Things You Would.. or Have Stopped Doing For The Sake Of A Good Relationship

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    Sep 10, 2013 4:19 PM GMT
    Like stop watching porn, stop flirting on and offline, stay monogamous and give up the typical open relationship, stop looking at other guys and girls too if you are bi, smoking anything, give up a fetish(es), give up condoms if you truly trust each other, pretend you like his family. . . etc.

    Not saying these things make for a bad or goo relationship or saying when in the relationship they should happen..

    Just asking for your views

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    Sep 10, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    I allow my BF to stop using his hands to orgasm whenever I am fucking him. Isn't that sweet?

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    Sep 10, 2013 4:51 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidNothing anymore.
    I did that far too many times in relationships and wound up resentful.


    Huh? You never felt you had to change Anything in the smallest degree for compromise? Doesn't have to be big things.. even as small as going to bed a little earlier for him
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    Sep 10, 2013 5:11 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidI allow my BF to stop using his hands to orgasm whenever I am fucking him. Isn't that sweet?

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    Couples have to give up a lot of things, that included
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    Sep 10, 2013 6:10 PM GMT
    Somethings you give up because once you're in a relationship you have no need for it anymore.

    Somethings you give up to please your partner, and he does the same for you - you do it for the sake of the relationship.

    Somethings you don't give up, but you may compromise on.

    And, somethings you don't give up, because they are part of who you are and he accepts that fact.

    If you give up too much, feel forced into it, do it reluctantly, then you would become resentful.You can't lose your identity entirely, it's a relationship and not a dictatorship. Like Sharky said, give up damn near everything and you end up the resentful loser.

  • disasterpiece

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    Sep 10, 2013 6:27 PM GMT
    I stopped having sex with all the other handsome guys.

    Isn't that an amazing sacrifice ?

    I know, I know, but I'm taken, sorry.
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    Sep 10, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidI allow my BF to stop using his hands to orgasm whenever I am fucking him. Isn't that sweet?

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    Diabetes... Diabolically sweet.



    I've sacrificed for my relationships to make sure we were both sexually satisfied without harming each others' psyche. For instance, my first 10-year bud was a bi guy, so of course in order for him to be fully his natural self and as I don't care much for eating pussy, we required an open relationship.

    What did we have to give up?

    Petty jealousy.

    What did we get in return. Honesty and trust.

    I know, I know, it doesn't seem like a fair trade but sometimes you just have to make do.

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