A QUESTION ABOUT A HOOKUP, I'M TOTALLY DUMBFOUNDED... WAS HE TRIPPING?

  • hebrewman

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    Aug 18, 2013 9:15 PM GMT
    okay, maybe i'm making too much of this, but, as some of you know from my profile, i'm recovering from cancer and it's one of few times since exiting treatment (11 sep 12) that i've even had the balls to hookup w/ someone. i am in manhattan on a layover, and i met this really hot guy through man hunt. we were messing around for about an hour, when, all of a sudden, he stopped what he was doing, raced to the window and said someone was shouting his name. now, we are 14 floors up in midtown and the windows are sealed. he raced around the room gathering his items then bolted, yet he said he would be back in 5 minutes after he investigated. well, he never returned so i sent him a text and the response was something that could only be paranoid. he claimed that i was working for the cia, that there were other people in the room (mind you, i'm in an old hotel in midtown. not a lot a room in these tiny rooms. so no, i was alone)
    the only one in the room. the follow up texts were just the most bizarre ramblings i've ever read. none of it made any sense at all. so, i'm asking, was this guy on something? i've never dealt with this behavior before, not even on the aircraft.
    thanks guys.
    aaron
  • hebrewman

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    Aug 18, 2013 9:19 PM GMT
    forgot to mention, in his final text to me he said, 'i could have really hurt you, but, i'm a gentleman, so i left.' yipes!! so much for looking around for fun. i'll stick to the boat thank you very much.
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    Aug 18, 2013 9:26 PM GMT
    One of you definitely was tripping or has a mental illness.

    You certain this really happened?
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    Aug 18, 2013 9:49 PM GMT
    Seems like some sort of mental issue, maybe paranoid schizophrenia.
  • hebrewman

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    Aug 18, 2013 9:50 PM GMT
    blkapollo saidSeems like some sort of mental issue, maybe paranoid schizophrenia.


    whatever it was, it was the most bizarre thing i've witnessed in some time.
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    Aug 18, 2013 9:53 PM GMT
    If he wasn't mentally ill, he may have been up for a few days. Paranoid delusions can set in after being up for 3 days.
  • hebrewman

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    Aug 18, 2013 10:00 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidIf he wasn't mentally ill, he may have been up for a few days. Paranoid delusions can set in after being up for 3 days.


    thank you guys. appreciate the feedback.
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    Aug 18, 2013 10:25 PM GMT
    Ok Hebrewman..
    Let me let you in on something.
    It will sound bizarre.

    That was an old escort's trick.
    Escorts / hustlers use that to get out of a situation where they feel threatened or if the trick is not profitable,or if they lifted valuables from you and need a quick way out before you notice.

    This is also an escape if the guy is disgusting(<-which you are not) or has bad hygiene, or get's too kinky..or is an undercover cop etc.

    ..I'm 80% sure that you were a target.

    The hour you two were playing around he was scoping out your valuables , or realized you were a cool dude and didn't want to do anything to hurt you.
  • hebrewman

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    Aug 18, 2013 11:24 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidOk Hebrewman..
    Let me let you in on something.
    It will sound bizarre.

    That was an old escort's trick.
    Escorts / hustlers use that to get out of a situation where they feel threatened or if the trick is not profitable,or if they lifted valuables from you and need a quick way out before you notice.

    This is also an escape if the guy is disgusting(<-which you are not) or has bad hygiene, or get's too kinky..or is an undercover cop etc.

    ..I'm 80% sure that you were a target.

    The hour you two were playing around he was scoping out your valuables , or realized you were a cool dude and didn't want to do anything to hurt you.


    first off, many thanks for saying i'm not disgusting. believe me, in the post cancer treatment world, i'm feeling a little less self confident these days. just wanted to try out some human contact, even though things are hardly functioning normally. again. much appreciated. you know, i thought of that very thing of being a target. the first thing i did was check my uniform short for my airline ID. it's there. the next was my prized star of david my mom had made in the old city with a black australian fire opal in it.
    still there. my solid gold college ring, yep, still there. kindle... check. wallet that is burried deep in my crew case... check, cell phone... check. so, all valuables are there. a buddy of mine tricked in dallas a few weeks ago and his dirty trick stole his laptop. then again, russ was hog tied. he's more of a pig than i am. anyway, it was bizarre and i'm still getting rant text messages from him. these messages are most odd indeed. he still thinks i'm watching him.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 18, 2013 11:46 PM GMT
    I'm just grateful you got out of it in one piece! What a
    strange dude. I'd run and not look back!

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    So glad your cancer treatment has gone well, congrats!
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    Aug 18, 2013 11:46 PM GMT
    That sounds like a crazy experience.

    You should probably just hook up with me next time instead icon_wink.gif
  • hebrewman

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    Aug 18, 2013 11:49 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI'm just grateful you got out of it in one piece! What a
    strange dude. I'd run and not look back!

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    So glad your cancer treatment has gone well, congrats!


    it was actually in my hotel room and yeah, now that i read all the responses, this could have gone very wrong.
    makes me think i will just stick to xtube as a fantasy outlet. sign. treatment completed, i'm now fighting my way back to some sort of normal. i'm far from it at this stage of the game. it really sucks. thanks hndsmkansan for your support. i'm also checking my crew bag to see if he may have planted anything unusual there. god forbid. he did mention though that it would be nice to have ------ (i cannot remember the name, but, he said it was a liquid/shot glass and it was a mood enhancer that lasts maybe an hour. icon_eek.gif )