Why not a "Cool List" as well as a "Hot List" here?

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    Sep 01, 2013 1:15 PM GMT
    "Hot List" implies to me what it probably does to everybody else here: The guy being listed is one you'd like to take to bed.

    But what if you read somebody's profile and think he seems cool? Maybe you've discovered someone else who loves to play nude bocce. Or he and you were both in the same branch of the military at about the same time. Or you each take pride in your green-pepper crepes. Whatever. "Wouldn't it be nice" to have a Cool List link to click, to show your interest in him isn't sexual or is more than that?

    As it stands I have to Hot List for a three-fold purpose, or one or two of the three:

    1. I'd like to have sex with you.
    2. You're sexually attractive, but it would never work.
    I wanted to give you props for a handsome face,
    great body, impressive equipment, etc regardless.
    3. Something in your written profile caught my
    attention. I've been to Bora Bora too! How cool
    is that? Let's compare notes.

    #1 is automatically assumed when #2 and/or #3 were intended to be communicated. Not much can be done about #2 of course, but a "Cool List" would remedy #3.
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    Sep 01, 2013 2:28 PM GMT
    Wouldn't #3 relate more to the buddy list?

    I mean .. I understand you clearly..
    .After comparing a notes on similar interests..if the connection is solid but not sexual.. Wouldn't the buddy list apply in this case?
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    Sep 01, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    I think the buddy list is the "Cool list here"


    I think it is

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    Sep 01, 2013 2:31 PM GMT
    well the cool list would be great. but i think that maybe the hot list includes it all..
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    Sep 01, 2013 2:54 PM GMT
    How about a "you live close to me so I'm throwing you a bone just in case" list? icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 01, 2013 6:58 PM GMT
    Put this "feature request" in line with the others.

    I wouldn't hold breath waiting.
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    Sep 02, 2013 2:06 PM GMT
    I'm not holding my breath, that's for sure. The breath holding is for IM's to come back. As if.

    "Buddy listing" I treat as something to do sparingly - after there's been some back-and-forth and the other guy and I have found that we get along. Of course there's also the brilliant idea of sending a message to start things off. icon_razz.gif

    IDK, I just kinda liked the idea of getting and giving "cool listings" as a quieter way of saying "I like."