Why are hot str8 men always hanging around other hot guys? How do they pick these guys as friends? I don't think their girlfriends picked them...

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    Nov 19, 2008 3:59 AM GMT
    How come hot str8 men always hang around hot guys like them... does it make them look better. I have a friend, he is str8 when you meet all his friends they are all gorgeous. I mean I am like how the fukk do u pick them as friends?
    Am I the only one who notices this?
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    Nov 19, 2008 4:25 AM GMT
    klassikjock said How come hot str8 men always hang around hot guys like them... does it make them look better. I have a friend, he is str8 when you meet all his friends they are all gorgeous. I mean I am like how the fukk do u pick them as friends?
    Am I the only one who notices this?



    obviously they meet them online. all straight guys do that.
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    Nov 19, 2008 4:30 AM GMT
    They attract each other...like other people. I tend to attract pretty girls and I think I look like a pretty girl. icon_wink.gif Actually, I think it's just the type of guys. Some hot straight guys like to be around uglier guys to make them look better; others hang around hot guys to make them look better. It's all in how they look at things. Am I the only one who could care less what the people I get along with look like?
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    Nov 19, 2008 4:38 AM GMT
    i'm inclined to believe that they all meet on the football field, and stick together because of the secondary benefits: namely the increased attention from the ladies...
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    Nov 19, 2008 4:40 AM GMT
    Hot Straight Guys hang together because it increases their chances of attacting hot straight chicks. If your buddy breaks up with her, you already have met her on your double dates - instant connection. Also, when you all hang out - all your male friend's ladies are hot eye candy.

    Also, hot guys are typically fit and fit guys tend to do similar activities and people who do similar activities (gym, sports, modeling) tend to become friends.

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    Nov 19, 2008 4:44 AM GMT
    OHhiker saidHot Straight Guys hang together because it increases their chances of attacting hot straight chicks. If your buddy breaks up with her, you already have met her on your double dates - instant connection. Also, when you all hang out - all your male friend's ladies are hot eye candy.

    Also, hot guys are typically fit and fit guys tend to do similar activities and people who do similar activities (gym, sports, modeling) tend to become friends.



    hmm, i should have figured that out. it's for evolutionary reasons that this happens, how did i not see this?

    so why do gay guys hang around ugly chicks?
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    Nov 19, 2008 4:46 AM GMT
    stormboy83 saidi'm inclined to believe that they all meet on the football field, and stick together because of the secondary benefits: namely the increased attention from the ladies...


    Haha, that's depressing, can't they stick together because they're good friends that get along? =P

    Personally, I haven't noticed this trend... the friends of hot guys I know are all of varying degrees of hotness.
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    Nov 19, 2008 4:49 AM GMT
    blinktwice4y said
    OHhiker saidHot Straight Guys hang together because it increases their chances of attacting hot straight chicks. If your buddy breaks up with her, you already have met her on your double dates - instant connection. Also, when you all hang out - all your male friend's ladies are hot eye candy.

    Also, hot guys are typically fit and fit guys tend to do similar activities and people who do similar activities (gym, sports, modeling) tend to become friends.



    hmm, i should have figured that out. it's for evolutionary reasons that this happens, how did i not see this?

    so why do gay guys hang around ugly chicks?

    ...cause we know that if we get drunk around them, there's no chance of accidental intercourse?
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    Nov 19, 2008 4:51 AM GMT
    Hmmm, interesting observation. But really, while straight men won't admit it, they can be amongst the most image conscious people on the planet (gay men, too...maybe just a male thing?). These guys are more concerned with how they are perceived than what they really are all about. The company you keep, right. So for many - not all - having a circle of good looking friends reflects more on their status within that circle and other circles. That, however, is likely just human nature. Birds of a feather flock together so they can pick up the chicks.
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    Nov 19, 2008 5:04 AM GMT
    stormboy83 said
    blinktwice4y said
    OHhiker saidHot Straight Guys hang together because it increases their chances of attacting hot straight chicks. If your buddy breaks up with her, you already have met her on your double dates - instant connection. Also, when you all hang out - all your male friend's ladies are hot eye candy.

    Also, hot guys are typically fit and fit guys tend to do similar activities and people who do similar activities (gym, sports, modeling) tend to become friends.



    hmm, i should have figured that out. it's for evolutionary reasons that this happens, how did i not see this?

    so why do gay guys hang around ugly chicks?

    ...cause we know that if we get drunk around them, there's no chance of accidental intercourse?



    uh oh, i only hang around hot ones, i hope i dont slip up icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 19, 2008 5:12 AM GMT
    Just the environment probably same reason why there are cliques in schools. People gravitate to where they feel they fit in and can thrive.
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    Nov 19, 2008 5:13 AM GMT
    blinktwice4y said
    uh oh, i only hang around hot ones, i hope i dont slip up icon_eek.gif

    i'm sure your uncanny self-control will not fail you, blink.

    more to the point, beer goggles will never make a woman look like a man, regardless of how attractive/unattractive they are. i'll be the first to admit that there are exceptions to every rule though.

    my earlier comment rides on the assumption that straight guys are driven entirely by the superficiality that evolution demands from them. pessimistic assessment, but sadly a likely explanation, going by the straight guys i know.
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    Nov 19, 2008 5:35 AM GMT
    I don't think hot straight guys hanging out with hot straight guys is at all abnormal LOL

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    Nov 19, 2008 5:36 AM GMT
    Somebody needs laid. LOL
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    Nov 19, 2008 5:38 AM GMT
    Fat folks hang out with fat folks at the buffet. Hot folks should be able to hang out with hot folks. It's not all about the buffet.
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    Nov 19, 2008 10:13 AM GMT
    In my personal experience, I notice people associate and befriend other good-looking people. I think it kinda just happens. I don't think I have any unattractive friends; male, female, straight or gay. I don't pick friends based on looks, but how hard they make me laugh and how dependable and fun they are. They just happen to be good looking. I notice guys around here look similar, and their interests are similar, too. A certain group of guys I'm talking about are bros. They dress alike, (usually black or white t-shirts ((No Fear or Volcom)) with hats, shades, jeans or khaki shorts with skater shoes), they have similar cars (trucks or BMWs and such), they all go dirt biking and race quads and chill and just drink beer. Maybe it's just the acceptance of the group. I dunno. I'll pay more attention and see what's going on with that.
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    Nov 19, 2008 10:46 AM GMT
    I think you should watch the family guy season 6 episode 3

    http://www.hulu.com/watch/7205/family-guy-believe-it-or-not-joes-walking-on-air#s-p2-so-i0

    there you will find the answer .. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 19, 2008 12:39 PM GMT
    People like people like themselves.

    That said, when it comes to choosing friends, I don't think men discriminate much based on looks, especially not for long-term friendships.

    Based on whimsy and unfounded hearsay, I'd say women discriminate more. icon_confused.gif

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  • beaujangle

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    Nov 19, 2008 12:50 PM GMT
    Yes, I agree that hot straight men are mostly jocks who are into sports. So it's natural they flock together. They also hangout and drink beer, luv parties and run around, very active.

    This may sound rude but one of my friends said that obese men are less likely to be into sports & they are unlikely to catch up with the jocks.

    Same with nerds and geeks ......
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    Nov 19, 2008 2:05 PM GMT
    I only have one not hot str8 friend...and he's my friend from work. The rest of the guys I hang out with are all hot and everyone of them is my friend either because we met playing some sport, or they were into some sport and got me into it, or cause we workout together....some of them go all the way back to high school.

    so, I guess I gotta agree with the sport observation.

    I mean look at RJ...there are an inordinate amount of hot men on this site...and most of them are into either a sport or working out. coincidence? prolly not...
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    Nov 20, 2008 4:24 AM GMT
    well after gathering all of your comments. I have to say that str8 men are big homos...Its always hard for them to say that another guy is good looking. But they stare at you at the gym or they stare at the most attractive guy , muscular dude at the gym... Isnt some form of attraction?
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    Nov 24, 2008 2:04 AM GMT
    I think they join clubs like the HBA (hot boys association), and others.
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    Nov 24, 2008 4:03 AM GMT
    It's behavioral science. icon_wink.gif

    The correct term for it is Lekking. I first read about it in American Scientist in high school.

    http://www.ebc.uu.se/zooeko/FredrikW/Lekking.html

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lek_(mating_arena)

    the evolutionary significance of attractive males hanging around each other is obvious. Females are attracted to the most attractive male around, and thus the less attractive (but still attractive ones) get higher chances of mating if they hang around with the hottest guys around.

    Of course the less attractive they are, the lower they are in the lek heirarchy. Doesn't mean they're homosexual, heh. It's just survival of the genes. icon_wink.gif
  • MikemikeMike

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    Nov 24, 2008 6:18 AM GMT
    someone really knows their way around a buffet!!
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    Nov 24, 2008 6:20 AM GMT
    blinktwice4y said
    OHhiker saidHot Straight Guys hang together because it increases their chances of attacting hot straight chicks. If your buddy breaks up with her, you already have met her on your double dates - instant connection. Also, when you all hang out - all your male friend's ladies are hot eye candy.

    Also, hot guys are typically fit and fit guys tend to do similar activities and people who do similar activities (gym, sports, modeling) tend to become friends.



    hmm, i should have figured that out. it's for evolutionary reasons that this happens, how did i not see this?

    so why do gay guys hang around ugly chicks?


    It's the other way around ugly chicks hang out with gay men so they have someone to dance with. On the east coast they call em fag-hags.