My ex is going out with my clone. lol

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    Sep 13, 2007 5:35 PM GMT
    OK this is a little creepy. My ex that i complained like a baby about stalking me while at the same time enjoying the attention is now "dating" another stripper who started at the club a month or two after i did and about a month before i quit. The funny thing about this guy who's stage name is Nathan is he looks almost exactly like me. The big differences are the eye color and the fact that he is a pot head who tried borrowing my ID last night so he could go to Diva's with my ex Carlos. I said fuck no! You lost yours so how can i possibly trust you with mine. I'm ok with Nathan and Carlos still won't leave me alone but here's to hoping he is possibly getting over me.
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    Sep 13, 2007 6:17 PM GMT
    I want to know what the rest of you think. I was ammused in the last discussion and i would like to see what you have to say about this one.
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    Sep 13, 2007 10:26 PM GMT
    I've gone through various phases with guys I've dated, and sometimes I'd react to a break-up by dating someone completely different, sometimes I'd react by dating someone almost identical.

    I remember one year a while back (I think it was 1997 or 1998) when, over the course of the year, I dated 4 guys, all of which were 18-20 years old, 5'9" or 5'10", blue eyes and brown hair, exactly the same build, etc. They didn't "look alike" in the sense that you would mistake one for the other, but they definitely "looked alike" in the sense that they all had almost identical "stats".

    It wasn't a conscious thing at the time, but looking back on it, I can see how there might have been something subconscious going on there...

    My suggestion: take it as a compliment.... in a weird way. LOL
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    Sep 13, 2007 10:28 PM GMT
    I think I'd be hard-pressed to find another gay guy who looked anything remotely like myself.
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    Sep 13, 2007 11:41 PM GMT
    You are probably his type and thats what he looks for in his dates.
    Ever thought about that?
  • iHavok

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    Sep 13, 2007 11:46 PM GMT
    My ex is currently dating New Danny.
    He is called New Danny because A) I was Danny first, therefore I get to keep the name, B) We have a very similar build, same height, same frame, and carry our weight the same way, C) we have similar looking features, such as a nose and brow ridge, however his coloring is different, and the other big reason he's "New" Danny is because he's almost 10 years younger than me.

    Oh well. I can cope with being Old Danny
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    Sep 13, 2007 11:53 PM GMT
    you want to know what we think - about what?
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    Sep 14, 2007 12:03 AM GMT
    I date all over the place, and I actually have NOT dated for a few years, OK 7, almost 8 but who's counting? BUT I went through a phase of Brian, Jack, Brian, Ryan, Bryan, Patrick, Jack, Patrick, Brian and with the exception of one Brian twice, everyone was VERY different.
  • dfrourke

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    Sep 14, 2007 1:29 AM GMT
    OK...the subject of this topic made me laugh...most guys I have dated have a type...I know I do...it definitely doesn't make you feel "special", but it explains a great deal...

    - David
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    Sep 14, 2007 4:51 AM GMT
    lol
  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 14, 2007 5:13 AM GMT
    This thread reminds me of that 80's movie Just one of the guys- where the main character sets up the guy he/she wants with a really young girl and they are drinking beers the young girl is having a coke and says "I swear 6th grade is sooo bogus!"

    I am too old for this thread!! ..... Pretty damn happy about it though!
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    Sep 14, 2007 5:32 AM GMT
    ok a thread? you mean story?you must be at least 37 years old. wow twice my age and plus 1 year. Soo old. lol. YHeah ok. like i always enjoy quoting to my older friends or the ones that question dating one of consenting age because of some sort of age difference. "Age ain't nothin but a number" Drama exists no matter how old or young one is and some are predisposed to it as well from birth or status. I simply relish the drama because i am a hot bitch who needs some popcorn when it's not my own drama and some chocolate when it is.
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    Sep 14, 2007 5:42 AM GMT
    how doe that 80's movie relate.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 14, 2007 6:07 AM GMT
    plus 2--38 and he's 27. He is a hot man not a hot bitch. I was married to a woman once..once. Enjoy your drama...

    fuck I don't even want relish on my dog! Mary J sing it.//

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    Sep 14, 2007 6:59 AM GMT
    Im not going to lie for a long time I was looking to date a guy that was much like my ex for different reasons thought besides a break up. I mean he passed away and it has been hard to move on since well he's the only guy I have ever dated and really just everything I wanted. Perfect package for me in every way. Thats changed though. This new guy that I am now talking to is well for sake of time is like a scatter-brained dingbat who some how finds away for starwars to relate to anything and feels chaos theory is a perfectly rational way of predicting the world. Like I said... dingbat... he is cute thought and even thought hes totally out there sometimes... hes such a geek that I just want him more... Weird right?
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    Sep 14, 2007 7:32 AM GMT
    ok a thread? you mean story?

    Forum thread definition. It's the first definition there.
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    Sep 14, 2007 1:00 PM GMT
    While I love sophomoric humor, I feel compelled to answer to this thread - even though I feel old (at 25) for answering it...

    I guess the main thing here is do you still harbor feelings for this guy? I mean so what he started dating a stripper like you...some people like peanut butter and jelly. (huh?)

    Point is, stop worrying about what this other dude is thinking and move the hell on. Obviously you are hanging out in the same place as the ex and the new 'nathan' (since you said new nathan asked for your id...) so maybe start by stopping hanging out at those places...I think I said this to someone else but you are 18....focuse on growing up and getting your life/shit together and then worry about what the hell others are doing.

    God, I really hope my life didn't sound like a storyline to Melrose Place when I was 18/19...
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    Sep 14, 2007 7:28 PM GMT
    I am over him and we live in the same general area. I'm not going to stop going to the club where quite a few of my friends are simply because my ex frequents the place as well. I hung out in those places a good 3 months before i even met him. Ps nathan is just this giuys stage name and i was hanging out with one of the guys who actually was supposed to be going out with him on that day. Carlos has a drinking problem and Nathan is a drug addict. Neither could describe me.
    I actually do have my life pretty together. I am working full time at The springfield marriott, I'm working on getting an apartment as well as a second higher paying part time job, and i keep up with my kitten's vet bill as well as my own cell phone bills. I worryabout myself. That's one of the main reasons i broke up with Carlos in the first place.
    Life doesn't suck and I'm about to date this hot manly man AJ soon. That was his stage name too. I just don't revealtoomuch info.
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    Sep 14, 2007 7:40 PM GMT
    WHOA... all that made my head spin.

    Thank GOD i made SURE i am the only person who looks like me by coloring all over myself!

    PS: My real name is Alexander... Rocco is my stage name HA HA HA HA
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    Sep 15, 2007 3:41 AM GMT
    i used my real name as my stage name. lol.too sexy a name to change at the club. how are you Rocco?
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    Sep 15, 2007 3:56 AM GMT
    I'm also an Alexander.
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    Sep 17, 2007 1:12 PM GMT
    I actually would like that name if it didn't remid me of Donnie Darko. Evil Bunny!