If U like it then U should've put a ring on it

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    Nov 21, 2008 3:07 AM GMT
    who in here would want to get married? also do u see yourself having kids?

    regardless of prop 8 and all that other bs.. hypothetically would u want to?
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    Nov 21, 2008 3:10 AM GMT
    I would get married ....with a prenup.....too much real estate involved. I would have liked to have children but I am too old now. It wouldnt be fair to the child.
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    Nov 21, 2008 3:32 AM GMT
    Married? Hmmm don't know..haven't been put in that position yet. Probably when the right guy arrives, under the right circumstances..I think I would.

    Kids? Nope, I lack the parenting gene plus I am severely allergic to kids.
  • DCEric

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    Nov 21, 2008 3:36 AM GMT
    Seb26 saidwho in here would want to get married? also do u see yourself having kids?

    regardless of prop 8 and all that other bs.. hypothetically would u want to?


    Yes. Yes.

    Not that US law would stop me anyway. I'm married if I say I am, and I can have children.

    (PS, some people in here can/are married)
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    Nov 21, 2008 4:19 AM GMT

    I'd get married. If I like it, I'll definitely put a ring on it, and stamp my name all o'r that ass!
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    Nov 21, 2008 4:30 AM GMT


    Done!
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    Nov 21, 2008 9:00 AM GMT
    Not so sure about marriage, though I'd say having a relationship without it could be settling as I'd prefer that commitment with someone. I've always figured that I'd marry an older man, as that's what I prefer, and deal with the kid situation from there. If he wanted to raise a child, then we'd do that. If not, I'd wait till he would keel over - I'd still be young and I'd just raise a kid on my own.
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    Nov 21, 2008 11:47 AM GMT
    Marriage yes. Want some kind of gvt recognized socially accecptable type thing. Doesn't have to be called "marriage" though. Kids, well I'm not that young anymore, though I'd like it.
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    Nov 21, 2008 12:02 PM GMT
    Seb26 saidwho in here would want to get married? also do u see yourself having kids?

    regardless of prop 8 and all that other bs.. hypothetically would u want to?


    To what does "all that other bs" refer? I would want to be officially married for the unique legal protections & social privileges my partner & I would gain. We're both too old to consider adopting children.
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    Nov 21, 2008 12:03 PM GMT
    I married in 2004 in Massachusetts. Our wedding bands are the same. Among other things, my spouse is my companion and my closest friend. However, neither of us want children.
  • GQjock

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    Nov 21, 2008 12:03 PM GMT
    Married yes

    Kids HELL no icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 21, 2008 12:27 PM GMT
    Married in Mass in 2004, civil union in CT in 2005, divorced in 2006.
    Now, in spite of what the divorce (and he) did to me, would I get married again? I would not rule it out, because it wouldn't be to my ex.
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    Nov 21, 2008 12:59 PM GMT
    Marriage...depends what you mean by it. Traditional husband/wife dynamic (obviously with two guys)...doubtful...

    I've spent a lot of time breaking up those dynamics in my head, thinking I could never have them, questioning their validity, wondering if they were valuable...so I wouldn't create that now.

    But some sort of LTR that is committed, long-lasting, and (thank you Federal Government) would have civil rights attached...yes.

    Kids? Lord no! I live an "adult" life...kids would combust on contact.
  • ShawnTX

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    Nov 21, 2008 1:00 PM GMT
    Married...yes

    I hate kids...they cut into the shoe budget. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 21, 2008 1:33 PM GMT
    Yes, and yes. I want one kid.
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    Nov 21, 2008 1:53 PM GMT
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  • njnick

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    Nov 21, 2008 2:03 PM GMT
    Lucky enough to live in one of the few states that recognizes 'civil unions' (although after Prop 8 who knows if they'll try to snatch it away from us someday). We got civil unioned last year after 10 years of living in sin ;)

    Can't see us having kids - just not something that either of us has ever been really into.
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    Nov 21, 2008 2:23 PM GMT
    Married - no

    Kids - no
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    Nov 21, 2008 2:32 PM GMT
    I've thought about getting married. Thought about it. Can't seem to find the guy that I'd take home to the 'rents - way too much is involved in that sort of ordeal.

    I've actually helped out with quite a few weddings, my mom being a florist. And I worked for a catering company, and at times, while at spectacular weddings, I've really felt that urge. But I think that was situational.

    As for kids...I'd totally adopt or foster kids, no problem. I think it'd be great actually. I know I could give them the home they need and love they deserve.
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    Nov 21, 2008 2:34 PM GMT
    Had a civil union in 2005. Would like to get married someday - yes.

    We already have 4 kids.

    NOTE: Every time I fill out a form or get asked, I put or say spouse/married and let them figure it out. Just my small protest every time I get the chance.
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    Nov 21, 2008 2:42 PM GMT
    Marriage...not the biggest thing to me although I definitely want to have the right to do so if I want to. However...I definitely want kids someday.
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    Nov 21, 2008 3:02 PM GMT
    married, yes. kids, most likely no. but i won't rule it completely out- who can predict what my future self will want?
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    Nov 21, 2008 3:07 PM GMT
    Marriage is the first step towards divorce!
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    Nov 21, 2008 3:09 PM GMT
    i would like to think so but it's one of those touchy subjects my bf and i don't seem to want to talk about...yet.

    but someday? sure. icon_biggrin.gif
    kids? no way.icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 21, 2008 3:11 PM GMT
    I don;t see it happening before I'm 30