two of you don't click like you may have planed.. no one wants to feel trapped doing something they don't want to do..

    leading to... me saying the fun factory may be an EXCELLENT place to go have fun But if he is not in to being and putting himself out there in such a public place it would only work for you and the 2 of you which it needs to.. yes it may seem nice and romantic to push someone out of their comfort zone to try making them happy and feel good about themselves and what not but the first few dates are Never the time for that.. unless its simple like "try this new crazy food".. its about bonding so you can find out easier if the Fun Factory is his style or not.. even if you know he would like it on a friend level maybe he isn't ready to go to such a place when trying to be serious.. it may be a little bit of a sensory overload for him..

    Hope I am helping a little.. maybe I am wrong, there is always a chance of that but you have to be the ultimate judge of the situation.. OR just let him decide what to do himself if you still can't make up your mind icon_lol.gif
  • MikemikeMike

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    Aug 15, 2013 7:41 AM GMT
    get new haircuts..then sex
  • Jake__Wright

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    Aug 15, 2013 7:54 AM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidget new haircuts..then sex


    But I like my spiky hair with the blue fringe, but sex yes!! icon_biggrin.gif
  • Jake__Wright

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    Aug 15, 2013 7:56 AM GMT
    TheRece25 said
    Jake__Wright saidSo I was thinking Bowling, Movies, Mini Golf, I still like being silly what about the park haha Bitch go down the slide or the fun factory where they have those pools filled with coloured balls and the jumping castle thing yay icon_biggrin.gif


    These ideas are GREAT for a second or third and on date BUT keeping it simple at first is the best way to go especially if the two of you don't click like you may have planed.. no one wants to feel trapped doing something they don't want to do..

    leading to... me saying the fun factory may be an EXCELLENT place to go have fun But if he is not in to being and putting himself out there in such a public place it would only work for you and the 2 of you which it needs to.. yes it may seem nice and romantic to push someone out of their comfort zone to try making them happy and feel good about themselves and what not but the first few dates are Never the time for that.. unless its simple like "try this new crazy food".. its about bonding so you can find out easier if the Fun Factory is his style or not.. even if you know he would like it on a friend level maybe he isn't ready to go to such a place when trying to be serious.. it may be a little bit of a sensory overload for him..

    Hope I am helping a little.. maybe I am wrong, there is always a chance of that but you have to be the ultimate judge of the situation.. OR just let him decide what to do himself if you still can't make up your mind icon_lol.gif



    yeah properly, we are going on a lunch date but I wanted something to do after that icon_smile.gif
  • Fable

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    Aug 15, 2013 12:49 PM GMT
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    Lmfao
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    Aug 15, 2013 1:10 PM GMT
    Let's hope your date hasn't googled "ball pit germs:" http://www.google.com/#bav=on.2,or.r_qf.&ei=ydIMUvP5BcmMygHXloDgAg&fp=4ae5569ef0e8fa27&q=ball+pit+germs&sa=X&ved=0CAYQ_AUoAA
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    Aug 15, 2013 1:28 PM GMT
    What's a date?
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    Aug 15, 2013 1:40 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidWhat's a date?


    If this "date" thing of which he speaks has anything to do with plastic balls in a pit, I want nothing to do with it. Sounds traumatizing...
  • Ethrim

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    Aug 15, 2013 2:09 PM GMT
    I always reenact kill bill on my first date.
  • LJay

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    Aug 15, 2013 2:50 PM GMT
    Scrabble can be a really good time. Be sure to look in your favorite magazines for party hints and colorful decorations you can make yourself. Little flags with made with toothpicks and having each person's name on them will be sure to make your guests feel special and they will say something special about your creativity also. For extra fun, try Scrabble using only your feet to move the letters and using only dirty words. Remember! Root beer and popcorn are always part of a great party! Whee!!
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    Aug 15, 2013 6:56 PM GMT
    I like bowling or mini golf. The movies is fine but make sure you do dinner first because you want a chance to talk to him and get to know him. Movies are so silent.
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    Aug 15, 2013 6:59 PM GMT
    Don't go to the movies. That's no place to have a conversation and you want to make a connection with this guy. find places that you can talk freely, dinner/lunch, bowling is good go to a picnic in the park or something.
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:01 PM GMT
    FastlaneKid saidDon't go to the movies. That's no place to have a conversation and you want to make a connection with this guy. find places that you can talk freely, dinner/lunch, bowling is good go to a picnic in the park or something.


    I was going to say this. I've never gotten the whole movie date thing. I mean isn't that you want to spend time with the person so that you can get to know them?

    You know, ask the important questions up front.

    Top/bottom? Income? Marriage? Kids? etc. You can't get all that info staring at a screen in silence.
  • Import

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    Aug 15, 2013 7:17 PM GMT
    yeah, go to the movies, that way you two won't have to talk to eachother.
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:32 PM GMT
    Going to the movies is a date best saved for guys whom you have been dating for a while - ones with whom you have already talked a lot. And before or after dinner - and before a night together.
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:37 PM GMT
    Jake__Wright said... or the fun factory where they have those pools filled with coloured balls and the jumping castle thing yay icon_biggrin.gif


    I don't think this is the best option. If you choose this, you might go home with blue balls.
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    Aug 15, 2013 7:43 PM GMT
    Take him on a tour to a maximum security prison!
    It's a metaphor for where you might end up if he doesn't put out! icon_biggrin.gif