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  • mutmaar

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    Aug 23, 2013 7:31 AM GMT
    What do guys mean when they say they are 'masculine' on this site? What is masculinity sctually, according to you?
    PS they are fucking guys, so isnt that automatically a 'girly' thing? icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 23, 2013 7:36 AM GMT
    Some guys like to wear a masc, even when it's not Halloween.
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    Aug 23, 2013 7:36 AM GMT
    Masculine is a round about way of saying they're not stereotypically gay.
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    Aug 23, 2013 8:10 AM GMT
    If you feel like a man and naturally act like one that's being masculine, there's not mystery about it.
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    Aug 23, 2013 8:28 AM GMT
    nature and nurture, prejudice, self tag, identification, orientation, interests, character, courage, intelligence, etc. etc.
    To each, their own definition...when all is put together, it makes no sense & you'll begin to learn to ignore it altogether.
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    Aug 23, 2013 8:41 AM GMT
    Masculinity is to be rough and tough. You gotta have muscles coming out of your eyeballsicon_lol.gif. It's to be courageous and brave like how the chivalrous knights were. Masculinity is suppose to be aggression. That's why pit bulls are mostly a masculine dog because they're always so macho .
  • adultoreo

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    Aug 23, 2013 8:44 AM GMT
    People who care too much about coming off masculine or feminine is definitely a turn off.
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    Aug 23, 2013 9:06 AM GMT
    adultoreo saidPeople who care too much about coming off masculine or feminine is definitely a turn off.

    +1
    My thoughts exactly
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    Aug 23, 2013 9:24 AM GMT
    mutmaar saidWhat do guys mean when they say they are 'masculine' on this site? What is masculinity sctually, according to you?
    PS they are fucking guys, so isnt that automatically a 'girly' thing? icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif


    Simply put, if masculinity is an act, it's not masculinity at all. And I won't be explaining this yet, but I really only believe that 10 to 20% of males can ever claim to be masculine, and the rest should simply accept their place as being beneath truly masculine men.
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    Aug 23, 2013 9:25 AM GMT
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    mutmaar saidWhat do guys mean when they say they are 'masculine' on this site? What is masculinity sctually, according to you?
    PS they are fucking guys, so isnt that automatically a 'girly' thing? icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif


    Simply put, if masculinity is an act, it's not masculinity at all. And I won't be explaining this yet, but I really only believe that 10 to 20% of males can ever claim to be masculine, and the rest should simply accept their place as being beneath truly masculine men.


    But you never leave the basement at your mums house, you know nothink
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    Aug 23, 2013 9:34 AM GMT
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    mutmaar saidWhat do guys mean when they say they are 'masculine' on this site? What is masculinity sctually, according to you?
    PS they are fucking guys, so isnt that automatically a 'girly' thing? icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif


    Simply put, if masculinity is an act, it's not masculinity at all. And I won't be explaining this yet, but I really only believe that 10 to 20% of males can ever claim to be masculine, and the rest should simply accept their place as being beneath truly masculine men.


    But you never leave the basement at your mums house, you know nothink


    As most philosophers past and present have noted, the contemplative life is the most preferred and happiest of all, and of which I will be explaining much more later why this is the case. But I am entering a formative period of my life now and it looks like it will be the complete opposite of what my current circumstances look like. And those new circumstances will bring me many opportunities to sleep with a stream of 9's and 10's, but remaining true to what I am, I will deny every sexual opportunity that is made my way, lest I actually desire it myself, but even then I'll likely deny myself that as well.
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    Aug 23, 2013 9:36 AM GMT
    Unnamed6 said
    boorangOz said
    Unnamed6 said
    mutmaar saidWhat do guys mean when they say they are 'masculine' on this site? What is masculinity sctually, according to you?
    PS they are fucking guys, so isnt that automatically a 'girly' thing? icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif


    Simply put, if masculinity is an act, it's not masculinity at all. And I won't be explaining this yet, but I really only believe that 10 to 20% of males can ever claim to be masculine, and the rest should simply accept their place as being beneath truly masculine men.


    But you never leave the basement at your mums house, you know nothink


    As most philosophers past and present have noted, the contemplative life is the most preferred and happiest of all, and of which I will be explaining much more later why this is the case. But I am entering a formative period of my life now and it looks like it will be the complete opposite of what my current circumstances look like. And those new circumstances will bring me many opportunities to sleep with a stream of 9's and 10's, but remaining true to what I am, I will deny every sexual opportunity that is made my way, lest I actually desire it myself, but even then I'll likely deny myself that as well.


    OMG you make TBA sound normal,
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    Aug 23, 2013 10:39 AM GMT
    boorangOz said
    Unnamed6 said
    boorangOz said
    Unnamed6 said
    mutmaar saidWhat do guys mean when they say they are 'masculine' on this site? What is masculinity sctually, according to you?
    PS they are fucking guys, so isnt that automatically a 'girly' thing? icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif


    Simply put, if masculinity is an act, it's not masculinity at all. And I won't be explaining this yet, but I really only believe that 10 to 20% of males can ever claim to be masculine, and the rest should simply accept their place as being beneath truly masculine men.


    But you never leave the basement at your mums house, you know nothink


    As most philosophers past and present have noted, the contemplative life is the most preferred and happiest of all, and of which I will be explaining much more later why this is the case. But I am entering a formative period of my life now and it looks like it will be the complete opposite of what my current circumstances look like. And those new circumstances will bring me many opportunities to sleep with a stream of 9's and 10's, but remaining true to what I am, I will deny every sexual opportunity that is made my way, lest I actually desire it myself, but even then I'll likely deny myself that as well.


    OMG you make TBA sound normal,


    Let me correct myself actually, I believe masculinity is something that can be tiered but also absent in most men, and that even bottoms and straight men that have problems performing (and even women) can still have a measure of masculinity or have the complete absence of it, but they are not comparable to truly masculine men.
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    Aug 23, 2013 11:03 AM GMT
    We've been through this before.
    Straight acting does not mean straight performing. It means straight behavior.
    Some words have different meanings. You certainly wouldn't post "not all homosexuals should say they are are gay because some of them are sad."
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    Aug 23, 2013 11:08 AM GMT
    *yawns*
  • adultoreo

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    Aug 23, 2013 12:31 PM GMT
    A lot of times I have noticed that men (both gay and straight) who make too much fuss about someone's masculinity and try scrutinizing why it is how it is are usually holding some kind of resentment.
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    Aug 23, 2013 12:41 PM GMT
    Im masculine and i dominate my frienship groups cuz every1 fears me and what i have to say.

    But when i drink or take drugs or abuse any substance i turn in to a sassy diva queen

    Why is this ?
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    Aug 23, 2013 12:50 PM GMT
    adultoreo saidPeople who care too much about coming off masculine or feminine is definitely a turn off.

    I agree entirely
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    Aug 23, 2013 1:30 PM GMT
    adultoreo saidA lot of times I have noticed that men (both gay and straight) who make too much fuss about someone's masculinity and try scrutinizing why it is how it is are usually holding some kind of resentment.

    That's for sure. The gay community wants to be accepted and unjudged by the straight world but many judge others for the smallest things here - like saying "I'm masculine, looking for another masculine guy."
    What's the big deal? It's not a put-down of anyone.
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    Aug 23, 2013 3:08 PM GMT
    If you have to ask, then you clearly will never get it.
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    Aug 24, 2013 2:49 AM GMT
    Having romantic attractions to other men is decidedly un-masculine. Just saying.
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    Aug 24, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    basically straight acting. There are guys who see this as a "requirement" when dating or seeing other guys, or even associating with them, which to me is more of a turn off then acting effeminate.
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    Aug 24, 2013 3:35 AM GMT
    mutmaar saidWhat do guys mean when they say they are 'masculine' on this site? What is masculinity sctually, according to you?
    PS they are fucking guys, so isnt that automatically a 'girly' thing? icon_confused.gificon_lol.gif


    When guys say they are masculine, it means they are manly. They don't "act" it, they just naturally are. You wouldn't be able to tell if they were gay if you saw them walking down the street.

    And a man fucking another man isn't girly at all. If they're two hot masculine beefy men, there's nothing girly about it.
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    Aug 24, 2013 4:28 AM GMT
    Without going into further detail, for the time being, anyway, is that a male, is not simply a man because of genitalia, and that men can be categorized into a vertical rank and order that begins with weak unmasculine men and towards men that are beyond simply being masculine men. I would say that gay men like the pretense of maleness, that is to say, anything not "femme" in outward behavior and a man abiding by societal expectations of what a male is supposed to be like, but gay men tend to ignore the necessary attitudes, beliefs and natural dispositions that actually create a masculine man. And by the word masculine, I mean innate boldness, strength of mind and character, which allows the moderation of behavior and action. An example of a masculine man then, is a man who doesn't succumb to peer pressure to fit in or satisfy the moment, and he is literally his own man. So while masculinity seems to be an innate quality different from simply the possession of male genitalia and maleness, it can include or be exceeded by, a better man, and we can call this man, manly. So manliness, apart from innate masculinity, is a striven virtue to cultivate a better character to increase his resolve, his presence, his sense of honor and duty, and many other traits or virtues. And beyond the manly man of virtue, is the magnanimous man,.... god this is actually going to take a while.... I'll actually try to write a 10 page essay on masculinity later....The ultimate man, is actually a man of contradiction, possessing great heart and mind...I'll have to create terms and phrases, even to describe men that don't even have maleness.

    So males should be divided into a rank and order of inferior to superior, and I'll do that when I have the willingness to do such.
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    Aug 24, 2013 4:36 AM GMT

    Straight acting is bullshit, to act straight is to fuck women, nothing more, masculine acting means to act manly, strong, tough, fighting, masculine low pitched voice, sporty, active, not delicate.