Not a day goes by

  • steve2steeve

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    Aug 17, 2013 6:51 PM GMT
    Not a day goes by when I don't think about him. So I met this guy on RJ chat quite by accident.We chatted and IM'ed. Things moved to skype.I really liked him. SO much so that I used to kinda think of him more than I should have. We did things on skype...I wasnt in love or anything but it was nice to have come across him. I shared things with him I have never with anyone ever on Rj or otherwise.I cudnt wait to get home to be able to chat with him or just see him online. I was not looking for anything but maybe just a nice friend or well can't really put a word to it. We chatted almost everyday. Well I knew he didnt feel the same about me. I was just one of the guys he must have chatted I guess or this is how I perceived it. Nevertheless, he did share things that were personal and as far as I know we both liked chatting with each other. And then...
    One day he stopped answering to my messages....
    A few more days and he removed me from skype..
    Just like that without any reason...
    To quote from Life of Pi
    "I suppose in the end, the whole of life becomes an act of letting go, but what always hurts the most is not taking a moment to say goodbye"
    He introduced me to Lana Del Ray and I thank him for that. I love her and whenever I listen to her music which is quite often I think of him.
    He just has the knack of creeping into my thoughts every day.
    Now I sound like a lovesick stupid guy who thought this could be something.....but just hurts that someone suddenly shuts the door on you...

    I can't share this with anyone and so I am just letting it out here. I am sure he has his reasons and respect him. Also in a way he did me a favor coz I was getting too addicted to out chats....But yes I miss him and feel hurt.

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    Aug 17, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    I just had a similar experience. The only difference is that since I now know he was playing games with me, I quickly forgot about him. Good thing for me though that I suspected he wasn't serious all along. There are always signs.
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    Aug 17, 2013 7:25 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear that,
    cheer up; you'll find someone better in the future.

    Once or more, We all get ignored or rejected by someone in our life at some time. Yours is just now, mine was in the past, & someone's is in their future. It's inevitable.
    What's also inevitable is, teaching ourselves to withstand in situations like this.

    Don't think about 'why?' cause you'll never know unless you ask the person, which may not going to happen. Some mysteries will be hidden forever.
    Just do some other activities, meet new people, time, wounds heal.
  • steve2steeve

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    Aug 20, 2013 6:35 PM GMT
    Thanks John and Harry for the responses.