what makes a guy a good flirter?

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    Aug 19, 2013 2:14 AM GMT
    And not a creep, or annoying, or say things like "sweet lips" that just make you cringe.
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    Aug 19, 2013 2:15 AM GMT
    Social awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile, and non-arrogant confidence, which encompasses everything I just listed. Being physically attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.
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    Aug 19, 2013 2:16 AM GMT
    Eye contact. Learn how to Smize.
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    Aug 19, 2013 2:17 AM GMT
    failscarf said
    MCB17 saidSocial awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile. Being attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.


    LOL


    Hey, ever see someone with a partner who's way "out of his league?" I'm willing to bet not all of those people are rich. icon_wink.gif

    Also, flirting does not need to have sexual tension. It can just be fun, friendly, clever small talk with the guy or girl behind the counter at Starbucks. You can practice daily in non-threatening situations.
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    Aug 19, 2013 5:38 AM GMT
    somersault said
    failscarf said
    MCB17 saidSocial awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile. Being attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.


    LOL


    I love your pouty lips and clever smile ;)


    sounds like duck face
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    Aug 19, 2013 5:46 AM GMT
    Charm, not smarm.
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    Aug 19, 2013 5:49 AM GMT
    Knowing your Prey.. Your Target haha...

    What's gets me the Most is confidence... Cocky, arrogant even but with A certain Care and humbleness not to drive me away.. although they probably couldn't.. Im just Really good at hiding my desperateness lol XD
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    Aug 19, 2013 5:51 AM GMT
    MCB17 said
    failscarf said
    MCB17 saidSocial awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile. Being attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.


    LOL


    Hey, ever see someone with a partner who's way "out of his league?" I'm willing to bet not all of those people are rich. icon_wink.gif

    Also, flirting does not need to have sexual tension. It can just be fun, friendly, clever small talk with the guy or girl behind the counter at Starbucks. You can practice daily in non-threatening situations.


    I think he was saying when you said "you can flirt no matter your looks" it implied that you don't think the OP is attractive.. but he just read it wrong lol
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    Aug 19, 2013 5:56 AM GMT
    Slim2010 saidEye contact. Learn how to Smize.
    Also, when he does a runway walk on his way to talk to me.
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    Aug 19, 2013 6:04 AM GMT
    MCB17 saidSocial awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile, and non-arrogant confidence, which encompasses everything I just listed. Being physically attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.


    ^^^ This.
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    Aug 19, 2013 11:08 AM GMT
    TheRece25 said
    MCB17 said
    failscarf said
    MCB17 saidSocial awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile. Being attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.


    LOL


    Hey, ever see someone with a partner who's way "out of his league?" I'm willing to bet not all of those people are rich. icon_wink.gif

    Also, flirting does not need to have sexual tension. It can just be fun, friendly, clever small talk with the guy or girl behind the counter at Starbucks. You can practice daily in non-threatening situations.


    I think he was saying when you said "you can flirt no matter your looks" it implied that you don't think the OP is attractive.. but he just read it wrong lol



    Oh. Yeah. I didn't even click on the OP's profile, I was just speaking in generalities.

    I'm sure you're sexy, OP ;) (As I still haven't viewed your profile)
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    Aug 19, 2013 11:18 AM GMT
    It depends, are you flirting to get attention and a little bit of fun? or are you flirting to get someone in bed.

    Because in my experience when your flirting to get sex its not that hard. All you need to do is keep holding extended eye contact and make sure you have alot of physical contact with them. Invade their personal space and if they like you back they will be turned on and you go back to yours or theirs for hot sex icon_biggrin.gif.

    Btw this works on either guys or girls ;)
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    Aug 19, 2013 2:58 PM GMT
    failscarf said
    TheRece25 said
    MCB17 said
    failscarf said
    MCB17 saidSocial awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile. Being attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.


    LOL


    Hey, ever see someone with a partner who's way "out of his league?" I'm willing to bet not all of those people are rich. icon_wink.gif

    Also, flirting does not need to have sexual tension. It can just be fun, friendly, clever small talk with the guy or girl behind the counter at Starbucks. You can practice daily in non-threatening situations.


    I think he was saying when you said "you can flirt no matter your looks" it implied that you don't think the OP is attractive.. but he just read it wrong lol


    No what I meant was, who would want someone ugly or someone they are not attracted to be flirting with them? Would a 110% straight guy would want a gay guy to flirt with him?



    That's pretty shallow. I'm not attracted to women but I flirt with them, and I welcome other people flirting with me, whether I want to get them into bed or not.

    Also, I playfully flirt with my totally-straight jock friends and they think it's funny. They are "110% straight" and don't seem to mind.
  • stratavos

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    Aug 19, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    Being able to both read and use body language well, in addition to knowing what appropriate speech works in the context for the setting you both are in.
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    Aug 19, 2013 3:05 PM GMT
    Someone who can be frank when they flirt...a frankflirter. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 19, 2013 5:54 PM GMT
    Humour is the key for me. It's an art to combine wit, sensibility with a right proportion of humour. If I'm not giggling/smiling by the end of it .. Most likely you failed! Haha
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    Aug 19, 2013 6:01 PM GMT
    Confidence and knowing how to be subtle, yet suggestive.
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    Aug 19, 2013 6:04 PM GMT
    failscarf said
    TheRece25 said
    MCB17 said
    failscarf said
    MCB17 saidSocial awareness and intelligence, knowing how to read people and cues as to what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable, a sharp wit, an inviting smile. Being attractive helps, but you can flirt no matter your looks.


    LOL


    Hey, ever see someone with a partner who's way "out of his league?" I'm willing to bet not all of those people are rich. icon_wink.gif

    Also, flirting does not need to have sexual tension. It can just be fun, friendly, clever small talk with the guy or girl behind the counter at Starbucks. You can practice daily in non-threatening situations.


    I think he was saying when you said "you can flirt no matter your looks" it implied that you don't think the OP is attractive.. but he just read it wrong lol


    No what I meant was, who would want someone ugly or someone they are not attracted to be flirting with them? Would a 110% straight guy would want a gay guy to flirt with him?


    Oh.... Well...Damn........... I Stand Corrected! icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 19, 2013 6:07 PM GMT

    when in does Errors. I find those kinda thing really are charming! icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 19, 2013 7:03 PM GMT
    You would had to look from their perspective and appreciate them for those qualities.

    "Hey, those rings are pretty cool on your hand. Why so many?"
    "Oh,I've always been rings in my younger years and I like collecting them."
    "Hey you know what? I like this ring in particular because it matches with your beautiful blue eyes."
    "Ahahaha, thanks(Wow, I totally wanna fuck this guy now)."