first time with another man

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    Aug 15, 2013 3:43 PM GMT
    lets say my friend has an opportunity (i guess you can call it that) to be with more than one guy for their first sexual experience, they know them as much as anyone could know someone online, aside for the possible trust issues, do you think its a good or bad idea and why?
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    Aug 15, 2013 3:46 PM GMT
    justcurious_24 saidlets say my friend has an opportunity (i guess you can call it that) to be with more than one guy for their first sexual experience, they know them as much as anyone could know someone online, aside for the possible trust issues, do you think its a good or bad idea and why?


    if that's what he wants, then yes: it's a good idea. so long as they play in a positive way. Not that taboo kind of "positive," but you know what I mean, right?
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    Aug 15, 2013 8:37 PM GMT
    Just Curious..Is that friend you?
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    Aug 15, 2013 10:03 PM GMT
    workhard13 said
    justcurious_24 saidlets say my friend has an opportunity (i guess you can call it that) to be with more than one guy for their first sexual experience, they know them as much as anyone could know someone online, aside for the possible trust issues, do you think its a good or bad idea and why?


    if that's what he wants, then yes: it's a good idea. so long as they play in a positive way. Not that taboo kind of "positive," but you know what I mean, right?


    Hahaha yeah i get your meaning


    Anocxu - im fine with you making that assumption haha
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    Aug 15, 2013 10:07 PM GMT
    justcurious_24 saidlets say my friend has an opportunity (i guess you can call it that) to be with more than one guy for their first sexual experience, they know them as much as anyone could know someone online, aside for the possible trust issues, do you think its a good or bad idea and why?

    The know them as much as anyone could know someone online bit sounds a bit interesting. You can't know anyone online - you can only know someone in person. If the various theys and thems hit it off in person, then why not?
    Sounds like there is going to be a 4-way, although I suspect, like Anoxu does, that it is you with 2 other guys. If they are the right kind of guys - willing to go slowly with you - and if you discuss things fully in advance, so you know what you are getting into, you might enjoy it very much. Being the meat in a gay sex sandwich can be a very sensual experience, and you are likely to get a lot more pleasuring from two guys at once then you ever will from just one.
    Trust? You just have to spend time with them and follow your instincts (and let someone know where you have gone.)