THE KINDNESS THREAD a.k.a leave a totally public message to a RJer....

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    Aug 16, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    Surely, we have much more than just "shade" to throw around at one another all day.

    Leave a pleasant (and not condescending) message to that fellow RJ guy (forum reg or otherwise) you feel could use a kind word or two. Go!
  • PR_GMR

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    Aug 16, 2013 7:33 PM GMT
    Good idea for a thread! There's just too much negativity and drama on these boards of late.

    I like RJ. I think it's a top-notch community of gay men of different ages, backgrounds and interests.

    A shot-out to my favorite posters on the boards (in no particular order of preference): AristoShark, RadRTT, TrevorMark, Ammon, Edward, Myol, Hottjoe, Matiz, Jmuscm, BlackCat90, meninlove, Aodhan/TIB/Darren (the irish posse).. ok, this list is getting long. Let me stop here. :p
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    Aug 16, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    I'm always up for spreading some positivity.

    To Meninlove: You guys are always defending people, and helping them. You probably already know how awesome you are, but I'm gonna say it anyways, you guys are awesome. icon_smile.gif

    To Jumpman_Josh: You are one of the kindest people I have met. You are fun, funny, and an inspiration to us all.

    To OneSongGlory: You may not be as active as other people I know, but I always enjoy talking with you. (Especially about KH)

    I'll make sure to post the rest throughout the life of the topic.
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    Aug 16, 2013 7:54 PM GMT
    PR_GMR saidGood idea for a thread! There's just too much negativity and drama on these boards of late.

    I like RJ. I think it's a top-notch community of gay men of different ages, backgrounds and interests.

    A shot-out to my favorite posters on the boards (in no particular order of preference): AristoShark, RadRTT, TrevorMark, Ammon, Edward, Myol, Hottjoe, Matiz, Jmuscm, BlackCat90, meninlove, Aodhan/TIB/Darren (the irish posse).. ok, this list is getting long. Let me stop here. :p


    I am last? bitch! icon_mad.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    Thank you to The_Guruburu for the wonderful and refreshingly constructive legal commentary you routinely provide here, and for the legal work you do away from RJ that benefits so many of us in the LGBT community. It is truly appreciated! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:18 PM GMT
    failscarf saidWhats your countdown until this thread turns into a flamewar? I give it two days max.


    Thank you for being generous! icon_lol.gif

    Predictably, Person A will disagree with Person B offering kind words to Person C, because of external issues with either C or B, and away we'll go!

    To Person A, for every disagreement you have, rather than argue, kindly offer up two kind messages about someone you feel truly deserves it. Thanks in advance!
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:26 PM GMT
    I had given up completely on fantasy football, until LeftofCenterus got me back into it last year. Thanks for being a great Commish! Looking forward to another fun season with the fellow RJers!
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:28 PM GMT
    Transparent Unity, I know you're out of RJ action for the moment, but best wishes to you on your personal side venture. Truly hoping it works out for the best!
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    meninlove, thank you for the Snacks! icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:35 PM GMT
    TroyAthlete, you make the Peach State proud! icon_smile.gif
  • Aodhan

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    Aug 16, 2013 8:36 PM GMT
    Yay! Even though I do enjoy the shade thread, I hate it especially when it is ganging up on someone. So this is a great idea.

    To everyone on my buddy-list and a few other members such as the WOYM regulars, whom I don't always get a chance to speak to, thanks for being classy! You guys are the reason I like RJ and result in me staying up awful late some night! But I still love you guys icon_biggrin.gif

    @PR Thanks, your someone I need to buddy list icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:39 PM GMT

    To Trolli, I always knew you could do it, and you are. *hugs*

    WayToDawn, how quiet you are and how patient in regards to not being able to be fully who you are in the open, due to your circumstances. We are rooting for you. icon_biggrin.gif

    Mr Pazzy, there is nothing so sweet as seeing this other side of you emerge that each day makes its presence stronger, and shows you have a warm affability. icon_biggrin.gif

    Aristo, I love you , man. Here's to giving your daughter away with great and effusive pride! icon_biggrin.gif

    Dayumm, what can I say but that I read your posts and with true admiration I say, "Dayumm!"

    To the transmen I know here on RJ, you rock, Sirs. icon_wink.gif

    RadRTT, you look after that heart of yours- other people need it around. And you.

    TrevorMark, what can I say but that you're a cool cat.

    Which beings me to BlackCat90. A bestie if ever there was one. *eye twinkle*

    Hmmm...I could go on all day, and tomorrow, and the next day...
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    Waytodawn and blackcat get my vote, they've been very easy to talk to and make me feel reassured with my self, cheers guys.
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:47 PM GMT
    i2ci2i saidWaytodawn and blackcat get my vote, they've been very easy to talk to and make me feel reassured with my self, cheers guys.


    We're not voting, you rascal. Just saying something kind about another.

    i2ci2i, thank YOU for having the heart to see the love in same-love rather than merely the sexuality of it. It gives us faith in the future. Homoloveuality indeed. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:48 PM GMT
    To my mocha boys: slim, cooper, blackcat, and Lo5t- #twerk team.

    To my vanilla's: Rad, trolli, Aodhan, shawn, trevor, and jeff, ya'll pretty a'ight.
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:49 PM GMT
    Mesmer saidTo my mocha boys: slim, cooper, blackcat, and Lo5t- #twerk team.

    To my vanilla's: Rad, trolli, Aodhan, shawn, trevor, and jeff, ya'll pretty a'ight.


    icon_eek.gif nearly racist! Put it in the other thread icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    Mesmer saidTo my mocha boys: slim, cooper, blackcat, and Lo5t- #twerk team.

    To my vanilla's: Rad, trolli, Aodhan, shawn, trevor, and jeff, ya'll pretty a'ight.
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    meninlove said


    We're not voting, you rascal. icon_wink.gif


    oh puh-lease!

    This is gonna turn into a popularity content whether you like it or not icon_cool.gif

    This is gay men we are talking about, jealousy, competitiveness and drama is a part of our nature.
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:52 PM GMT
    Dear Aodhan,

    You are too cute for words, here's a collection of adorable cuddly baby animals.

    Have a great weekend!

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    Aug 16, 2013 8:55 PM GMT
    Back_to_Aodhan said
    Mesmer saidTo my mocha boys: slim, cooper, blackcat, and Lo5t- #twerk team.

    To my vanilla's: Rad, trolli, Aodhan, shawn, trevor, and jeff, ya'll pretty a'ight.


    icon_eek.gif nearly racist! Put it in the other thread icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Key word- "nearly"

    @ Rad- Did I stutter?

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    Aug 16, 2013 8:57 PM GMT
    I love HottJoe's horror stories! icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:57 PM GMT
    Dear Mesmer,

    Top...?

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  • HottJoe

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    Aug 16, 2013 8:58 PM GMT
    Mesmer saidTo my mocha boys: slim, cooper, blackcat, and Lo5t- #twerk team.

    To my vanilla's: Rad, trolli, Aodhan, shawn, trevor, and jeff, ya'll pretty a'ight.

    What am I, oatmeal?icon_evil.gif
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    Aug 16, 2013 8:59 PM GMT
    RadRTT saidDear Mesmer,

    Top...?

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    I can ask the same question.

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  • HottJoe

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    Aug 16, 2013 8:59 PM GMT
    To TroyAthlete: Keep posting. 2016 is on the horizon!icon_wink.gif