Desire towards men with big age gap

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    Sep 11, 2013 5:49 PM GMT
    I am 25 and am attracted to men of age between 35 and 55. I never had attraction towards my peers. I fear that my desires are too odd and have difficulty in 'coming out'.
    Through this post, I expect persons in all age groups with similar desire express their feelings and share their experiences genuinly.
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    Sep 11, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    vishal_menon saidI am 25 and am attracted to men of age between 35 and 55. I never had attraction towards my peers. I fear that my desires are too odd and have difficulty in 'coming out'.
    Through this post, I expect persons in all age groups with similar desire express their feelings and share their experiences genuinly.

    Do not be ashamed of your attraction to older men - it's more common than you think. Personally, I generally am attracted to men and women in the range of slightly younger to slightly older than me but there have been a few exceptions. If you like older, that's great! Embrace it, love who you are and who you love.
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    Sep 11, 2013 6:36 PM GMT
    Im 21 and the guy I'm dating is 30. I don't see anything wrong with big age differences. You can't control who you're attracted to.
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    Sep 11, 2013 6:44 PM GMT
    i'm there with you dude. not really into guys my own age.

    if you're into older, just embrace it. there's no point in trying to force yourself to be attracted to your peers. you'll just drive yourself insane and be unhappy, because you can't control your attractions.

    why are some guys attracted to only asians? only white guys? only muscular guys? it's the same with age-based attractions. if we could control who we were attracted to, there would be very little or no gay people.

    the key is not giving a fuck about what others think, which is easier said than done. but you'll be happy once you reach that state of mind.



    p.s. 25 years old with a 35 or 40 year old is nothing.
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    Sep 11, 2013 6:45 PM GMT
    It keeps changing the older YOU get.