Is everyone on grindr looking for white guys?

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    Sep 12, 2013 11:09 PM GMT
    Most gays of all races have been conditioned to prefer whites - nothing new there - but there has always been enough attractive exceptions to the cliche for me to choose from, even online. I get almost 10 messages a day on jackd.

    Out of curiosity - and impatience with this guy I'm courting on jackd - i downloaded grindr last week to see if they really do cut to the chase there. Received zero messages with body pic and "Asian"... i removed "Asian" and got dozens of messages a day. My face is better than body but when i send pics to the handful I'm actually interested in, most immediately stop chatting. Ultimately no one in my league was interested, even tho most of the guys I messaged were Asian.

    I told my friends and they were like "why would u use grindr, u don't even like white guys". Fact is I do but my standards for them is the same as for other races, which isn't normal apparently. So is grindr just for potato queens?
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    Sep 12, 2013 11:20 PM GMT
    Yes. Get over it. icon_neutral.gif
  • Jockasian703

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    Sep 16, 2013 11:16 PM GMT
    Just preferences... Although my boyfriend is white, I find all races attractive.
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    Sep 17, 2013 12:18 AM GMT
    I think guys on Grindr are looking for cock, which means most of these banal neanderthals are color blind.
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    Sep 17, 2013 4:29 PM GMT
    Anybody for Shaun Ross?

    Blond hair and blue eyes.

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    He's a "white" boy, right?
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    Sep 23, 2013 3:48 AM GMT
    I have been on RJ for no more than 15 minutes and I have stumbled across at least 4 similar threads on the subject of dating white men specifically with troubles gripes and frustrations associated. What the hell is going on with this site???icon_question.gif
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    Sep 23, 2013 11:19 AM GMT
    I hope I never give in to getting grindr.
  • rnch

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    Sep 23, 2013 2:33 PM GMT
    As Always: it depends on the other guy icon_exclaim.gif
  • jtz03932

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    Sep 24, 2013 9:42 PM GMT
    Nobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:14 PM GMT
    jtz03932 saidNobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1


    False. I like Asians. Crushing on an Asian guy right now. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 26, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
    failscarf said
    DweebDude said
    jtz03932 saidNobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1


    False. I like Asians. Crushing on an Asian guy right now. icon_smile.gif


    Interesting hotlist though.


    I think I know what you're trying to say but I'd rather you clarify. What's your point?
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    Sep 26, 2013 3:14 PM GMT
    failscarf said
    DweebDude said
    failscarf said
    DweebDude said
    jtz03932 saidNobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1


    False. I like Asians. Crushing on an Asian guy right now. icon_smile.gif


    Interesting hotlist though.


    I think I know what you're trying to say but I'd rather you clarify. What's your point?


    Interesting hotlist though.


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    What's interesting about it?

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    Sep 26, 2013 5:20 PM GMT
    DweebDude said
    failscarf said
    DweebDude said
    failscarf said
    DweebDude said
    jtz03932 saidNobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1


    False. I like Asians. Crushing on an Asian guy right now. icon_smile.gif


    Interesting hotlist though.


    I think I know what you're trying to say but I'd rather you clarify. What's your point?


    Interesting hotlist though.


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    What's interesting about it?



    I'm going to guess it's because you have 3 guys on your Hot List and they are white. LOL
    As if 3 guys tells all about your likes.
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    Sep 26, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    unckabasa said
    DweebDude said
    failscarf said
    DweebDude said
    failscarf said
    DweebDude said
    jtz03932 saidNobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1


    False. I like Asians. Crushing on an Asian guy right now. icon_smile.gif


    Interesting hotlist though.


    I think I know what you're trying to say but I'd rather you clarify. What's your point?


    Interesting hotlist though.


    image

    What's interesting about it?



    I'm going to guess it's because you have 3 guys on your Hot List and they are white. LOL
    As if 3 guys tells all about your likes.


    And two of them are actually Latino. Even then, if I have two Latinos and a white guy on my hotlist that means I'm not into Asian men? Ridiculous.
  • Blackjack1120

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    Sep 26, 2013 6:52 PM GMT
    As always, blame your problems on the white man.
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Sep 26, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    Im so sick of race threads.Not every gay man is only into white men.Work with what God gave you.If they aren't attracted to you move on images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSi5KqnZW9SgaQj-Xrw7-b
  • jasian

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    Oct 06, 2013 7:10 PM GMT
    It's sad to see my fellow asians think this way.

    I don't have a lot of experience in the gay dating, but when I used online dating apps/sites (including grindr) there are a fair amount of white guys as well as guys of other races who initiated conversations with me. And yes, I wrote "Asian" on my profile.

    Put yourself in white guys' shoes, I think they also like to date guys who are confident and comfortable in their own skins, and who take care of themselves. All the negativity won't lead you anywhere.

    jtz03932 saidNobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1
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    Oct 06, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    I am always surprised to hear that torso pics are actually more successful than face pics, although I have heard it enough to believe it. If I get a message from a torso pic I always block or ignore. Even if they send a face pic, who's to say the face belongs to the same person as the torso?
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    Oct 07, 2013 2:20 AM GMT
    No not really! I'm rarely on Grindr and I logged on sometimes just for fun. The last 3 guys messaged me were white guys and I ignored/didn't reply to all 3. One was from out of town, one was 21 and the other a guy I ignored about 6 months ago! I guess the common denominator was they're not really my types!

    Lol Then again, I don't take Grindr seriously and I only met 2 guys on there for a short coffee date, nothing span out more than that! Most guys on Grindr want a quick fuck anyway and I'm not about to be on their long list of booty calls!
  • jtz03932

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    Oct 08, 2013 8:01 PM GMT
    jasian saidIt's sad to see my fellow asians think this way.

    I don't have a lot of experience in the gay dating, but when I used online dating apps/sites (including grindr) there are a fair amount of white guys as well as guys of other races who initiated conversations with me. And yes, I wrote "Asian" on my profile.

    Put yourself in white guys' shoes, I think they also like to date guys who are confident and comfortable in their own skins, and who take care of themselves. All the negativity won't lead you anywhere.

    jtz03932 saidNobody like Asians... we are forever alone...

    Rule #1: Never mention your race
    Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1


    It's because they ignore your profile and look at your torso pic thinking you're white. Slap your asian face in there and see what happens.
  • jasian

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    Oct 08, 2013 9:07 PM GMT
    [quote]

    It's because they ignore your profile and look at your torso pic thinking you're white. Slap your asian face in there and see what happens.[/quote]

    You are stubborn!

    God helps those who help themselves, good luck.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Oct 08, 2013 9:26 PM GMT
    "It's a shame, shame, shame".....

    "It's a white world afterall".....

    Every race has its' hotties icon_smile.gif .....

    Spread the love icon_smile.gif .....
  • jtz03932

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    Oct 08, 2013 9:59 PM GMT
    jasian said

    You are stubborn!

    God helps those who help themselves, good luck.


    then who needs God...
  • princekael

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    Oct 16, 2013 12:51 PM GMT
    well. I like beefy guys with beards and unfortunately it's uber rare to have an Asian like that.. though there are some smexy Asian bears icon_razz.gif but usually they're out of my league or like myself, prefer bears.

    and yeah, putting "Asian" reduces the number of msgs one receives. though I've learnt to live with it... after all I living in a white country, expected response haha
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    Oct 16, 2013 3:17 PM GMT
    Thats called preferences. Time to get over it.