Sep 09, 2013 7:48 AM GMT
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 yrs now. Lately we are having a lot of trouble, I mean a lot. I know he loves me and I too love him a lot and only this has taken us this far. We fight over so many things. Incidence that happened right now : We went out to a eatery but they didn't had what we wanted to eat so I asked him if he would rather chose something, after I suggested something he agreed even though we didn't really liked that idea so much and we were hungry. There was a misunderstanding in what he wanted among those 2 things as he wanted us to have a bit of both and I was unaware of it, he got angry when I gave him one and took one for myself, later on when I realized I forcibly made us to eat like he wanted and it all started there he said after that he wants to go home and stuff even though there was no such plans as we both were free tomorrow and today. While leaving he said he feels so measurable because he dont want to come to my place nor does he wants to go to his house. I asked him to come to my place he disagreed I didn't force him much because earlier he had given me a reason for him wanting to go to his house. He leaves and calls me from middle of his way crying and shouting at me saying I don't care. I want to get rid of him that's why I didn't stop him. I have no emotions. But I don't know what could I say, seriously I am feeling so sad in my heart that I make him feel like that and to make him feel that I dont care. I once in a while think I should not continue but I know he wont be able to take it I am afraid that he might do something wrong. Its not that I dont love him enough its just that sometimes I feel like when we so much problem with so many thing, is it really worth. almost every second day we have problem and we get sad anyways. It really is killing me. I also have asperger's syndrome, which we both are aware of. Please say put your views.