Heart hurting...

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    Aug 17, 2013 12:35 AM GMT
    My boyfriend broke off our 8 month relationship today... I just feel empty and vulnerable right now
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    Aug 17, 2013 12:42 AM GMT
    I just I don't understand what I did wrong, I mean he hadn't made the effort to see me this summer at all icon_sad.gif (Neither he nor I drive- I due to vision issues- he due to autism) but family was willing to make the effort... he just didn't care enough. Now this...
  • Import

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    Aug 17, 2013 12:50 AM GMT
    bro, he's autistic.

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    Aug 17, 2013 12:55 AM GMT
    I'm sorry to hear that .. icon_sad.gif

    Is there any way you two can sit, talk and try to sort things out?
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    Aug 17, 2013 12:55 AM GMT
    Import saidbro, he's autistic.

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    Aug 17, 2013 1:01 AM GMT
    Anocxu said
    Import saidbro, he's autistic.

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    lol.
    1. bf is autistic
    2. distance
    3. bf is autistic


    4. was set up to fail.
    5. Since when is being completely honest about a situation a "hush hush shhhhh" type of thing?

    The OP's boyfriend is autistic. Autistic ppl have a hard time having relationships with anyone, even members of their own family, let a lone a boyfriend. It was doomed from day 1.

    OP, get a bf that doesn't have a developmental disorder and then tell us about heartache.

    k thanks.


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    Aug 17, 2013 1:10 AM GMT
    I've seen relationships survive more extreme circumstances..

    If they held it together for 8 months.. something had to be there..!

    BTW what's up Granite..
    We bounced e-mails back and fourth for months.. I can say I have a very good idea of your personality and I can vouch that you are a brilliant,kind and sensitive man.

    .. If you thought this guy was special.. I have no doubt that he was..
    ..Hugz..
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    Aug 17, 2013 1:52 AM GMT
    We will see each other in a week or so on campus... and in my eyes something is here he just (and I knew this from the beginning ) that he would have issues re:processing of emotional needs of others and I accepted that... so yeah, Import fuck you, fuck you with a rusty steel shovel...


    Anoc- *big hugs* send me an email sometime id love to catch up icon_smile.gif
  • Webster666

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    Aug 17, 2013 4:12 AM GMT
    So sorry to hear this.
    When something like this happens to you, you actually do feel a physical pain in your heart.
    I've been through it more than once.
    Although you may have to suffer for a while, I promise you that it will get better, especially if you meet someone else. I know you're not looking for that, now, but it will happen, sooner or later.
    The best thing you can do is to keep busy. Go out with your friends and try to have some laughs.
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    Aug 17, 2013 8:11 AM GMT
    Yohomie send me a pm and I'll give you my number. I'm a full time hypnotherapst and help people with relationship issues all the time.
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    Aug 17, 2013 8:14 AM GMT
    AlligatorSky saidYohomie send me a pm and I'll give you my number. I'm a full time hypnotherapst and help people with relationship issues all the time.

    Why aren't you kind and caring and you others too.icon_biggrin.gif

    If you wanna talk to me OP, you PM me as well.