What makes people attractive?

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    Aug 16, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    Hey guys!! im just wondering what makes other people attractive. I already know I'm ugly and came to accept it but what make other men attractive to you?
    I know I'm not into big muscled cocky men and there are some really hot skinny guys out there. so what makes other men attractive. And please don't say to "start loving yourself" or "if you don't love yourself, who will?"
    i love myself very much but i just know im not attractive. Well, tell me your opinion! icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 5:14 PM GMT
    their ability to mate
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    Aug 16, 2013 5:24 PM GMT
    Why would you say your unattractive..?
    That's Fuc*** Up

    Everyone has an attractive quality.
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    Biology and cultural influence.

    In modern America notions of attractiveness are pretty much completely constructed though.
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:37 PM GMT
    Brains and humor, nice eyes and a good smile help
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    Aug 16, 2013 9:34 PM GMT
    Willingness to do me.
  • groundcombat

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    Aug 16, 2013 9:52 PM GMT
    For me, a hot body.


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  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Aug 16, 2013 10:12 PM GMT
    I don't think there is a secret formula.
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    Aug 16, 2013 10:23 PM GMT
    Error saidThere's nothing more attractive than a hidden profile.

    Oh and paulflexes.


    Yes. Paulflexes. Especially after a few white russians.
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    Aug 16, 2013 10:35 PM GMT
    Look around my friend.What do you see.Old people,balding men,big fat women wearing clothes that make them look like a circus clown,People with disabilities.I don't see models walking down the street when I leave my house.If someone hates their looks there are many things they can do to improve themselves.Ever hear of Wallis Simpson..she was an un attractive flat chested twice divorced lady who got the King of England to give up his throne for her lol.Ryan.
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    Aug 16, 2013 10:36 PM GMT
    Um you are probably really attractive -_- ha ha but kindness and humor are qualities that makes a person attractive to me. I don't focus on the physical aspect.
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    Aug 16, 2013 10:38 PM GMT
    turbobilly said
    Error saidThere's nothing more attractive than a hidden profile.

    Oh and paulflexes.


    Yes. Paulflexes. Especially after a few white russians.


    Pfft!!.. icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Aug 16, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    Anocxu said
    turbobilly said
    Error saidThere's nothing more attractive than a hidden profile.

    Oh and paulflexes.


    Yes. Paulflexes. Especially after a few white russians.


    Pfft!!.. icon_rolleyes.gif



    OK. Well, a LOT of white russians...
  • AmaboTe

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    Aug 17, 2013 12:44 AM GMT
    as they say, it's all in the eye of one of these beholder_70185.jpg
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    Aug 17, 2013 1:32 AM GMT
    What's attractive to one is not necessarily attractive to another.
    Confidence, intelligence, integrity, the ability to love and be loved, a sense of humour?..just some of the character traits that will attract and keep many guys.

    Of course a hot body, killer smile, amazing eyes, sexy voice will catch your attention but if you don't have these attributes then showcase what's working for you and believe in yourself and be yourself.icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 17, 2013 1:36 AM GMT
    to give a serious answer: when the soul radiates from the body harmoniously. To put it in simpler terms, when the guy looks like who he is. That's the kind of attractiveness that holds my attention. If a guy is really beautiful, but his physical beauty doesn't fit his person, then I stop paying attention to him. When a beautiful soul radiates from a beautiful body that fits his soul, there is nothing more attractive than that man.

    And this goes way beyond simply "good body" and "good soul." It isn't a calculus. To use an example from RJ, take mrap2 (sorry buddy!). mrap2's physical features fit a more out-going guy. Were he to be serious and quiet, he wouldn't be as attractive. Part of what makes him immensely attractive is that his physical beauty seems to fit his soul.

    It is hard to give examples of this, but this is what I've found. And sadly, I expect it to make no sense to anyone. *sigh*
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    Aug 17, 2013 4:55 AM GMT
    Don't pay attention to what guys tell you about this problem. Pay attention to what they do! If someone tries to minimize the importance of physical attraction, ask him if he would have a date with you. It's a way to uncover the truth behind the rhetoric.
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    Aug 17, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
    Suffering, soul, mystery, nobility, stoicism, non-conformity, self-sacrifice, wonder, fear, determination, resolve, weariness.
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    Aug 17, 2013 5:00 AM GMT
    I think, it's the face... It's the first think we look, for the 1st time, when we saw someone... & The other qualities like, intelligence, integrity, loyalty...etc. We can't identify these, at the 1st sight... Hence face is the most attractive part, in one's body! Do u agree with me..
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    Aug 17, 2013 5:01 AM GMT
    An inquisitive mind! Someone to challenge me! :-)
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    Aug 17, 2013 5:07 AM GMT
    personality, sense of humor, knowledge.
  • 1001H

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    Aug 17, 2013 5:42 AM GMT
    ability to generate positive energy, maybe a purpose driven life, poster guys are just that, but sometimes someone has that magic touch esp. if this is on several dimensions
  • Generaleclect...

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    Aug 17, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    A nice body and an aura of genuine confidence.

    The short answer is "a nice butt."
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    Aug 31, 2013 1:19 AM GMT
    I'm not sure. All I know is that the qualities that make a man attractive are qualities that I don't have.
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    Aug 31, 2013 1:34 AM GMT
    Their ability to coordinate.