Hookup Deal Breaker

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    Sep 08, 2013 5:59 AM GMT
    You're horned up, trying to make a connection online(Grindr, Adam4Adam, etc,) and it goes down in flames because the guy ...........?

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    Possible Hookup goes down in flames for me if a guy:

    Asks me 'how big?'. I know its only a hookup but the size of my package is your tipping factor!!? Get lost Size Queenicon_confused.gif
    Is a smoker
    Has a pet- in my experience it more than likely means the pets sleeps in his bed. Blechh!!icon_mad.gif
    Has an open relationshipicon_confused.gif
    Has a wife, girl or boy friendicon_confused.gif - Sorry not gonna help you cheat.

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    Sep 08, 2013 6:19 AM GMT
    gta5iscomingin11days saidi don't do hookups though i haven't ruled out the possibility of ever doing one. for the most part, i'm not interested in it. not my type of thing. so blah @ anybody that comes up to me with that shit as if i'm easy or weekend pussy or something to dispose of like a condom or something.


    It's admirable that you don't do them.

    In fact at one point I didn't do them - boy was that a long dry spell!icon_neutral.gif

    Now after meeting quite a few sundry personalities (read: Weirdos) I find myself defaulting back to no hookups. Not totally there yet but in the end a hookup isn't getting me any closer to what I really want.

    Being that I'm losing it for hookups could be why I have so many deal breakers. Hmmmmm!icon_idea.gif
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    Sep 08, 2013 7:16 AM GMT
    If he is HIV positive or tells me he has an STD.
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    Sep 08, 2013 8:27 AM GMT
    Lord_Trollileo said
    elektrisk564 saidIf he is HIV positive or tells me he has an STD.
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    Yeah. I'm not one of those gays who say things to be 'politically correct' then act differently. I say what I feel. I know that 'being real' is lost on most gay people but some people still practice what they preach.
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    Sep 08, 2013 11:01 AM GMT
    I just ask, do you hookup? If the answer is no, I'm not interested, if it's yes, I'm not interested. Damaged and immature people do the whole hookup thing, spreading insecurity and disease is just not that fascinating.
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    Sep 08, 2013 12:24 PM GMT
    I stopped doing hookups because guys on those apps are liars. Last one showed me his pic and he was hot. When I met him, it was definitely him.....but 10 years older and 50 lbs heavier.
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    Sep 08, 2013 1:29 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidI stopped doing hookups because guys on those apps are liars. Last one showed me his pic and he was hot. When I met him, it was definitely him.....but 10 years older and 50 lbs heavier.

    This was my problem when I did try hooking up online. The only time a fatter or older guy showed up, I just walked away. What is someone thinking when they lie and still show up, older and fatter?
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    Sep 08, 2013 1:37 PM GMT
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    Erik101 saidI stopped doing hookups because guys on those apps are liars. Last one showed me his pic and he was hot. When I met him, it was definitely him.....but 10 years older and 50 lbs heavier.

    This was my problem when I did try hooking up online. The only time a fatter or older guy showed up, I just walked away. What is someone thinking when they lie and still show up, older and fatter?


    Good for you for walking away. I did too but I was nice about it and told him it wasn't working. My guess is that older, fatter guys thinks guys won't say no when they meet face to face.
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    Sep 08, 2013 2:31 PM GMT
    Erik101 said
    madfacts said
    Erik101 saidI stopped doing hookups because guys on those apps are liars. Last one showed me his pic and he was hot. When I met him, it was definitely him.....but 10 years older and 50 lbs heavier.

    This was my problem when I did try hooking up online. The only time a fatter or older guy showed up, I just walked away. What is someone thinking when they lie and still show up, older and fatter?


    Good for you for walking away. I did too but I was nice about it and told him it wasn't working. My guess is that older, fatter guys thinks guys won't say no when they meet face to face.


    Good for both of you. I just never get what is in a person's mind when they post inaccurate pics or other info on a site where they are trying to actually meet the person who is looking at their inaccurate self. WTF.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I was once questioned why I would lie "up" my age. Kinda funny.
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    Sep 08, 2013 3:00 PM GMT
    elektrisk564 saidIf he is HIV positive or tells me he has an STD.


    Just imagine how many deliberately don't tell.

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    Sep 08, 2013 3:11 PM GMT
    Hookup dealbreakers for me:

    --'Master' looking for a 'sub' slave.
    --'Skiing' (cocaine)
    --No patience waiting for me to arrive, or for him to come to me. (insta-hookups)
    --Won't give out his name or his cell phone number.
    --Can't make conversation for more than three emails. He's just looking for a hole or a pole.
    --Uses outdated or some other person's pictures online.
    --Can't or won't suck cock.
    --Bad hygiene.. or wants to do scat sex.
    --Arranges a group without telling you.. or invites two guys to his place at the same time.
    --Fisting.
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    Sep 08, 2013 11:51 PM GMT
    PR_GMR saidHookup dealbreakers for me:

    --'Master' looking for a 'sub' slave.
    --'Skiing' (cocaine)
    --No patience waiting for me to arrive, or for him to come to me. (insta-hookups)
    --Won't give out his name or his cell phone number.
    --Can't make conversation for more than three emails. He's just looking for a hole or a pole.
    --Uses outdated or some other person's pictures online.
    --Can't or won't suck cock.
    --Bad hygiene.. or wants to do scat sex.
    --Arranges a group without telling you.. or invites two guys to his place at the same time.
    --Fisting.


    Yeah-all that just listed too! Ditto