jealous gay men in relationship

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    Aug 27, 2013 8:00 AM GMT
    too all those gay men who are in a relationship or have been in relationship in the past, do u get jealous when u see your man talking to another man. Do u get angry at him for checking other dudes, let say @ a mall?????
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    Aug 27, 2013 8:02 AM GMT
    been in a relationship for more than 3 years and no I dont get jealous because my man only checks ME out icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 27, 2013 9:37 AM GMT
    David3000 saidbeen in a relationship for more than 3 years and no I dont get jealous because my man only checks ME out icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 27, 2013 2:33 PM GMT
    I've only been in one relationship, and I found out i'm not really the jealous type. I think it does more harm then good, though me and my boyfriend back in the day checked out guys together. icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 27, 2013 3:11 PM GMT
    Neither of us gets jealous, what's the point? We're guys and we don't always like the same thing. I know his 'type' and he knows mine. We comment on guys all the time. We get that neither of us has everything that we each find hot and that there are plenty of hot guys out there so we enjoy the beauty of many men and share that with each other.

    At the end of the day, we go home together, we love each other and we're there for each other like any loving couple would be. The eye candy is just that, a little adventure into fantasyland but when back to reality, we've found the love much deeper than looks can ever give.
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    Aug 27, 2013 3:16 PM GMT
    SKM2 saidtoo all those gay men who are in a relationship or have been in relationship in the past, do u get jealous when u see your man talking to another man. Do u get angry at him for checking other dudes, let say @ a mall?????


    Where is your trust? Where is your self-confidence? If there's no trust in your relationship, it's pointless being in it. And if you don't have enough confidence to be in a relationship without getting jealous, then you need to work on loving yourself before loving anyone else.
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    Aug 27, 2013 5:05 PM GMT
    gayinterest saidWhere is your trust? Where is your self-confidence? If there's no trust in your relationship, it's pointless being in it. And if you don't have enough confidence to be in a relationship without getting jealous, then you need to work on loving yourself before loving anyone else.

    I contend, although many disagree, that this is common in the gay community because many gay guys grow up NOT being loved and therefore don't really know how to love. Distrust and a lack of confidence has been their entire existence.

    My observation has been, very unscientific I might add, that guys who have been in a significant relationship with a woman don't seem to have nearly the issue with jealousy as those that have not, perhaps because they tend to be older, maybe because they've not experienced as much of a loveless life or perhaps they've just given up on worrying about such things because they're just so happy to finally have gotten out of the closet! Not sure.
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    Aug 29, 2013 3:55 AM GMT
    SKM2 saidtoo all those gay men who are in a relationship or have been in relationship in the past, do u get jealous when u see your man talking to another man. Do u get angry at him for checking other dudes, let say @ a mall?????


    Your man let's you go to the mall?
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    Aug 29, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    No! Before starting a relationship with my guy, I told him that I don't have a jealous bone in my body. So he's more than welcome to gawk at any hot guy he sees.
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    Aug 29, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    Yeah I did with one -- only because we used to argue about his "friendliness" towards other guys and the fact that he would hide is little Jack'd profile on his phone. I took that shit and seen that he was about to meet someone and all these pictures. So ya I wasn't jealous but I didn't trust him for shit.

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