The "Friend Zone"

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    Sep 12, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    I hear this pop up, and I know a lot of shallow vain teenage girls usually put Mr right into the friend zone and run after the bad boys who never show them attention and treat them like crap, but is the same true of us homos?

    You ever get Friend zoned by a crush? ever feel like Men don't know what they want?
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    Sep 12, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    I've friend-zoned a lot of guys and never heard back from them again, because they take it offensively. I'll admit that I am the type of guy that doesn't know what I want, but you can't control who you're attracted to.
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    Sep 12, 2013 4:57 PM GMT
    Lol purgatory.... i've put people in the friends zone before because i didnt want to seem like just because i wasent attracted to them dosent mean we cant still talk
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    Sep 12, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    Slim2010 saidI've friend-zoned a lot of guys and never heard back from them again, because they take it offensively. I'll admit that I am the type of guy that doesn't know what I want, but you can't control who you're attracted to.


    lol
    I was just going to say: count yourself lucky if you remain friends, as I never heard from them again.
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    Sep 12, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    I was just watching this video on youtube:




    The top comment was: One day I will have a son. He will´╗┐ ask me for advice concerning girls. I will show him this video and have him listen to Dr. Dre's "Bitches Ain't Shit" once a day for a month. I will do these things in order to spare him the frustration of becoming the nice guy who women like as a friend but don't sleep with.

    +1
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    Sep 12, 2013 9:38 PM GMT
    ReluctantPromises saidI typically stop speaking to them. I don't need friends.

    I typically friend zone guys but I make it known we still will have sex every once in a while otherwise I don't need gay friends in my life. Pointless.


    lol...
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    Sep 13, 2013 4:11 AM GMT
    i2ci2i said
    ReluctantPromises saidI typically stop speaking to them. I don't need friends.

    I typically friend zone guys but I make it known we still will have sex every once in a while otherwise I don't need gay friends in my life. Pointless.


    lol...


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  • BloodFlame

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    Sep 15, 2013 9:43 PM GMT
    I haven't asked out a guy before offline and I'm a loner so yeah... The only rejection I've really gotten was online. And I'm used to it now because I realize that you can't be everyone's type. So if I were to get friendzoned, I wouldn't take it to heart and would hope that we could still be friends and like catch a movie or go to a concert.

    I've friendzoned a few guys and they usually stop talking after that. I feel bad when I do it but like CopperDevil said, you can't help what you aren't attracted to. There's only one guy who I friendzoned who still talks to me every now and then.

    But at the end of the day, I agree with gta5
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    Sep 15, 2013 9:49 PM GMT
    i2ci2i saidI was just watching this video on youtube:




    The top comment was: One day I will have a son. He will´╗┐ ask me for advice concerning girls. I will show him this video and have him listen to Dr. Dre's "Bitches Ain't Shit" once a day for a month. I will do these things in order to spare him the frustration of becoming the nice guy who women like as a friend but don't sleep with.

    +1


    My sister (who is lesbian) always said the girls respond when you act like you are totally not interested in them, makes them want to work harder, gives them a challenge.

    Funny enough, I am the exact opposite, so I do not understand it. I have had guys interested in me try that route. The result is usually that I just disappear immediately. Though i know it works for a few girls I know.
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    i2ci2i said
    You ever get Friend zoned by a crush? ever feel like Men don't know what they want?


    Uhm, it happened to me a couple of times... But I am sure they knew what they wanted.
    Thanks to them tho, they didn't waste my time,
    and one day I met my lovely boyfriend who didn't friend-zone me.

    So I think the act of friend-zoning is good for everyone involved icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 16, 2013 5:18 AM GMT
    What we do, we friendzone the one who's attracted to us, the one we're attracted to friendzone us. And the cycle goes on and on.
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    Sep 16, 2013 5:21 AM GMT
    I just had a guy that I'd been friendly with on Ok Cupid express interest in, well, getting busy. It came out of nowhere.

  • tuffguyndc

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    Sep 16, 2013 5:37 AM GMT
    i put a lot of people in the friend zone simply because i am not attracted to them in that way. while dating women i was put into the friend zone a lot because i was the good guy. i was actually told by a group of hot chicks in college that they don't see me as a one night stand but i am the guy that they will marry. ha ha ha i didn't know how to feel about that remark. anyhow, i feel like most gay men do not really want friends. they just say it because it sounds better than. yeah, you are not quite my type. ha h aha ha when someone uses that term they almost never call back
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    Sep 16, 2013 5:41 AM GMT
    I've friend zoned and have gotten friend zoned a lot. Doesn't bother me at this point, because there's always someone sexier waiting in the wings anyway. icon_lol.gif