FACEBOOK FIREWORKS: Acquaintance "unfriends" me on FB after I forgot our make out session in 1998.

  • HndsmKansan

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    Sep 11, 2013 1:57 AM GMT
    Now this thread is really kind of a chuckle. I had been "friended" on Facebook by a guy I know, but have only seen a handful of times since I came out. He's in his late 30's, always has been polite. I met him early (before I really had come out and before my long term relationship began with my partner (which started in September, 1998.) We had a make out session in a car.

    We had a conversation and he reminded me of the event. I couldn't remember that ever happened and said so. We never had sex. I just said I didn't remember that at all and he threw a fit. He basically called me a slut,.... that there must have been "so many" guys I can't remember some of those back then.(his comments) I really wasn't upset about forgetting, but I apologized since I really didn't recall. I'm an awesome kisser now, but back at the beginning, I probably wasn't. Surprised he even remembers it himself. He unfriended me off of Facebook.

    Of course I thought it was unnecessary drama. Do you remember every guy you ever kissed? He wasn't the first guy I kissed, but probably the 4th or 5th. One of the most memorable make out sessions came about that same time when a pilot from American Airlines had a layover in Wichita and we had a kissing session that lasted hours. Man that was hot.
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    Sep 11, 2013 2:00 AM GMT
    So what exactly are the ramifications of being unfriended on Facebook? Do people really take that seriously?
  • PR_GMR

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    Sep 11, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidKissed? I don't even remember every guy I've fucked.


    This x100. He unfriended because you didn't remember a kiss-out session? How dramatic. Good riddance to him, I say.
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    Sep 11, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    Just like the pilot you had a session with, the only ones I remember are the guys who can really kiss. There were three: my 2nd ex, the military guy at a club and the pretty boy with curly blond hair and perfect smile. icon_biggrin.gif

    But I also remember the ones who were awful kissers. The one I recall was a tall guy with a rocking body. He was terrible in bed as well as a kisser. He texted me his phone number and I deleted it when I left his place.
  • PR_GMR

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    Sep 11, 2013 3:53 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidJust like the pilot you had a session with, the only ones I remember are the guys who can really kiss. There were three: my 2nd ex, the military guy at a club and the pretty boy with curly blond hair and perfect smile. icon_biggrin.gif

    But I also remember the ones who were awful kissers. The one I recall was a tall guy with a rocking body. He was terrible in bed as well as a kisser. He texted me his phone number and I deleted it when I left his place.


    I hate awful kissers.. You know, the ones that just shove their tongue into your mouth and have no clue how to move it. Ugh.
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    Sep 11, 2013 3:57 AM GMT
    It's not really your fault if he's so "Forgettable".. icon_confused.gif

    He threw a fit?..lol
    Encourage him to set himself on fire on his next date..
    No one will forget that icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 11, 2013 4:28 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidKissed? I don't even remember every guy I've fucked.
    SLUT!

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    Sep 11, 2013 6:32 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidKissed? I don't even remember every guy I've fucked.


    Whore

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    Sep 11, 2013 6:36 AM GMT
    And given that I have about four years on you, just imagine the numbers I've been through.
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    Sep 11, 2013 9:20 AM GMT
    PR_GMR said
    Erik101 saidJust like the pilot you had a session with, the only ones I remember are the guys who can really kiss. There were three: my 2nd ex, the military guy at a club and the pretty boy with curly blond hair and perfect smile. icon_biggrin.gif

    But I also remember the ones who were awful kissers. The one I recall was a tall guy with a rocking body. He was terrible in bed as well as a kisser. He texted me his phone number and I deleted it when I left his place.


    I hate awful kissers.. You know, the ones that just shove their tongue into your mouth and have no clue how to move it. Ugh.


    I hate them too! This particular guy I was with liked to bite too and hard! I was like "WTF dude!"
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    Sep 11, 2013 6:50 PM GMT
    So based on the above responses (or lack of them) I can assume that the act of unfriending someone on Facebook would be considered a big deal - overreacting and dramatic?
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    Sep 11, 2013 6:54 PM GMT
    social media just adds to the annoyingness of drama queens.

    fck'em
  • Hothouse

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    Sep 11, 2013 6:58 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidKissed? I don't even remember every guy I've fucked.


    +1000 - not that I've been with a thousand guys, well, ah, maybe, I, have, yikes.
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    Sep 12, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    Just being analytical here. I'm thinking that perhaps he hasn't had sex with that many guys and because of that he remembers his kissing session with you. When you said you couldn't remember it you may have made some offhand remark about having had sex with various guys since that time, thus his slut remark. If he has a particularly fond memory of the kissing session with you it may have hurt his feelings to find out that you've forgotten it.
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    Sep 12, 2013 4:37 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidI hate awful kissers.. You know, the ones that just shove their tongue into your mouth and have no clue how to move it. Ugh.


    I hate them too! This particular guy I was with liked to bite too and hard! I was like "WTF dude!"
    Oh take it like a man! LOL What's with biting? I don't get that at all.
  • Fable

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    Sep 12, 2013 4:38 AM GMT
    This is a topic, why?
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    Sep 12, 2013 4:41 AM GMT
    eb925guy said
    Erik101 saidI hate awful kissers.. You know, the ones that just shove their tongue into your mouth and have no clue how to move it. Ugh.


    I hate them too! This particular guy I was with liked to bite too and hard! I was like "WTF dude!"
    Oh take it like a man! LOL What's with biting? I don't get that at all.


    And, pretty soon they're gnawing on a bone.

    There's gotta be a balance somewhere.

    It's like the thin line between "cuddling"...




    ...and "holding somebody down so that they can't get away".