Who do you appeal to?

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    Nov 20, 2008 8:54 PM GMT
    Black and hispanic guys seem to like me a lot. But caucasian men seem indifferent.

    Do you have a type who find you appealing?
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:16 PM GMT
    That surprises me, because I find your pics appealing, and I'm Caucasian. Of course I'm in the States, and Brits may have different tastes, I dunno.

    I notice no patterns regarding racial or ethnic types and myself, but I do seem to attract professionals, the well-educated and successful. I think it's because I have a good vocabulary and use it in daily speech, a strong & authoritative voice, I'm fairly conversant on many topics, and very confident.

    My late parents constantly stressed to me the importance of projecting myself in a positive way, and I still follow their advice. I'm weak on physical looks and presence, small and easily overlooked. But conversationally I'm more impressive, as they taught me to be, so this is the strength I exploit.

    How would you describe yourself? How do you think the world sees you?
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:19 PM GMT
    Mostly white and blacks...can't really say I attract asians or latinos, funny since I am mixed..mostly asian and latino! :p

    Then there are the ones who live far far away, the players, the liars, the emotionally unavailable..


    I, on the other side, am mostly attracted to white guys.
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:25 PM GMT
    If I knew that, things would be a lot easier lol. I was hoping these kind of websites would give me an idea, but I'm not much wiser yet icon_smile.gif

    hopefully it'll be someone I'd find appealing myself.
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:27 PM GMT
    Republicans and non-caucasians seem to chase me. It's very disproportionate.
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:30 PM GMT
    Those who like red hair below the belt...
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:30 PM GMT
    the depraved, dictators in exile, traveling salesmen, truck drivers, interior decorators, and sales clerks.
  • wvdave

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    Nov 20, 2008 9:31 PM GMT
    Heavy, white women seem to be attracted to me, that isn't something I want!
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:33 PM GMT
    wvdave saidHeavy, white women seem to be attracted to me, that isn't something I want!


    Those are called Fag Hags. icon_lol.gif

    All colors of the rainbow find me appealing.
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:35 PM GMT
    ursamajor saidthe depraved, dictators in exile, traveling salesmen, truck drivers, interior decorators, and sales clerks.


    OMG!!! At least the interior decorators might be family, if perhaps a bit swishy for your tastes.
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:40 PM GMT
    Twinks and Bears.

    But hell when I was in college it was fat chicks and drag queens - no offense guys, just not my thing. oh no offense to the fat chicks either.
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:44 PM GMT
    I don't know. I have always been pretty stunned when it comes to knowing that a person found me attractive. It would usually require a subtle hint like "I think you are sexy do you want to sleep with me?", or "why haven't you asked me out yet?"

    I did not realize my partner found me attractive until he started dirty dancing with me at a gay bar in 1997. The rest was history. icon_redface.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 20, 2008 9:54 PM GMT
    Easy!
    I appeal to hot smart funny nice guys that are at least 1000 miles from me.
    As they get geographically closer, the higher the likelyhood that they will be already in a relationship, not out, unattractive to me, or somehow totally unavailable. I think I have some sort of proximity attribute destroyer field. Momma Medusa told me there'd be days like this....

    Other than that, seemingly no one in my vicinity.
  • OptimusMatt

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    Nov 20, 2008 10:02 PM GMT
    Yo - all the bitches love me. Mainly cause I like to bottom. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:09 PM GMT
    BioMatty saidYo - all the bitches love me. Mainly cause I like to bottom.


    Now THAT'S funny...and I tooootally understand!
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:17 PM GMT
    To my surprise I seem to appeal to younger girls, girls my own age, and older men from the late 20s to mid 40s.

    The ladies tell me they like because of how sweet and mature I can be.

    The men like the way I carry myself and tell me I have an old soul. They're surprised to know that someone as young as myself is so articulate and respectful.
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:24 PM GMT
    The dogs and cats seem to like me. Maybe it's the snacks in my pocket.
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:24 PM GMT
    liars, generally lol
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:29 PM GMT
    I guess I'm pretty much universally appealing (God that sounds self serving, but it is true). Maybe a different approach would be to describe who I do not appeal to: Someone who is unhappy, jealous, uneducated, ignorant, addicted, a slob, someone like the proverbial 5'2" cop having a bad day (or life). Those guys don't do well with me, or my type of guy. Generally, intelligent guys who take care of themselves and have goals, good attitudes and a spirit of adventure are guys I appeal to.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Nov 20, 2008 10:32 PM GMT
    Well..... Jockbod is indeed universally appealing.. even his voice seems to appeal in all dimensions.....LOL


    But I agree, I tend to have received interest from all races of men and certainly all ages... from aggressive 18 and 19 year olds, to those of retirement age.

    Interesting.
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:33 PM GMT
    I dunno.......
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:33 PM GMT
    Jeez, the narcissism is puke-inducing.
  • Bunjamon

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    Nov 20, 2008 10:34 PM GMT
    People who are way too old for me. I get hit on by people who always at least 15 years older than me. I want to date someone my own age (or maybe 5 years older? Maybe?)
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Nov 20, 2008 10:34 PM GMT
    HAHAHA to all the others cute responses. I have to say that here in cyberland it seems the really cute, smart, funny, educated guys that like me are also as bfcat57 said, at least 1,000 miles away from LA!

    Yes, the type that I find appealing is smooth, thin to average built, clean shaven, NICE guys! not sarcastic, bitchy or negative,
    Asian men get my notice first, but any guys that fit the other traits are certainly welcome.
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    Nov 20, 2008 10:35 PM GMT
    south asians.....and profiles with no pics that all the sudden buddy list me.