What kind of person do you fall in love with?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 8:37 AM GMT
    icon_question.gif........
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 8:43 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidLove is for people too weak for drug addiction.


    A person wouldn't need drugs for love. It comes from other people.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 9:15 AM GMT
    I usually fall for people who I feel sorry for the most; It's like I want to take care of them. I'm also drawn to really strong people.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 9:36 AM GMT
    The_Tango saidI usually fall for people who I feel sorry for the most; It's like I want to take care of them. I'm also drawn to really strong people.


    you just contradicted yourself, you fall for weak people, but you are drawn to strong people icon_question.gif wut?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 9:46 AM GMT
    Mesmer said
    The_Tango saidI usually fall for people who I feel sorry for the most; It's like I want to take care of them. I'm also drawn to really strong people.


    you just contradicted yourself, you fall for weak people, but you are drawn to strong people icon_question.gif wut?


    No I didn't. Pitiful people aren't necessarily helpless. In the context I meant for "strong", it's anything positive.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 9:53 AM GMT
    Sweet guy who likes to cuddle and do dirty things in bed
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 10:12 PM GMT
    David3000 saidSweet guy who likes to cuddle and do dirty things in bed


    tumblr_m3kav9dPnS1rqfhi2o1_250.gif

    icon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 10:18 PM GMT
    I used to be with someone whom I felt was strong; I am now with someone who who makes me feel strong myself.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 11:06 PM GMT
    Ones that are usually 100% wrong for me.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 29, 2013 11:11 PM GMT
    In a vague, calm and unhurried anticipation of possible future love...

    tumblr_m1e8r8Sgav1r653yzo1_500.png

  • Bustthewave

    Posts: 98

    Aug 29, 2013 11:58 PM GMT
    Here's an interesting question. Having recently fallen in love for the first time in my life, I can say - intelligence and ambition is the driving factor. A bit of kink and body hair never hurt anyone either.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 12:27 AM GMT
    Emotionally distant, extremely passive aggressive, hyper masculine, who only laugh at your pain.
    oh, and cut.
  • Webster666

    Posts: 9217

    Aug 30, 2013 2:47 AM GMT
    I fall in love with selfish takers, because I tend to be the type of guy who wants to take care of his man. But, then, they either take advantage of my generosity or they don't show any appreciation. And, that sours things for me. And, I'm not talking about just money, here.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 11:42 AM GMT
    Handsome, very sharp wit, sweet and romantic, funny, masculine (yeah I said it), outgoing, liberal.

    That covers it.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 1:15 PM GMT
    The wrong
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Aug 30, 2013 4:57 PM GMT
    Love is not a real thing, it is only a concept.
    We become emotionally attached to people, this creates a perception of 'love'. The word 'love' is a generic word that can refer to a lot of different things. "I love ice cream." That's not love, it might be a craving or a desire, but it is not love. "I feed the poor." That's not love either, it is a compassion for humanity. "I love my husband." Really? Then why does his toe nail clippings irritate you? You care for him, you are emotionally attached to him because without him you are alone, you enjoy being with him because you think alike. So love encompasses a lot of things. Maybe what you mean is 'What sort of man are you attracted to?'
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    I guess I just describe my husband:

    warm, open, independent, confident, honest, humourful, wise and street-smart
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    A good, decent man with a big heart. icon_redface.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidLove is not a real thing, it is only a concept.
    We become emotionally attached to people, this creates a perception of 'love'. The word 'love' is a generic word that can refer to a lot of different things. "I love ice cream." That's not love, it might be a craving or a desire, but it is not love. "I feed the poor." That's not love either, it is a compassion for humanity. "I love my husband." Really? Then why does his toe nail clippings irritate you? You care for him, you are emotionally attached to him because without him you are alone, you enjoy being with him because you think alike. So love encompasses a lot of things. Maybe what you mean is 'What sort of man are you attracted to?'


    I hope you fall in love one day! :-)
    I truly do.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 5:06 PM GMT
    tumblr_mrpe9rigKe1qhsidio1_500.png
  • MikeW

    Posts: 6061

    Aug 30, 2013 5:08 PM GMT
    I have a fairly broad range of physical attractions but "love" is something different. It happens when I feel like I truly "get" the other person, see them for who they truly are -- perhaps as you say, both their weaknesses and their strengths, their good and bad.

    It only works though when it is mutual, when we see through one another's personality or 'mask' to the essence inside.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    I like tall guys, but my BF is almost a feet shorter than me
    I like intelligent guys, but my BF is at sometimes dumb.
    I like guys who are sharp in thinking, but my BF often is slow to catch up with me.
    I like guys who tells bedtime stories, but my BF never tells one.
    Despite all the differences from my expectations to reality, I love him with all my heart.

    But I also found things which I never expected or desired as a quality....like he's very very caring, super hygienic, extremely cute, who points out my wrongs, never gets angry on me, very forgiving, adored by everyone...I learned a lot from him. If you like me...then the credit goes to my BF...I couldn't be a better person today, if I didn't meet him 5 years ago.

    Anyway, my point is, you'll never know whom you're going to fall in love with. So, just having specific choices and narrowing down the preferences will not lead to failure, but much difficult to find one. you'll never know what hidden qualities of a person if you look only at the skin, you can't see the heart.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 9:38 PM GMT
    Emotionally crippled...icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 30, 2013 9:40 PM GMT
    Sensitive guys who are slightly passive.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Aug 31, 2013 1:06 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidoh, and cut.

    And hung.