Newbie to being gay

  • Great1

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    Sep 09, 2013 7:34 PM GMT
    Hi im new to the gay world and i recently turned 18 and i have gay fantasies. I ve never been fucked nor have i performed oral ( i want to though). Im still in high school but all the guys here are just "UHH". Anyways i got a couple of questions.
    - Do guys like guys that look young? ( people say i look like im 15 or 16)
    - Do most guys prefer to fuck or be fucked? ( i prefer to be f)
    - Are gay gangbangs common in the gay world or is that just some porn thing? ( one of my fantasies)
    - Do most guys check for STDs? ( im scared that ill catch something)
    - Where do you guys hook up?
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    Sep 10, 2013 2:49 AM GMT
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    Sep 10, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    Welcome to RealJock, and welcome to the world of adult sexuality.

    Here's a suggestion which might help you to answer some of the questions which you have. Seek out an LGBT community center and/or an HIV/AIDS services center and see if they have any "Young and Gay" group meetings. These group meetings are generally formed to discuss some, if not all of the questions you asked. Not only will you be in a room of peers around your age, but the group is usually facilitated by a professional.

    Warning! Don't take everything you see here on RealJock at face value or too seriously. Get multiple view points and when in doubt, seek guidance from professional sources.

    Warning! RealJock can be like high school...only meaner. Don't let the asshats get you down. Just use the "Block Him" and "Ignore His Posts" on anybody who bullies you or makes unwelcome advances/comments towards you.

    As you become sexually active, be careful. Educate yourself first about sexually transmitted diseases and how to keep yourself clean and healthy. Again, going to an HIV/AIDS services center or LGBT community center is a great way to get accurate and reliable information.

    Aloha and Be Well!
    Alan
  • Hothouse

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    Sep 10, 2013 12:48 PM GMT
    Welcome.
    Some good advice above.

    Educate yourself on safe sex. Practice it. Assume anyone you hook up with is possibly infected. Don't do anything with anyone that you're not comfortable with. Protect your health, some guys don't give a shit about you, even though you're engaging in some very intimate acts. You have to look out for yourself at all times. Do most guys get tested? Probably not. Even if they say they do - guys lie, and some are very good at it. Just stay safe at ALL times.

    Don't get over anxious about doing stuff, it will happen in good time. I remember being young, a virgin, and thinking I'd explode if I didn't have sex soon. I didn't blow up, and I did, eventually have sex. All in good time.

    A lot of the stuff you see in porn is not common, including "gang bangs." Yeah, it seems hot - but porn is fantasy - and rarely reflects real life. Don't get me wrong, sex is fun and feels great - just be realistic, some things may not seem that good the first time around. Like everything else in life, you'll learn what feels good and what doesn't.

    Do guys like guys that look young? Yes, some do - a lot. Don't worry - you'll find a lot of guys into you.
    Do guys like to fuck or be fucked - both, again, don't worry - you'll find a lot of guys that want to do what you want to be done to you. And, don't assume you don't like something until you try it (or that you do like something until you try it.)
    Where to guys hook up? Anywhere they can get away with it - seriously, you'll figure that out too.

    Welcome to the world of being gay - it's wonderful at times and awful at times, and sometimes both at the same time. Hey, just like life for everyone - straight, bi, gay - whatever.
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    Sep 11, 2013 7:24 AM GMT
    gta5iscomingin7days saidso shy when it comes to your pic but google shows you from the waist down. it ain't your pic. icon_lol.gif

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    HA HA, busted!!! icon_lol.gif
    Obviously a newbie to fake profiles too! icon_biggrin.gif
    Big Ig time.
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    Sep 11, 2013 10:10 AM GMT
    gta5iscomingin7days saidso shy when it comes to your pic but google shows you from the waist down. it ain't your pic. icon_lol.gif

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    Smh lmfao