24 yo, first time dating

  • MQFace

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    Sep 03, 2013 10:54 PM GMT
    Hello guys! I'm new here and I'm writing this because I really don't have anywhere else to turn. I don't feel like I can share this with my friends.

    I'm a 24 year old guy who's never ever been in a relationship before and I've only ever had sex once. I've always had major confidence issues and despite several efforts to improve in that department I somehow always end up hanging clouds over my life.

    So here's where I'm at right now, 3 months ago I started talking to a guy who's very interested in me. We texted all day and night for 2 months and met for the first time in the beginning of august. I was instantly drawn to him because he's such an amazing guy and we had such a good time together. We've seen each other 3 times since and each time has been better than the one before. We have an amazing connection and when we kiss there's tons of passion and chemistry. It's amazing on so many levels.

    Here's my problem. I've never allowed myself to get this far with a guy because I have major issues with myself and I'm really really scared! Things are starting to get serious and I'm constantly battling with myself. Like wtf am I doing? I'm really nervous about the next step, sex. I have no problems with my face but the thought of undressing in front of a guy just freaks me out.

    One of the things I'm self conscious about is the fact that I'm a quite hairy guy. There seems to be a trend of guys being completely hairless these days and I'm not. I keep myself groomed and clean looking but I still have hair all over my body except for my shoulders and back. It really makes me hate my body and I can't imagine someone my age actually liking it.

    Another thing is the size of my penis. The way my girlfriends talk about sex makes me feel totally worthless because to them anything under 6-7 inches is unacceptable and I'm only packing 5.

    I feel ridicules typing this out in words because I know how insane it sounds and I know that if this guy really likes me like he says he does, it won't matter but still I can't help but freak out over it. I'm so scared of being rejected and hurt that I just want to pull myself out of this situation while at the same time all I want is to be with him. He's all I've ever wanted in a guy, and more. I'm so confused and angry with myself that I'm not sure what to do.

    Rant over.
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    Sep 04, 2013 2:09 AM GMT
    If he really cares about you, your physical appearance will not matter.
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    Sep 04, 2013 8:46 AM GMT
    ThatGuy100 saidIf he really cares about you, your physical appearance will not matter.

    Any guy willing to go with someone for three months without having sex is in it for real. You haven't even traded shirtless selfies??? Sounds like a pretty safe bet to me!