Is this dude at the gym hitting on me/ flirting with me?!

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    Sep 06, 2013 8:12 PM GMT
    So today I went to the gym over my lunch hour.... I usually see this really smoking hot, tanned man with dark drown hair. So between each of my sets, we make small talk. He asks me if I was doing tough mudder this year, I said no I did not have the time and did not want to injure my ankle again like I did last year.

    Anyway, so as I'm working through my fourth set... I notice him leaving, he nods to say goodbye and I nod too. About 5-10 min later, I finish up my set and head down to the locker room, I notice he's on his blackberry as I pass by him at his locker. He undresses and goes into the shower area... a few minutes later I do the same. I have a quick shower and jump in the stream room for a quick relax... when I come out of the steam room. Guess who's drying off where all the benches are?

    We make small talk again as I'm getting ready to go into my shower stall. I take my shower, dry off and then head to my locker to grab my razor for a quick shave. When I go to the sinks, guess who is there shaving too?! We make small talk again, and then he goes back to his locker. I finish up and go to my locker and get dressed. I notice he is kind of lingering around after he gets dressed, as if he is waiting for something or someone... as I finish getting dressed, I turn my head around and he was gone icon_sad.gif

    Was this guy hitting on me?!
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    Sep 06, 2013 8:46 PM GMT
    lol no, he wasn't hitting on you. It appears he was just lingering around. I don't know what to make of it.
    This has been said a lot but it wouldn't hurt to ask. Maybe you can ask him if he ever had a girlfriend.
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    Sep 06, 2013 9:10 PM GMT
    lol strange set of events that all look coincidental. see if it happens again!
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    Sep 06, 2013 9:59 PM GMT
    Maybe you're hitting on him...you sure seemed to be following him around ;-)
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    Sep 06, 2013 10:07 PM GMT
    There have been quite a few times I was positive someone was sending out signals to me at the gym and then they did a 180.
    I'm thinking maybe sometimes people are really lonely and get too friendly too fast. I know I've done it.
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    Sep 06, 2013 10:11 PM GMT
    DaddyMark saidMaybe you're hitting on him...you sure seemed to be following him around ;-)


    Definitely was not.... if I was following him, I would've skipped my steam!
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    Sep 06, 2013 10:18 PM GMT
    Next time make a comment like 'if we keep meeting like this, we're going we're going to have start car pooling' icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 06, 2013 10:39 PM GMT
    The_Tango saidlol no, he wasn't hitting on you. It appears he was just lingering around. I don't know what to make of it.
    This has been said a lot but it wouldn't hurt to ask. Maybe you can ask him if he ever had a girlfriend.


    Those are inappropriate questions. You don't ask personal questions to someone you make small talk with. OP - sounds like a string of coincidences. I would continue to have chats with him the next time you see each other.
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    Sep 06, 2013 11:39 PM GMT
    Erik101 said
    The_Tango saidlol no, he wasn't hitting on you. It appears he was just lingering around. I don't know what to make of it.
    This has been said a lot but it wouldn't hurt to ask. Maybe you can ask him if he ever had a girlfriend.


    Those are inappropriate questions. You don't ask personal questions to someone you make small talk with. OP - sounds like a string of coincidences. I would continue to have chats with him the next time you see each other.


    Thanks! I know he has kids, but I don't know which way he swings.