Are you a chaser or a chasee?

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    Nov 17, 2008 1:53 AM GMT
    I'm not very aggressive and would probably never make the first move. So I'd be a chasee.
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    Nov 17, 2008 2:14 AM GMT
    I'm a chaser, because I look so intimidating (attitude wise) almost no one chases me.
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    Nov 17, 2008 2:33 AM GMT
    Hmm, I'm a take charge kind of guy in my everyday life so when it comes to dating I'd rather be chased. I'm not shy at all in general but for some reason, I can never get myself to approach guys. Still when I know someone is interested in me and I am interested too, I let him know (somehow).
  • Timbales

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    Nov 17, 2008 2:37 AM GMT
    I'm a speed bump.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Nov 17, 2008 2:44 AM GMT
    Typically get chased. It doesn't bother me unless the guy doesn't respect
    who I am and the fact I'm seeing someone.
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    Nov 17, 2008 3:08 AM GMT
    Initially the chasee, but that doesn't last long.icon_smile.gif
  • UVaRob9

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    Nov 17, 2008 3:40 AM GMT
    I'm much more comfortable as the chaser. A lot of times if I'm the chasee, the guy never would have caught my attention in the first place (i.e. I wasn't attracted to him, not that he was ugly) and it becomes a very half-hearted date or relationship (learned my lesson). I'm weird like that.
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:00 AM GMT
    Chasee. Unfortunately most guys who approach me only do so online or when I'm drunk.
  • upsguy68

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    Nov 17, 2008 4:01 AM GMT
    Somebody please chase me! icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:15 AM GMT
    Tried to be a chasee, to find that doesn't work. Working on my predator skills. icon_twisted.gif
  • phill

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    Nov 17, 2008 4:16 AM GMT
    i am the chasee. It is half of my problem because there can be a lack of intensity if i just kinda go with the flow.
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:18 AM GMT
    Chaser, I hunt'em down with ma bat and I beat'em around for a bit, then let'em go again for someone else to catch icon_razz.gif

    I'm the chaser generally though.
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:18 AM GMT
    I like to be the chasee but I am usually the chaser. My ffriends tell my that my eyes are too intense and I intimidate people usually. So I am always the one to approach
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:33 AM GMT
    I love these kinds of threads because the thought of hot guys having just as much trouble as I have trying to find the right guy is extremely comforting. icon_twisted.gif

    Misery loves company indeed. icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:41 AM GMT
    I've been known to be a chaser and chasee, depends on the night!!
  • auryn

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    Nov 17, 2008 4:43 AM GMT
    Depends on how much alcohol I've had. However, since I'm in a relationship, I use my powers to get my friends laid.
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    Nov 17, 2008 5:06 AM GMT
    I'm 100% chasee. I think it's because I'm only attracted to really assertive guys. If I have to make the first move, then we probably won't click in a romantic way. I tend to be more attracted to really confident, self assured guys and shy guys who are too scared to strike up a conversation with me at the bar don't usually have those qualities, especially since I'm probably the least intimidating person at the bar.
  • SeanTRNJ

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    Nov 17, 2008 6:10 AM GMT
    I've been both... each has it's upside and it's down and either can be pretty fun as long as it eventually leads somewhere... an endless chase is no fun for either party icon_twisted.gif
  • GQjock

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    Nov 17, 2008 11:39 AM GMT
    Usually the Chasee ...
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    Nov 17, 2008 12:01 PM GMT
    chaser.
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:47 PM GMT
    I was a chasee usually unless I was extremely horny. I have always been shy and rarely warm up to people quickly. "Love at first sight" is about as far away from personality as you could possibly imagine.
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:56 PM GMT
    I ain't shy, so not afraid to be the chaser however being the chasee at times is nice change of pace....
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    Nov 17, 2008 4:56 PM GMT
    jakebenson saidI'm a chaser, because I look so intimidating (attitude wise) almost no one chases me.


    I'd chase ya. icon_wink.gif

    It really depends...I get the "intimidating" label a good amount of the time, so guys don't come up to me. So in that sense, I would be the chaser. I have been chased a couple times however.
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    Nov 17, 2008 10:45 PM GMT
    I'm the fly on the wall.
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    Nov 17, 2008 11:00 PM GMT
    Sedative saidI'm the fly on the wall.


    Now where did I put my electric fly swatter?