How to approach a person to unlock private pics

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    Aug 31, 2013 7:03 AM GMT
    please dnt kill me !!!
    how do u approach guys to unlock, their private pics. is it an acceptaple behaviour or a big no no!!! *Sorry about editing the post*.
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:15 AM GMT
    Ok dnt unlock private pics, i can see im not winning!!! But on the serious note how dou u go about it. It just that i saw a guy in one of the forums, who posted that he asked a guy to unlock his private pics for him. i always thought it was the other way around. So my real question is how do u feel when a guy ask u to do that and do u unlock them or not.
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:25 AM GMT
    Half the time, the private pics aren't even anything special. They're just regular pics, no nudes.

    I'm sure some guys wouldn't mind if you asked them, but others might see it as desperate. Don't make yourself look desperate.
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:37 AM GMT
    i get what u are saying!!!!but why not. if he has them surely he wants people to see them. They are good boosters of ego. Even though most of us lie and say yoooo that is big even though it not. But what if u jusssss curious????????
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:40 AM GMT
    SKM2 saidOk dnt unlock private pics, i can see im not winning!!! But on the serious note how dou u go about it. It just that i saw a guy in one of the forums, who posted that he asked a guy to unlock his private pics for him. i always thought it was the other way around. So my real question is how do u feel when a guy ask u to do that and do u unlock them or not.


    If they don't open their pics with the request, I sure as hell aint opening mine! That's just rude!
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:45 AM GMT
    SKM2 saidplease dnt kill me !!!
    but how do you ask a person to unlock their private pics for u. i had a very sexual (erotic)dream last night and i have been feeling zesty the whole morning. * for those of you who dnt mind please make my day*
    First of all, don't mention any of that when you send a message to a guy. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:47 AM GMT
    They are reserved for that special guy .... I think it is rude to ask people to let you see their privates .... That is something special they choose to share with another when the are ready to
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    Aug 31, 2013 9:07 AM GMT
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    SKM2 saidplease dnt kill me !!!
    but how do you ask a person to unlock their private pics for u. i had a very sexual (erotic)dream last night and i have been feeling zesty the whole morning. * for those of you who dnt mind please make my day*
    First of all, don't mention any of that when you send a message to a guy. icon_lol.gif
    hahahahaha, i tried to delete this thing and i though *agh* let me live it and see how people will respond to it. I guess if i was them i wouldnt open mine either. But anyway this is what the RJers are sending each other on the hush hush. *gosh am i emberressed * dnt mind the spelling*
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    Aug 31, 2013 9:09 AM GMT
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    SKM2 saidOk dnt unlock private pics, i can see im not winning!!! But on the serious note how dou u go about it. It just that i saw a guy in one of the forums, who posted that he asked a guy to unlock his private pics for him. i always thought it was the other way around. So my real question is how do u feel when a guy ask u to do that and do u unlock them or not.


    If they don't open their pics with the request, I sure as hell aint opening mine! That's just rude!
    if i said to u, that i have had 50 resonses to my request would u then open it? I doubt
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    Aug 31, 2013 9:12 AM GMT
    Dnt guys feel exposed showing their pics to people???? I know i would
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    Aug 31, 2013 12:31 PM GMT
    Just ask them. Who cares if they think you're desperate. It's the Internet and it's not like you and the guy are going to be best friends in the future. If he says no, then no big deal.
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    Aug 31, 2013 12:35 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidJust ask them. Who cares if they think you're desperate. It's the Internet and it's not like you and the guy are going to be best friends in the future. If he says no, then no big deal.


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    Aug 31, 2013 12:44 PM GMT
    SKM2 saidDon't guys feel exposed showing their pics to people???? I know i would

    To people, yes. To friends, no.

    That's why I ignore unsolicited requests to open my private RJ pics. For all I know those pics will be spammed all over the Internet. And Photoshopped into gawd-knows-what.

    But with guys I trust I'll share. Which means I've gotta have at least some prior contact with them, maybe reading their forum posts, getting some sense of who they are, if they're to be trusted.

    Will I get some wrong? Undoubtedly. But then my private pics aren't especially revealing, anyway.
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    Aug 31, 2013 12:45 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidJust ask them. Who cares if they think you're desperate. It's the Internet and it's not like you and the guy are going to be best friends in the future. If he says no, then no big deal.
    eish but it not easy to be turned down. But it even worse to put yourself in that situation in the first place.
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    Aug 31, 2013 12:49 PM GMT
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    SKM2 saidDon't guys feel exposed showing their pics to people???? I know i would

    To people, yes. To friends, no.

    That's why I ignore unsolicited requests to open my private RJ pics. For all I know those pics will be spammed all over the Internet. And Photoshopped into gawd-knows-what.

    But with guys I trust I'll share. Which means I've gotta have at least some prior contact with them, maybe reading their forum posts, getting some sense of who they are, if they're to be trusted.

    Will I get some wrong? Undoubtedly. But then my private pics aren't especially revealing, anyway.
    i guess that is a safer way of going about it. but if u gonna meet a person in the end, is that not even more revealing? Im mean, for a guy who is half away across the world, i wouldnt mind too much since i know that the likeliness of us meeting is slim.
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    Aug 31, 2013 1:14 PM GMT
    SKM2 said
    Erik101 saidJust ask them. Who cares if they think you're desperate. It's the Internet and it's not like you and the guy are going to be best friends in the future. If he says no, then no big deal.
    eish but it not easy to be turned down. But it even worse to put yourself in that situation in the first place.


    Not for me and sorry you feel that way. If I ask them for their pics and they say no or if they don't respond, I move on.
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    Aug 31, 2013 2:07 PM GMT
    Just ask and don't be creepy about it. Also, don't sexualize your request (u makin' me hot I wanna...). Also, if they don't respond or say no, no big deal, move on.

    I notice some of the Adult pics are so revealing, I don't think you even need to see the private ones.
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    Aug 31, 2013 2:59 PM GMT
    The way I see it, some guys are anxious to show their "goods" to the world. Others get quite offended if you ask that first. Get to know the guy, read their profile, and simply ask. You never know what can happen. If they do, great, if not, well, no worries. For me, nudes are not everything. I prefer a great personality before nudes. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 31, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]PaulDee said[/cite]Just ask and don't be creepy about it. Also, don't sexualize your request (u makin' me hot I wanna...). Also, if they don't respond or say no, no big deal, move on.

    I notice some of the Adult pics are so revealing, I don't think you even need to see the private ones.[/quote
    ok, if ever i get courage to do it, ill follow ur advace. By the way u are the one that made think of this.
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    Aug 31, 2013 3:47 PM GMT
    ThatGuy100 saidThe way I see it, some guys are anxious to show their "goods" to the world. Others get quite offended if you ask that first. Get to know the guy, read their profile, and simply ask. You never know what can happen. If they do, great, if not, well, no worries. For me, nudes are not everything. I prefer a great personality before nudes. icon_biggrin.gif
    i dnt think, ill do it anytime soon. Before i edited, i wrote some nasty really stuff, just to get guys attention to answer my question, i guess just like slim2010 said it came out ,too sexual and a bit creepy plus desperate on top.
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    Aug 31, 2013 4:40 PM GMT
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    SKM2 saidOk dnt unlock private pics, i can see im not winning!!! But on the serious note how dou u go about it. It just that i saw a guy in one of the forums, who posted that he asked a guy to unlock his private pics for him. i always thought it was the other way around. So my real question is how do u feel when a guy ask u to do that and do u unlock them or not.


    If they don't open their pics with the request, I sure as hell aint opening mine! That's just rude!
    if i said to u, that i have had 50 resonses to my request would u then open it? I doubt


    I don't care if you got 5 or 500.
    You solicited an open invitation for guys to show their private pics to you. If you need that kind of attention, fine. But it's not necessarily the person you wanted to see either! That's very different than asking ONE person.
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    Aug 31, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
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    unckabasa said
    SKM2 saidOk dnt unlock private pics, i can see im not winning!!! But on the serious note how dou u go about it. It just that i saw a guy in one of the forums, who posted that he asked a guy to unlock his private pics for him. i always thought it was the other way around. So my real question is how do u feel when a guy ask u to do that and do u unlock them or not.


    If they don't open their pics with the request, I sure as hell aint opening mine! That's just rude!
    if i said to u, that i have had 50 resonses to my request would u then open it? I doubt


    I don't care if you got 5 or 500.
    You solicited an open invitation for guys to show their private pics to you. If you need that kind of attention, fine. But it's not necessarily the person you wanted to see either! That's very different than asking ONE person.

    Ok mate, no biggie!!!!!
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:26 PM GMT
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    ThatGuy100 saidThe way I see it, some guys are anxious to show their "goods" to the world. Others get quite offended if you ask that first. Get to know the guy, read their profile, and simply ask. You never know what can happen. If they do, great, if not, well, no worries. For me, nudes are not everything. I prefer a great personality before nudes. icon_biggrin.gif
    i dnt think, ill do it anytime soon. Before i edited, i wrote some nasty really stuff, just to get guys attention to answer my question, i guess just like slim2010 said it came out ,too sexual and a bit creepy plus desperate on top.


    Be careful what you wish for. You might get this:

    Ugly-Fat-Man-FAIL.jpg
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:32 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidThey are reserved for that special guy .... I think it is rude to ask people to let you see their privates .... That is something special they choose to share with another when the are ready to


    ahhh
    a true romantic.

    OP you have to catch them when they're horny.
    if they say no, wait two minutes then try again.
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    Aug 31, 2013 8:35 PM GMT
    I prefer the direct approach.

    "Show me your nudes."