"I don't do relationships"

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    Aug 18, 2013 3:51 AM GMT
    Like wtf!

    intimacy issues, gay men, sex sex sex no attachment or love.

    Jesus get over it already, what is with you men, you like being alone and growing into creepy old single perverts or something?

    Thank god that I hear that apparently there are gay couples that have successfully made it to the wedding vows, or Id give up all hope.

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    Aug 18, 2013 4:11 AM GMT
    Some people aren't ready. Others don't want that out of life.

    Everyone has their own goals and their own path. The same thing will not always work for everyone.

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    Aug 18, 2013 4:21 AM GMT
    At this point in my life, I'm not sure I want one. The older you get, the more established you are in your life/career/outlook. It's very difficult finding someone that has a similar "groove" or one that is willing to make some compromises.
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    Aug 18, 2013 4:46 AM GMT
    A number of guys are truly content with growing older and remaining single. Not every guy is cut out for a relationship, but not all of them are willing to admit it.
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    Aug 18, 2013 4:51 AM GMT
    Just beat off already. You're getting really tense.
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    Aug 18, 2013 5:02 AM GMT
    I'm a college student who plans on relocating when I graduate. I currently live an hour from anywhere with a sizable gay population. I don't want to date a guy who lives an hour away, because that'd be a hindrance on my studies, and I don't want to date a guy in my town, because I'll be leaving after college.

    Everyone has their reasons.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 18, 2013 5:17 AM GMT
    It's a way of saying ... I'll fuck you, but you are not the one that I'm looking for
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    Aug 18, 2013 5:41 AM GMT
    Philibuster saidJust beat off already. You're getting really tense.


    lmao.

    and yes, i got this offa grindr for the umpteenth time.

    I dont care what yu all sya, most guys who have this attitude are LOOSSSSEEEERRRRRRSSSS.

    WASTERS, wastes of life!

    I vow to never have sex again until im in love, if all waster gay guys did that the world would be a far more socially productive place.
  • PR_GMR

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    Aug 18, 2013 5:44 AM GMT


    You betta not be holding your breathe.. It could be a long while. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 18, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    blkapollo saidA number of guys are truly content with growing older and remaining single. Not every guy is cut out for a relationship, but not all of them are willing to admit it.

    +1
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    Aug 18, 2013 5:50 AM GMT
    The_Guruburu said
    blkapollo saidA number of guys are truly content with growing older and remaining single. Not every guy is cut out for a relationship, but not all of them are willing to admit it.

    +1


    I agree, but its because gay men are fucked up!

    and weak stereotypical jokes.
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    Aug 18, 2013 5:57 AM GMT
    Well, it just depends on the value people give to their preferences.
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    Aug 18, 2013 6:01 AM GMT
    im partially tlking like this because I am pissed off at another asshole wasting my time, but this topic is true and you guys know it.
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    Aug 18, 2013 6:09 AM GMT
    i2ci2i saidim partially tlking like this because I am pissed off at another asshole wasting my time, but this topic is true and you guys know it.

    O yes, it's true, what is also true is that, one day in the future (sooner or later), they'll regret their actions.

    From what I know, if you talk to a person about anything other than sex, money, etc. (deviating from it, if necessary), you can discover the shallow people much earlier from the good ones.
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    Aug 18, 2013 7:42 AM GMT
    i get that u pissed off, but not all gay men are the same. he just was not that into u. sorry babe. Dnt blame the rest of us for one man's mistakes.
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    Aug 18, 2013 1:05 PM GMT
    SKM2 saidi get that u pissed off, but not all gay men are the same. he just was not that into u. sorry babe. Dnt blame the rest of us for one man's mistakes.


    What I HATE is when guys get all accusatory is you immediately ask them "are you looking dates or not", calling you forward, I mean the amount of time most twats waste on you you should be immediately asking guys the direct questions instead of spending an hour chatting to them online only to find out that they "don't do relationships"
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    Aug 18, 2013 1:11 PM GMT
    Whats to complain about? The guy who knows he does'nt do relationships because they dont fit his lifestyle or he's not good at them or the guy who claims he wants a relationship but his dick keeps looking for other potential soulmates?
  • rnch

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    Aug 18, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    I'm half way in-between the two extremes.

    I was contented with my 5+ year monogamous relationship with my ex....but neither of us wanted 24/7 in-the-same-haus cohabitation.

    He needed his personal space, as did I, and neither one of us resented the other's need.

    I naïvely thought that I had found "the one" and that it was gonna last until one of us died.

    Ah well..........
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    Aug 18, 2013 1:34 PM GMT
    i2ci2i said
    I vow to never have sex again until im in love, if all waster gay guys did that the world would be a far more socially productive place.

    Sex is just sex, and love happens when it happens. The one does not always lead to the other, and that's OK.

    I had lots of sex, just for the sex. A fuck is a fuck, a blowjob a blowjob. I never had any unrealistic expectations. I was getting off, he was getting off, and we were both satisfied customers. What's complicated about that?

    And every now & then, among all those passing guys, I'd find one whom I especially liked. And he liked me, too. And then we might do the exclusive thing for a while. Until we tired of it. Again, perfectly normal to me in the natural course of things.

    And among all those guys would come a keeper, who wanted to keep me, too. And then the fucking around stops, you settle down, because you each found what you were looking for all along. Or if you hadn't, you'd continue fucking around until you did.

    A simple and obvious formula, I don't understand what all the angst is about. icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 18, 2013 2:47 PM GMT


    Yes, gay men can be fucked up. Sleep with whoever has a hole. icon_rolleyes.gif